In this episode, Steve talks about how the "ending of un-equals" is perpetuated during the invisible divorce phase.  He shares details as to how one person's fear around divorce will cause them to self-protect their interests, while they disengage during the marriage and build courage to ask for divorce.  He explains how this ends up perpetuating the other person's self-protection.  Thereby, widening the gap with the "ending of un-equals".  

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Ep 57 Perpetuating the Ending of Un-Equals

Divorce will often times present complexities that can't be solved in the mental realm.   Something else is needed for you to release those areas of resistance.  This is what we talk about on this episode.  How we go about releasing the things we resist, and let go of the things that create our self-imposed suffering.   

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Ep 64 Filtering Divorce Challenges Through the Spiritual Domain

In this episode we talk about moving beyond the "no for now" posture into releasing the possibility for a "yes".  Steve shares a situation that showed him it's time to stop resisting what was once a form of protection, the "no for now".  

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Ep 65 Ending the "No for Now"

The biggest obstacle to peace is our willingness to let it go.  As we face difficult people and situations, we are presented with a choice to live with either a form of internal chaos or peace.  In this episode, Steve talks about empowering yourself to find "micro-miracles" in the large window of divorce uncertainty. 

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Ep 66 Biggest Obstacle to Peace

In this episode, I speak to the role faith plays in divorce. 

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Ep 67 Faith

It can be hard to be your best-self when presented with divorce and relationship challenges.  Often the elements of toxicity make it seem like the only choice is to guard and protect what can be hurt.  Yet, as you guard and protect, you can easily stay in a cycle of anguish.  In this episode, I give tips on how to offer the best version of yourself despite the circumstance. 

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Ep 68 Best-Self Tug-o-War

What has caused the feeling that you are feeling right now?  What's the cause of the uncomfortable circumstance you find yourself in?  Is it a bad decision in the past?  Is it someone else's actions or attacks on you?  It's how you answer these last two questions that dictate the life experiences you have right now.    

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Ep 69 Allowing the Past to be the Cause of Your Pain

Divorce presents things that are unfair, and threaten dreams and desire for certainty.  In this episode, I share context of a real situation to help listeners as they too search to know what to do when something threatens the very thing they want. 

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Ep 70 Wanting to Know What to Do

The second tier of divorce is the "divorce from dreams".  It's divorcing from the dream around any future want.  We form these constructs, often with the help of society, and when they are threatened the result is fear, doubt, worry and even high degrees of unfairness.  In this episode, Steve talks about threats to these constructs as the legal process works to solidify old money and new money settlements, and why it's important to work through the divorce from the inside out. 

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Ep 71 Old Money, New Money and Divorcing from a Construct

We approach divorce with a construct of the way things "should be".  It's this construct that drives much of one's behavior and reactions.  In this episode, Steve talks about personal divorce constructs and how they can block best outcomes.

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Ep. 72 Your Construct of Divorce

The fabric of an old life can cause you to hold onto what once was, and prevent you from allowing your new life to unfold.  In this process, you can get trapped in thinking about all that you lost, instead of grasping what is here now.  In this episode, I share an analogy from David Brooks' book, "The Second Mountain" to help with letting go of the fabric of your old life.   

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Ep 57 Perpetuating the Ending of Un-Equals

Steven Schleupner