In Step 1, we gathered good information. In Step 2, we re-humanized the other in our minds. In Step 3 we listened empathically. Now let's look at how those 3 steps help us "Relate" in a way that either creates more intimacy, or brings important clarity!

BLOG TALK Healing Step 4 RELATE

In Step 1, we gathered good information. In Step 2, we re-humanized the other in our minds. In Step 3 we listened empathically. In Step 4 we learned to relate with greater transparency and intimacy. Now in Step 5, let's recreate the landscape of the relationship to better honor both parties.

BLOG TALK Healing Step Five: Represent

(This summary is starting to feel like the 12 Days of Christmas!) In Step 1, we gathered good information. In Step 2, we re-humanized the other in our minds. In Step 3 we listened empathically. In Step 4 we learned to relate with greater transparency and intimacy. In Step 5, we created a relationship landscape that honors both parties. 

Now we’re ready for Step 6, aligning our “resources” with our relationship priorities!

BLOG TALK Healing Step Six INVEST

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BLOG TALK Healing Step Seven REPAIR

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