Overcoming the fear of others disapproval is a universal struggle for those who base their identity on what others think of them. When we act like this, we give others power over us. We’re nothing more than puppets on a string, always managed by the fickle approval of others. The Bible calls this the fear of man, but you might recognize it better as peer pressure, codependency, or insecurity.

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Day 26 – LIving Boldly: Controlled By the Opinions of Others

Heartstrings" is a raw and vulnerable love song about connection, insecurity, and hope. Written straight from the heart, it captures that rush of finding someone who changes the way you see love. It’s soft, emotional, and confessional—pulling together dreamy melodies, honest lyrics, and the feeling of being strung back to life.

Heartstrings

My attempt to musically define a deep desire for life purpose without knowing what to do besides survive.

Waiting for Life to Begin

"Vulnerable" is a bluesy Americana that turns into a shuffle that leans into the emotional crossroads at the beginning of a relationship, the moment when the level of surface charm gives way to something deeper and riskier. It’s about the courage it takes to show your true self, especially when past scars or insecurities make that feel dangerous.
The song doesn’t romanticize love as effortless. Instead, it respects love as a brave act one that requires emotional honesty and the willingness to be seen. The groove gives it a steady pulse, like a heartbeat on edge, but it never loses its warmth. This track isn’t about pleading it’s about offering: Here I am, no mask, no armor.
The feeling is a Mid-tempo shuffle with a loose, behind-the-beat pocket
Fingerpicked acoustic guitar or lightly gritty electric, with subtle slide work gives the song a feeling of a risky situation. The vocals is intimate and slightly weathered, conveying vulnerability in contrast with roughness.
This is a song for anyone who's ever hesitated before falling,  not because they don’t want love, but because they know what it costs. It’s honest, grown-up, and grounded. It sits comfortably in the emotional space between self-protection and surrender, capturing that delicate moment when you decide to let someone really see you.


Vulnerability

Mirrors is a testament to my growth, but also a reflection of how my past struggles has affected others around me. It’s about facing your true self, flaws and all, and learning how to grow from it. If you've ever struggled with feelings of regret or disappointment, then maybe this song can speak to you the way it spoke to me while creating it. The track features a bright, fast-paced, retro 80s sound that is surely to grab your attention quickly.

Mirrors

The song 'Pixel Demons' by NeonViperX uses metaphors of digital glitches and pixelated monsters to depict inner struggles and chaos in a technologically driven world. It conveys a sense of being trapped in a system where one's true identity is blurred by external influences, urging listeners to confront their inner demons and break free from the confines of a digital existence.

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Pixel Demons

Lyrics:

I have a lot of things I wanna say
First of all, I think that this is going great
You give me all the love that I could ever ask
But frankly, I don't see how this could ever last

I'm insecure as hell, and quite a mess
It's been running in my mind that all I am's a test
I can't get these thoughts out of my mind
I'll go ahead and ask you just to save some time

If I could not love myself the way I love you
Would you leave me, too, out of the blue?
If I were broken, beaten, and scarred without you
Would you be there for me, holding me like you do?
All these voices tell me that you won't stay
I don't wanna be there when you run away
If I could not love myself the way I love you
Would you leave me, too, out of the blue?

I love you
And I don't want to lose you
I trust you
But I don't trust myself with the truth

If I could not love myself the way I love you
Would you leave me, too, out of the blue?
If I were broken, beaten, and scarred without you
Would you be there for me, holding me like you do?
All these voices tell me that you won't stay
I don't wanna be there when you run away
If I could not love myself the way I love you
Would you leave me, too, out of the blue?

what it feels like to be insecure. (Prod. peril)

Message #4 “My Insecurities, Inadequacies and Inabilities”
Scripture: Judges 6-8
Pastor Phil Whetstone
November 2, 2025

God is Greater Than... 11-2

Barely Holding On is a heartfelt country ballad that blends raw honesty with timeless storytelling. With verses about walking through fire, carrying burdens, and whispering prayers into the night, this song captures the struggle of holding on to faith when life feels heavy

Driven by soulful vocals and a slow, country‑inspired arrangement, Barely Holding On speaks to anyone who’s faced hardship yet continues to search for strength. Its heartfelt chorus — “So hold me, Lord, when I can’t hold on” — delivers a powerful message of resilience and hope, making it a perfect fit for inspirational country playlists, worship gatherings, or quiet moments of reflection

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Barely Holding On

When the "mask comes off in the night time", the raw truth is revealed. This is the Inner Truth admitting its apathetic honesty ("to tell you the truth, I don't care" ) and confronting the Ego for caring only about image "up on the screen".

What You Say?

Just a guy with a voice. If my music speaks to you, that means the world to me

I write every lyric myself—this is therapy, my outlet.
Raw rap, melodic rap, Metalcore, Punk, PopPunk and storytelling born from burnout, heartbreak, and unprocessed grief.

I use Suno (AI) to turn my words into the sound I hear in my head.
Every track is part of my story: real, unfiltered, and deeply personal.

First release: 15/07/25 🖤♥️✌🏻

If you connect with honest music about mental health, resilience, and finding clarity, follow the journey. I’d love to hear what you think, drop me a message, drop me a follow for more.

Welcome to my brain.

I'm just trying to give my perspective of the world through my music, i hope you enjoy.

Rick launched the Life Over Coffee global training network in 2008 to bring hope and help for you and others by creating resources that spark conversations for transformation. His primary responsibilities are resource creation and leadership development, which he does through speaking, writing, podcasting, and educating.

In 1990 he earned a BA in Theology and, in 1991, a BS in Education. In 1993, he received his ordination into Christian ministry, and in 2000 he graduated with an MA in Counseling from The Master's University. In 2006 he was recognized as a Fellow of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC).

Jazz Pop Blues R&B. Easy to listen to. Closeness, sound quality and lyrics you can relate to while your driving, chili´n by yourself or with others. I love music, like you do and I am fortunate to create music with people I care about and respect. You listen to my music you get to know me and yourself. We`re the same.

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