Is there a right way to fight in a relationship ?

It is safe to say that the Walk Of Shame Radio Podcast Tribe is no stranger to concept we touch on every single show that relationships are tough and take tons of work and communication.
 
This week Tony and I touch on the art of "fighting".
 
A lot of people think it is in fact, normal for couples to fight and if the fights aren't occurring on a regular basis something is wrong.
 
HELL NO!
 
This thought is EVERYTHING wrong with relationships and we are here to speak about the healthy balance when it comes to disagreements with you and your SO. 
 
First the term FIGHT rubs me the wrong way. As we are the engineers of our own mind I want to make clear my definition of a "fight" before we dive to deep into this conversation. 
 
Fight- Lack of communication that leads to one purposely saying harmful things leading to uncontrolled emotions. 
 
(While listening to this episode keep in mind when we say fight we mean)
 
Adult Disagreement- a disagreement between to individuals that are yet to be on the same page but have full potential to be aware of each others opinions. 
 
Before you dive into this episode here is a small piece of advice we speak about on tackling an issue right when it arises.
 
While doing this In an appropriate manner you are not letting the issue linger and evolve into a FIGHT.
 
The sooner you talk about your insecurities the sooner you get back to loving each other. Which is the point of sharing emotional space with this person that you chose to explore. 
 
Before you dive into this episode keep in mind...
 
  ...being passionate about your opinions is a beautiful thing, but what can become more beautiful is learning and growing together with someone who was once a complete stranger to you but by the grace of the universe, two individuals came together for a reason.
 
Enjoy! 

The Right Way to Fight in a Relationship

Today I bring my friend and fellow entrepreneur, Angela, back on the show to talk about her real time Purpose Project journey.

When I say Purpose Project, I mean that thing or niche that you feel is your thing...is your special gift you have to share with the world.

It's not necessarily a side hustle just to make extra money...actually it's not that at all.

A Purpose Project is about giving time and energy to that hobby or business idea that is the truest expression of who you are and what you have to offer to this world...basically, it's a legacy project.

When your dead and buried, how will people remember you?  Your Purpose Project is the answer to that question.

On the show this week, Angela briefly fills us in on how crazy it is to plan a wedding, then talks about her real life ongoing search and stuggles as she wades into the entrepreneurial waters of her Purpose Project.

Some of the things we talk about include:
- What is the Entrepreneurial itch and what to do if you have it?
- The First Step in exploring an interest that will lead to a Purpose Project
- When to pull the trigger and start things in motion
- How to use your tribe's opinions without second guessing yourself
- How a Skills and Interests List can help you to focus on your message
- The role of self-doubt along the journey and the reason why it's ok
- Why is Modeling so important in this process?
- Why focusing on making a buck is a huge mistake
- Should you go all in or keep your day job?

As always, I have the three Feel Good Stories of the week at the beginning of the show.  

And, you can find all of the podcasts and show videos at www.javabud.com

The videos are also posted on my YouTube channel (thejavabud).

Anything to add?  hit me up at tony@javabud.com

Peace...

A Perfect Example of a Purpose Project

This show is designed to Entertain, Educate and Enlighten you to rise above the roadblocks and confusion and live life on your own terms. Along with special guests, Tony Dufresne, PhD (Philosopher, Author, Speaker, Personal Coach) is all about EMPOWERING YOU by sharpening your critical thinking skills and sharing tips and advice on topics you face every day like feeling lost, making a big life decision, relationship conflicts, creating a sense of purpose and direction in life, being true to who you really are, dating, break-ups, finding a job, changing careers and creating loving relationships. Welcome to the Surrounded by Idiots Radio Podcast.

A Perfect Example of a Purpose Project

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