In this episode, Steve highlights results from the compilation of "Divorce Suckiness Assessments", and explains why certain common themes are most challenging.   

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Ep 54 Breaking Down "Suckiness"

Divorce presents all sorts of situations that allows us to distort reality, and then invite anxiety, depression, and forms of panic into our now moments.  In the episode, Steve sheds light on how it is easy to distort reality and anchor oneself to where he doesn't want to be.

In the podcast extra, he shares a simple techinque to break out facts from distortions as a way to see the reality more clearly. 

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Ep 63 When You Distort Reality

Divorce will often times present complexities that can't be solved in the mental realm.   Something else is needed for you to release those areas of resistance.  This is what we talk about on this episode.  How we go about releasing the things we resist, and let go of the things that create our self-imposed suffering.   

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Ep 64 Filtering Divorce Challenges Through the Spiritual Domain

In this episode we talk about moving beyond the "no for now" posture into releasing the possibility for a "yes".  Steve shares a situation that showed him it's time to stop resisting what was once a form of protection, the "no for now".  

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Ep 65 Ending the "No for Now"

The biggest obstacle to peace is our willingness to let it go.  As we face difficult people and situations, we are presented with a choice to live with either a form of internal chaos or peace.  In this episode, Steve talks about empowering yourself to find "micro-miracles" in the large window of divorce uncertainty. 

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Ep 66 Biggest Obstacle to Peace

In this episode, I speak to the role faith plays in divorce. 

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Ep 67 Faith

It can be hard to be your best-self when presented with divorce and relationship challenges.  Often the elements of toxicity make it seem like the only choice is to guard and protect what can be hurt.  Yet, as you guard and protect, you can easily stay in a cycle of anguish.  In this episode, I give tips on how to offer the best version of yourself despite the circumstance. 

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Ep 68 Best-Self Tug-o-War

What has caused the feeling that you are feeling right now?  What's the cause of the uncomfortable circumstance you find yourself in?  Is it a bad decision in the past?  Is it someone else's actions or attacks on you?  It's how you answer these last two questions that dictate the life experiences you have right now.    

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Ep 69 Allowing the Past to be the Cause of Your Pain

Divorce presents things that are unfair, and threaten dreams and desire for certainty.  In this episode, I share context of a real situation to help listeners as they too search to know what to do when something threatens the very thing they want. 

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Ep 70 Wanting to Know What to Do

The second tier of divorce is the "divorce from dreams".  It's divorcing from the dream around any future want.  We form these constructs, often with the help of society, and when they are threatened the result is fear, doubt, worry and even high degrees of unfairness.  In this episode, Steve talks about threats to these constructs as the legal process works to solidify old money and new money settlements, and why it's important to work through the divorce from the inside out. 

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Ep 71 Old Money, New Money and Divorcing from a Construct

We approach divorce with a construct of the way things "should be".  It's this construct that drives much of one's behavior and reactions.  In this episode, Steve talks about personal divorce constructs and how they can block best outcomes.

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Ep 54 Breaking Down "Suckiness"

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