You ask, “Why is this so friggin’ hard?”  Is it?  Arguing against the truth is hard.  Resisting things that you wish were different is hard.  Becoming aware of how you create self-imposed suffering is simple.  In this episode, Steve talks about struggle and its purpose and brings to light the lessons inside the toxic dance within a couple.


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Ep. 109 Why is this so Friggin' Hard?

The way to a final divorce decree can follow several paths.  The traditional, or socially branded, path is the path of litigation.  Many have found litigation not the right fit and even have regrets with the outcome it produced.  Alternative divorce methods, like mediation, pro-se (or kitchen table), and arbitration, are becoming more prevalent.  In this episode, Steve compares the traditional and alternative paths, and shares both benefits and weaknesses of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods.

Ep 110 Alternative Divorce Options

Listen to Steve talk about the three stages of personal transition, and the transition a couple makes as they divorce.  Steve talks about the importance of setting aspirations for each type of transition - personal and relationship.

Ep 111 Setting Aspirations

In this episode, Steve challenges the instinct to rely solely on thriftiness during major life changes such as divorce, emphasizing the importance of investing in oneself instead. He explores strategies for elevating personal and relationship capacities swiftly, even amidst the timeline and procedural intricacies of divorce. Tune in as we discover how to shift from thriftiness to strategic investment, ensuring not just stability but growth during transformative life events.

Ep. 112 Making the Most Progress in the Shortest Amount to Time

Explore the profound insights uncovered in this podcast episode as we delve into the transformative journey of healing emotional pain during divorce. Discover strategies to navigate conflict, elevate relationships, and enhance financial acumen for a brighter future. Tune in for empowering guidance on creating the divorce outcome you truly desire.

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Ep 113 Building Immunity to Pain

In this episode, we unravel the complexities of divorce fear and the transformative power of personalized support. Delving into the concept of weak spots, we uncover how these areas of vulnerability can hinder our journey through divorce. From the illusion of security surrounding material possessions to the importance of action-based and supernatural faith, we explore strategies to navigate fear and uncertainty. Joined by a specialized divorce coach, we discuss the pivotal role of personalized support in identifying and addressing these fears, offering actionable strategies for a seamless transition. Tune in to gain insights on overcoming divorce fear and unlocking a sense of peace and empowerment through personalized divorce support.

Ep 114 Ending with Un-Equal Fears

In this episode, we explore the transformative potential of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), particularly mediation, in divorce proceedings. While litigation offers a formal trial, ADR methods provide couples with greater control over the process. However, success in mediation relies on proactive engagement and addressing underlying conflicts. A recent client's story highlights common pitfalls, emphasizing the importance of thorough preparation and communication. True empowerment in divorce comes from taking responsibility for actions and decisions. By embracing mediation with commitment, individuals can shape a smoother transition and a more fulfilling post-divorce future.

Ep 115 Taking Control of Divorce Decisions Through Mediation

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of divorce, often viewed only as a challenging phase, but actually a profound opportunity for personal growth and change. Our discussion centers around how the application of universal laws can not only help you navigate your divorce with resilience but also enable you to adopt a proactive strategy for positive transformation in your life.

Ep 116 Shifting Your Divorce Through the 7 Universal Laws

In this podcast episode, we explore the transformative power of asking, "What would love do now?" during the challenging experience of divorce. Through personal stories and practical advice, we delve into how this guiding question can help you make positive choices, practice forgiveness, and turn pain into a journey of healing and growth. Join us as we uncover ways to navigate divorce with grace, embrace love in non-traditional forms, and create a foundation for a brighter future.

Ep 117 Allowing the Past to Influence Your Choice Now

In this insightful episode, we delve into the emotional journey of divorce, starting with the often intense feelings of anger that initiate the process. Anger, while a powerful catalyst for change, can also hinder our ability to fully transition and find closure. Drawing on concepts from William Bridges' seminal book, Transitions, we explore how many divorcees struggle to complete the "Ending" phase due to unresolved anger.

Join us as we discuss the importance of looking beneath the surface of anger to uncover the underlying sadness. By addressing this deeper emotion, we can begin to accept the divorce, allowing ourselves to truly complete the ending phase and move forward. Whether you're going through a divorce, know someone who is, or are simply interested in the psychology of major life transitions, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for achieving emotional resolution and finding peace.

Ep 117 Allowing the Past to Influence Your Choice Now

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