Is there a right way to fight in a relationship ?

It is safe to say that the Walk Of Shame Radio Podcast Tribe is no stranger to concept we touch on every single show that relationships are tough and take tons of work and communication.
 
This week Tony and I touch on the art of "fighting".
 
A lot of people think it is in fact, normal for couples to fight and if the fights aren't occurring on a regular basis something is wrong.
 
HELL NO!
 
This thought is EVERYTHING wrong with relationships and we are here to speak about the healthy balance when it comes to disagreements with you and your SO. 
 
First the term FIGHT rubs me the wrong way. As we are the engineers of our own mind I want to make clear my definition of a "fight" before we dive to deep into this conversation. 
 
Fight- Lack of communication that leads to one purposely saying harmful things leading to uncontrolled emotions. 
 
(While listening to this episode keep in mind when we say fight we mean)
 
Adult Disagreement- a disagreement between to individuals that are yet to be on the same page but have full potential to be aware of each others opinions. 
 
Before you dive into this episode here is a small piece of advice we speak about on tackling an issue right when it arises.
 
While doing this In an appropriate manner you are not letting the issue linger and evolve into a FIGHT.
 
The sooner you talk about your insecurities the sooner you get back to loving each other. Which is the point of sharing emotional space with this person that you chose to explore. 
 
Before you dive into this episode keep in mind...
 
  ...being passionate about your opinions is a beautiful thing, but what can become more beautiful is learning and growing together with someone who was once a complete stranger to you but by the grace of the universe, two individuals came together for a reason.
 
Enjoy! 

The Right Way to Fight in a Relationship

This week Tony and his long-time colleague Lexi Rodriguez take on the topic of, "Is Adulting Helping or Hurting Millennials?"

This episode of the Surrounded by Idiots Radio Podcast is in search of why the term and concept of "adulting" was created by the Millennial Generation in the first place, and I wanted some Millennial feedback on how they believe popularizing a common transition from adolescent into adulthood is benefiting their generation?

In the show, Tony and Lexi talk about the number of ways this term has been used through standard print and social media and also pick out a couple of examples to talk about.  

The recent article in Cosmopolitan about Adulting is particularly inviting to analyze as both Tony and Lexi believe it had a lot of good points and a spot-on message to Millennials.

With the term "adulting" being adopted by social media outlets such as Elite Daily, Buzzfeed, Uproxx and even the Huffington Post, and used as a marketing pitch to get Millennials to click and "relate", it's no wonder the term is so widely accepted.

Which is what Tony and Lexi believe to be the problem as they tackle the possibilities that the label is taken by some Millennials as an excuse to grow up, while other Millennials use it as a way to distinguish themselves from the rest of the pack to show they have their shit together more so that most of their friends.

There are many layers to this term and it was fun to dive in and expose both the positive and negative aspects of "adulting".

Remember, you can go to the Javabud.com podcast page for more extensive show notes and links to all of the articles discussed in the show.

Is Adulting Helping or Hurting Millennials?

This show is designed to Entertain, Educate and Enlighten you to rise above the roadblocks and confusion and live life on your own terms. Along with special guests, Tony Dufresne, PhD (Philosopher, Author, Speaker, Personal Coach) is all about EMPOWERING YOU by sharpening your critical thinking skills and sharing tips and advice on topics you face every day like feeling lost, making a big life decision, relationship conflicts, creating a sense of purpose and direction in life, being true to who you really are, dating, break-ups, finding a job, changing careers and creating loving relationships. Welcome to the Surrounded by Idiots Radio Podcast.

Is Adulting Helping or Hurting Millennials?

Surrounded by Idiots Radio Podcast

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