“I Come First” is a triumphant declaration of independence and self-prioritisation. With an upbeat, soulful tone and empowering lyrics, this track captures the moment you decide to put yourself first — not as an act of defiance, but as a long-overdue celebration of self-worth.

The song opens with clarity and calm: “There’s no problem to be fixed / There’s no path I need to find”. These lines set the scene for a personal rebirth, one rooted in freedom from external expectations. Rather than chase after someone else’s approval or fix someone else’s problems, the narrator embraces a new season of life — blooming with self-acceptance and joy.

The chorus is infectious and powerful:
“I come first / The sun is out and my cheeks are hot...”
Set against imagery of spring and personal awakening, the repeated affirmation reinforces a message that’s both universal and deeply intimate. It’s a song made for windows-down drives, solo walks, or the playlist you turn to when reclaiming your energy.

The bridge offers emotional gravity, reflecting on past sacrifices:
“All my life / I’ve put me last...”
— but it quickly turns that reflection into resolve. There’s no bitterness here, only a clear-eyed commitment to never abandon oneself again.

With vibrant production and heartfelt vocals, “I Come First” serves as an anthem for anyone ready to choose themselves — with pride, power, and joy.

I Come First

“Checking In” is a tender, introspective ballad that speaks directly to the emotional truth of boundaries, self-care, and the necessity of inner clarity before supporting others. Minimalist in arrangement and profound in message, this song invites the listener to pause, breathe, and reflect — not just on what they give to others, but what they need for themselves.

Opening with the simple but powerful words: “First you check in / What do you need?”, the track gently guides us through the internal conflict of wanting to help, to give, and to show up — but being unable to do so without first achieving personal stability. This sentiment is captured succinctly in the refrain:
“I can’t help you / I have to help me”.

The structure is intentionally stripped back, allowing space for the lyrics to resonate deeply. Through subtle repetition and soft vocal delivery, the track builds emotional weight without ever becoming overwrought. It’s the sonic equivalent of a quiet realisation, or a deep breath after a long day.

The bridge, marked only by a soft “Mmm”, gives room for reflection — a moment to sit with what’s been said. By the time the final verse arrives, the song circles back with more certainty and acceptance: the boundaries drawn are not out of neglect, but from care — for both self and others.

“Checking In” is ideal for meditation playlists, self-reflection moments, or quiet evening listening. It offers comfort, encouragement, and a respectful call to listen to your own needs first — because only then can you show up fully for others.

Checking In

Mi Mate Music – Giving Sound to Silent Struggles

Mi Mate Music is a purpose-driven creative project transforming lived experiences into powerful, emotionally charged tracks. Founded by Dennis Weston, this initiative supports individuals—particularly war veterans living with invisible injuries such as PTSD and other mental health conditions—in expressing what too often goes unsaid.

Through music, we help broken people tell their stories in ways that are honest, raw, and empowering. These tracks are more than just songs—they are lived moments, captured in sound.

Our mission is twofold: to support healing through creative expression, and to foster greater understanding of the silent battles many veterans and others endure daily. Every lyric and every beat is crafted to inspire empathy, connection, and insight into the challenges of mental health injuries.

Whether you're navigating your own journey or seeking to understand someone else's, Mi Mate Music offers a soundtrack grounded in truth, resilience, and hope.

Your support helps us continue turning real stories into music that matters.

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