In this episode, I’m joined by Professor Paul Gilbert and Professor Jeremy Holmes. Paul is the developer of Compassion Focused Therapy and one of the world’s leading clinical psychologists studying the scientific application of compassion in therapeutic practice. Jeremy is an award winning attachment expert, clinician, and author, whose books include: In Search of the Secure Base, Attachment & Psychotherapy, and most recently The Spirit of Psychotherapy. 

In this wide ranging discussion, we explore:

— The difference between “safety” and “safeness” and why this is vital to understand in therapeutic practice

— How early attachment dynamics shape our developmental trajectory and relationships throughout life

— How attachment theory helped to form the theoretical foundations of Compassion Focused Therapy.

And more.

You can find Jeremy’s books at http://bit.ly/jh-books and learn more about Paul’s work at http://compassionatemind.co.uk  

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Professor Paul Gilbert, FBPsS, PhD, OBE is a British clinical psychologist, the founder of compassion focused therapy (CFT), compassionate mind training (CMT) and author of books such as The Compassionate Mind: A New Approach to Life’s Challenges, Overcoming Depression.

He has researched evolutionary approaches to psychopathology for over 40 years with a special focus on the roles of mood, shame and self-criticism in various mental health difficulties for which Compassion Focused Therapy was developed. Professor Gilbert has written/edited 21 books and over 200 papers. In 2006 he established the Compassionate Mind Foundation as an international charity with the mission statement: “To promote wellbeing through the scientific understanding and application of compassion”.

Professor Jeremy Holmes is a clinician, author, leading Attachment expert, and three-time speaker at The Weekend University.

For 35 years, he was Consultant Psychiatrist/Medical Psychotherapist at University College London (UCL) and then in North Devon, UK, and Chair of the Psychotherapy Faculty of the Royal College of Psychiatrists 1998-2002. 

He is visiting Professor at the University of Exeter, and lectures nationally and internationally. In addition to 200+ peer-reviewed papers and chapters in the field of psychoanalysis and attachment theory, his books include John Bowlby and Attachment Theory, Exploring In Security, Attachment in Therapeutic Practice, and most recently: “The Brain has a Mind of Its Own”.

He was the recipient of the Bowlby-Ainsworth Founders Award 2009.

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Interview Links:

— Jeremy’s books - http://bit.ly/jh-books

— Paul’s work - http://compassionatemind.co.uk

Attachment and Compassion in Psychotherapy — Paul Gilbert and Jeremy Holmes

Welkom bij de Podcast 'Een Korreltje Zout I Blunderend door het Leven'. Dé plek waarin we met een korreltje zout kijken naar de chaos van het moderne bestaan. Waar we het leven doorgronden, blunders omarmen, en op zoek gaan naar geluk, liefde en een beetje balans in de chaos. 

Vandaag gaan we het hebben over het thema Liefde. In hoeverre is liefde timing? Samen met mijn vriendin Roos bespreken we hoe standaarden en voorwaarden een rol spelen in het vinden van de juiste partner op het juiste moment. We delen openhartige verhalen over ons date verleden, en hoe wij kijken naar de liefde en standaarden. 

Trek je steeds de verkeerde partner aan? Wellicht zegt het iets over jezelf. Maar hoe verander je dit? En in hoeverre werken standaarden voor of tegen je? 

Veel luister plezier!



#4 Een Korreltje Zout met Roos - In Hoeverre Is Liefde Timing & Werken Standaarden Voor Of Tegen Je?

The 58th episode from Doing Me Thing Podcast is available to listen to right now; nature has a beautiful way of teaching us and this is exactly what happened with me as i was driving the peninsulas of Cork when i was gazing at the beautiful vastness of the land of Ireland; i noticed that i didn't have any feelings of attachment, i was just connected to the beauty of it all; i then asked the question why i didn't have attachment to this, and what dawned on me was the fact that i don't own it and all i seen was the beauty; so in this episode i talk about how having ownership and the attachment to it can stop you from seen the beauty in that thing you "own and are attached too" 

Thanks for taking the time to listen to this podcast, please feel free to share it with anyone you may feel will benefit from the podcast, feedback is always welcome and if you have any questions or anything just give us a bell.

Much-love;
Patrick-joseph.

Music
Deep Relaxation Preview by Kevin MacLeod
Link: filmmusic.io/song/5726-deep-relaxation-preview
License: filmmusic.io/standard-license

DMT Podcast Ep: 58 with Patrick-joseph (there's no beauty in ownership & attachment)

Dr. Reedy explains communication theory and the deeper psychological principles required for connection. He warns against using communication skills to change others and emphasizes that such skills can improve self-awareness first. They can also help us to remember to own our feelings (they are ours). He talks about listening and how it requires a significant amount of psychic energy.

