Discover how I mastered the Art of Seduction and built a global coaching empire that transforms the dating lives of men worldwide. In this video, I reveal the key differences between attraction and seduction and why most dating coaches focus on the wrong approach. Attraction is about trying to get a woman’s attention, while seduction is about making her think about you even when you’re not together.

I share the journey that led me to create a coaching system that goes beyond quick fixes and short-term tactics. You’ll learn why traditional dating strategies leave men frustrated, burnt out, and stuck in an endless cycle of chasing, validation-seeking, and competition. Instead, I break down the seduction principles that allow men to naturally draw women toward them without force or desperation.

These skills are not just about dating. They apply to all areas of life, including social dynamics, conflict resolution, and high-level influence. I explain how my coaching methodology evolved, how I trained a global team to deliver these strategies, and why men from around the world seek my training to achieve real, lasting success in their relationships.

If you're tired of struggling in dating and want to understand the deeper psychology behind seduction, this video will give you a powerful insight into how to shift your mindset and master a skill set that changes everything. Click the link below to book a free consultation call and start your journey toward a dating life you truly desire.

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#411 - How I Mastered the Art of Seduction and Build a Coaching Empire

Discover why the common advice to "just be more confident" is one of the biggest misconceptions in dating. In this video, I break down the truth about attraction and why confidence alone is not enough. Instead of focusing on vague self-improvement strategies, I introduce the concept of frame control—an essential skill that allows you to lead conversations, build genuine influence, and naturally attract women without seeking validation.

I share real examples of how most men unknowingly give away their power in conversations and how a simple shift in mindset and communication can change everything. You’ll learn why traditional dating advice keeps men stuck, why self-confidence is often misunderstood, and how you can develop a strong frame that carries over into every aspect of your life.

If you’re tired of ineffective strategies and want to take control of your dating life, this video will give you the insights you need. Click the link below to learn more about my coaching program and start implementing proven principles that actually work.

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#412 -  Thought Confidence Attracted Women - Now I Coach Men on What Actually Works

Welcome to Find the Joy with Jenn, the podcast where we explore stories of resilience, growth, and faith to help you FIND the joy in your journey. I’m your host, Jenn Zingmark, and today, I am thrilled to welcome a special guest, Hope Ray! 

Hope is a therapist and the creator of Complex Partner Trauma Magazine, a publication for women betrayed by intimate deception. She hosts Women Who Discover, a private podcast about infidelity and betrayal available on her website, along with Getting D.I.R.E. Straight, her signature program for men who are resolute in recovery and desire to build trust and safety in their marriages. 

Today, we’ll explore what defines betrayal, how it affects both partners, and what true healing looks like—whether that’s rebuilding trust in a relationship or finding personal peace. This conversation is for you no matter where you are on this journey.

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168. Healing After Betrayal- Hope Ray’s Insights on Infidelity, Recovery, and Rebuilding Trust

[Intro – HER, spoken with attitude female vocal]
Yeah…
Let’s lay down the rules real quick.
This ain’t just a date — it’s a vibe check.
Fail it? You ghosted, boo.

[Verse 1 – HER - female vocal]
First rule: be on time — don’t test fate.
Say seven, show up late? That’s a red flag on a plate.
Manners matter — yeah, I clock every move,
Say "please" and "thanks," or you outta the groove.

Don’t burp, don’t fart, don't spit, don’t swear,
You a grown-ass man or a pub somewhere?
Don’t act rude to the staff, I’m peepin’ your tone,
How you treat strangers shows how I’ll get shown.

[Hook – HER - female vocal]
Red flags, dealbreakers — I see ‘em real clear,
If you wild on date one, you ain’t stayin’ near.
I want charm, not a child in disguise,
Keep it grown, keep it fly, better recognize.
(Yeah) Red flags, dealbreakers — I tally the score,
If you flunkin' on the basics, there won't be a "more."

[Verse 2 – HER - female vocal]
Don’t grab from my plate like you got no decorum,
Wait your turn — basic rules of the forum.
And don’t get twisted off three drinks in,
Slurrin’ your words? That’s a wrap, my friend.

Phone off the table, eyes on me,
If you scrollin’ mid-date, you dead to me.
Don’t dip for the loo and disappear for an age,
What you hidin'? A side piece backstage?

[Hook – HER, with ad-libs female vocal]
Red flags, dealbreakers — check that list,
You forget my name? That’s a first-class diss.
Don't sweet-talk just to get in my bed,
Sayin’ "yes" to everything — go think with your head.

Red flags, dealbreakers — I'm watchin’ you close,
Call me "Jess" when it's "Jade"? Boy, adiós.

[Verse 3 – HIM - male vocal]
Okay queen, I heard the checklist loud,
Red flags, dealbreakers — got it, proud.
But let me speak too, just for the record,
There’s two seats at this table — not a lecture.