Communication and Connection – Ep 655

Dr. Reedy takes questions on topics from the audience. He discusses what to do when our adult children seem to be going off course. He talks about how we can learn to be our most authentic self and how to protect that journey by the company we keep.

How Can I Learn to Be More Authentic? (A.M.A.) – Ep 656

In this episode I am so pleased to welcome Ian Morgan Cron to the podcast. While he wears many hats, as he shares in this episode, the fundamental nature of his work is a spiritual one. Ian is Bestselling Author, Enneagram Expert, Priest, and the host of the Typology Podcast. After many years in recovery and in the wake of a relapse, he released his most recent book, The Fix. In it, he reveals how the twelve wteps can be key for anyone who wants to take their life back. 
Richard Rohr says about his newest book, “Ian Cron’s generous and hard-earned wisdom reveals that the Twelve Steps are not just for alcoholics and addicts, but a path to a profound transformation of Self for everyone.” In the this interview we cover a wide variety of topics including God and family, making an amends, how his various roles overlap and complement each other, his experience with shame (in real-time), and how he leans into his personal story to inform his work and hopefully make himself useful to the people he loves and serves.

An Interview with Ian Morgan Cron (Enneagram Expert) - Ep 657

Dr. Brad Reedy welcomes Noah Rasheta, host of the Secular Buddhism Podcast. Noah is a philosopher, author, and host of a podcast on Secular Buddhism, where he shares Buddhist teachings & concepts for everyday life. He shares practical, accessible skills and concepts to help people incorporate Buddhist teachings into their life in an attempt to reduce unnecessary suffering. In this episode, Noah discusses his favorite principles from Buddhism and how we can think about enlightenment. He shares his personal journey and provides listeners an overview of the goals and objectives of the practice of Buddhism.

An Interview with Noah Rasheta (Secular Buddhism Podcast Host) - Ep 659

In this episode, Dr. Reedy discusses religious trauma and what kinds of family systems are at the greatest risk. He distinguishes religion from moral development and spiritual development. He talks about how families with dogmatic, strict-father-styles use religion to control, intimidate, and mold their children. He discusses how religion can be used as a defense against the experience of God and how religion can prevent spiritual development. He discusses the function of religion within a spiritual life. He talks about how many clients come to therapy with a history of religious trauma.

Religious Trauma – Ep 658

In this episode, Dr. Reedy discusses how so many clients are coming to therapy with great worries and distress due to the tumultuous events in the world. He suggests that we need to become more discerning with the news we consume. He proposes that peace is found by focusing on what we can control. He talks about the Buddhist concepts of impermanence, radical acceptance, and mindfulness.

Finding Peace in Uncertain Times - Ep 660

In this Ask Me Anything episode, Dr. Reedy takes questions from the audience on topics ranging from how we communicate our energy to our children, making the unconscious – conscious, debunking the cause and effect thinking, and how small-t trauma is insidious. He answers a question on shadow work. And he talks about how to handle the mistakes we have made as parents when our children remain angry.

Why is “Small-t” Trauma So Insidious. (A.M.A.) – Ep 661

Finding You Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving individuals, parents, couples, and families. Email the host drbradreedy@gmail.com

The Weekend University aims to make the best psychology lectures available to the general public.

To do this, we organise 'lecture days', on the last Sunday of each month, where you get a full day of talks from leading psychologists, university professors and authors.

This podcast features in-depth interviews with our speakers, so you can learn more about their work.

For more information, please see: http://theweekenduniversity.com

A Dublin Born, Irish living free thinking mind, harping on about god knows what; all's i know is i speak my mind, get lost in deep thinking and i love a good oul conversation about life in all its glory and defeat;


And on that note i'd just like to say thank you for taking the time to listen to the DMT podcasts, i hope you enjoyed them, your support is really appreciated; 

Much-love
Patrick-joseph.

Welkom bij de podcast Een korreltje zout – 'Blunderend door het Leven'. Dé plek waarin we met een korreltje zout kijken naar de chaos van het moderne bestaan. Waar we het leven doorgronden, blunders omarmen, en op zoek gaan naar geluk, liefde en een beetje balans in de chaos. Ik ben Larissa, jouw host, en in elke aflevering duik ik in openhartige gesprekken met bekende - en onbekende mensen - over het leven maar ook hoe we dat met een wat meer korreltje zout kunnen nemen. Want laten we eerlijk zijn, wie gaat er nou niet blunderend door het leven?

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