I show up on time, open doors, that’s fact,
But don’t snap your fingers, I ain’t your staff.
I want convo — not a cross-exam,
Let’s vibe, not play "Guess Who?" exam.

I don’t mind jokes, but chill with the shade,
If it’s all testin’, I ain’t gettin’ paid.
No insta-flexin’, no poutin’ for likes,
Just be real — no filters, no psychs.

[Bridge – HER, slower flow - female vocal]
No flexin’ fake stories, no ex on replay,
Don’t ask what number I am — this ain't your résumé.
Don’t talk over me, don’t mansplain truth,
And I don’t need a prince — just a dude with couth.

No jokes ‘bout the bill, split it or claim it,
Cheap vibes? Nah, I don’t entertain it.
Make me laugh, not cringe — big diff,
‘Cause I know game when it comes gift-wrapped in myth.

[Back & Forth Tag – Duo Exchange]

[female vocal] HER:
Respect me right or I’m swiping left.
[male vocal] HIM:
Play games with me? I’ll ghost, no text.

[female vocal] HER:
Earn this crown, it ain’t free to hold.
[male vocal] HIM:
I’m royalty too, this ain’t your stroll.

[BOTH duet - male and female vocal ](unison/alternating):
So bring your best — or don’t even try,
‘Cause this high-standard love don’t lie.

[Outro – HER, confident mic drop - female vocal]
Pull my chair? Cool. Open doors? Nice.
But respect is the only real vice I price.
Talk smart, act right, and maybe we click,
But one wrong move — poof — gone quick.

💋 Next!

Red Flags & Dealbreakers (Remix)

In this episode, I share the reality of running a live daygame course while running on little sleep — and why showing up tired is still better than not showing up at all.

I also explore a common dating mistake: delaying intimacy because you think a woman is “different” or more reserved. That mindset creates false dynamics and often leads to frustration.

If you’ve ever talked yourself out of taking action or overthought a connection, this vlog will give you a grounded perspective to reset your mindset and lead with confidence.

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#436 - Daygame, Delaying Intimacy & Meeting Women When You’re Tired

You dress well. You speak well. But if you’re still chasing her approval… she’ll never respect you.

In this video, I break down why external polish means nothing if your internal frame is weak. Women can sense when you're performing for validation — and it kills attraction instantly.

You’ll learn:

Why being well-dressed isn’t enough

The real reason women ignore “nice guys”

How to shift from approval-seeking to self-respecting


If you’re ready to stop performing and start leading, this one’s for you.

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#444 - Why She Doesn’t Respect You (Even When You Dress Well)

Most men think attraction is something they earn by performing well. Saying the right thing. Looking the part. Acting confident.
But that mindset kills your power.

Attraction has always been about hierarchy — how you carry yourself, what energy you lead with, and whether she instinctively places you above or below her.
This video breaks down the real reason why women feel magnetised to certain men... and completely indifferent to others.

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything right and still not getting results — this explains why.

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#445 - Attraction Isn’t About Performance - It’s About Hierarchy

In this video, I break down the real differences between daygame and nightgame — not just in theory, but in how they play out in the real world.

If you have ever felt out of place approaching women in bars or drained after doing daygame, this episode will help you figure out why. I’ll explain how your personality type plays a huge role in your success, why most men are focusing on the wrong environment, and which setting actually leads to consistent results with high-quality women.

Whether you’re introverted, extroverted, or somewhere in between, by the end of this video, you’ll know which path suits you best — and why there’s only one clear winner.

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#447 - Daygame vs Nightgame - There Is One Clear Winner

In this Daygame Q&A session, I break down the real issues men face when approaching women during the day — and why most of your questions aren’t actually solving the problem.

Forget tactics for a second. This is about truth, confidence, and the energy you bring when you walk up to her.

If you’ve ever wondered:

“What do I say?”

“When do I ask for the number?”

“What if she’s not alone?”


This video will shift how you think about those questions — and replace them with better ones.

Watch to understand why most men fail at day game… and what to do instead.

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#448 - Daygame Q&A: Your Top Questions, Answered

Most men obsess over attraction tactics: what to say, how to act, how to keep her interested. But here’s the truth — attraction isn’t something you perform. It’s something you become when you learn to respect yourself.

In this video, I explain why constantly trying to attract her actually pushes her away. You’re putting her on a pedestal — while ignoring the one person who can truly change your results: you.

If she’s not chasing you, it’s not because you're not good enough — it’s because you’ve been chasing her approval instead of your own growth.

You’ll learn:

Why self-respect is more magnetic than any “line”

How performance-based attraction kills polarity

The mindset shift that flips the dynamic permanently


This isn’t about tricks. It’s about becoming the man women naturally want to follow.

📍 Watch it now. This might be the one video that makes everything click.

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#450 - Stop Asking Yourself How to Attract Her…

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I am an experienced, certified professional Ladder-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

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My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

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