In this episode, we unpack how role play can serve as both embodiment and experimentation: an opportunity to test boundaries, try on new energies, and rewrite old stories about who we allow ourselves to be. Role play invites us to step beyond our everyday selves and explore power, fantasy, and identity with intention. Here we explore how imagination, consent, and curiosity can transform play into a practice of self-discovery and freedom.

What’s Inside:
-Defining role play as a tool for exploration and self-expression
-How fantasy and imagination support healing and empowerment
-The difference between being looked at and being truly witnessed
-How embodiment transforms performance into authenticity and liberation
-The journey of returning to self after performing desirability


Guest:
Sydni Deveraux is a burlesque performer, educator, and producer whose work explores sensuality, storytelling, and power through movement and performance. Based in the Bay Area, she teaches and creates internationally, inviting audiences to see erotic expression as both art and liberation.
Astro website: ddastrology.com Burlesque website: divinedeveraux.com IG: @divine.deveraux & @theshowgirlastrologer TT: divine.deveraux

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S4 E7: Becoming the Scene with Sydni Deveraux

When you call I come running

Dr. Reedy discusses whether going home for the holidays is the best thing for us. He discusses the guilt, shame and obligation that’s “baked-in” to us when it comes to visiting family or maintaining relationships we have outgrown. He doesn’t offer advice but rather takes the audience through the questions and the thinking that goes into our relationships. He explains that a task in attachment is to let go of others when they need to be somewhere else and how many people feel compelled to spend time with family and others because of unconscious obligations. The nature of the parent-child dynamic is discussed and how it can be turned upside-down when children feel the need to take care of parents’ emotional well-being and egos.

Home for the Holidays? - Ep 693

A smooth, after-midnight R&B journey: warm keys, velvet bass, soft drums, neon ambience. Designed for quiet nights, slow dances, candlelight conversations, and intimate moments. Headphones recommended.

Late Night R&B Vol. 1 — Music for Intimacy & Slow Jams | 1 Hour of R&B Music

In this song Rell sings about an intimate encounter after midnight.

Midnight Invitation

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"Venus” is the second release of same.sheep's upcoming debut album. It is a pop + trip-hop track that tells the story of a love, once a bright star and guiding light, now faded and hollowed. 

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Venus

A new day begins in the soft glow of sunrise, where warmth, comfort, and togetherness set the tone. This song drifts into that perfect early-morning moment when everything feels a little slower, a little gentler, and the world can wait just a bit longer. It’s about waking up beside someone who makes the ordinary feel extraordinary — someone whose presence turns quiet mornings into something worth holding onto. With a tender, feel-good vibe, it captures the beauty of staying close, savoring stillness, and choosing connection before the day takes over.

Ein neuer Tag erwacht im warmen Licht der aufgehenden Sonne – mit Ruhe, Nähe und diesem besonderen Gefühl, wenn alles noch möglich ist. Der Song taucht in genau diesen Morgenmoment ein, in dem die Welt draußen kurz pausieren darf und nur zählt, wer bei dir bleibt. Es geht um das schöne, leichte Gefühl, neben einem Menschen aufzuwachen, der selbst einfache Augenblicke besonders macht. Ein sanfter, wohliger Start in den Tag, geprägt von Verbundenheit, Gelassenheit und dem Wunsch, diesen Moment ein kleines Stück länger festzuhalten.

Guten Morgen

Sonne geht auf
Kaffee tuckert leise vor sich hin
So sieht‘s aus und hört sich‘s an
Wenn ich zufrieden bin

Guten Morgen
Wie schön, dich zu sehen
Bist ja wirklich noch hier
War schön mit dir
Denk nicht mal dran, jetzt zu gehen
Bleib einfach bei mir

Bleib noch ein bisschen
Die Welt kann warten
Alle Straßen ohnehin grau
Bleib bei mir, Frau

Guten Morgen
Echt schön, dich zu sehen
Bist tatsächlich noch hier
So schön mit dir
Denk nicht dran, jetzt zu gehen
Bleib bei mir

Licht fällt schräg auf dein Gesicht 
Bleib genauso, wunderschön
Denn so was wie dich
Hat diese Welt noch nicht gesehen
Also zumindest meine nicht

Guten Morgen
Schön, dich zu sehen
Denk bloß nicht dran
Irgendwann zu gehen

Du bleibst von jetzt an bei mir
Ist nämlich verdammt schön mit dir


Guten Morgen

In this song Zoey reflects on an intense night of intimacy the night before

Can't Stop Thinking About Last NIght

Lyrics:

I step outside, the wintertime, it blooms in the air
My hands are getting cold, my fingers are bare
The stars at night, the moon is bright, the sky is so clear
Would you come a little closer, hold my hand tighter, dear?

Our worlds collide with every sigh, the snow in your hair
It seems so long ago that I was frightened by fear
The cold, it bites, but I'm so high, my arms in your care
I'll cuddle in your warmth so I can escape here

I've been alone, in tears
The pain was so severe
Then you had interfered
Your words were so sincere
I've been alone, in tears
The pain was so severe
Then you had interfered
Your words were so sincere

Cold Nights, Warm Hearts

In this song Zoey expresses her special intimacy is with her partner.

Preferential Treatment

Set the mood right with this sensual song by Rell

Gravity Love

Check out this banger by rell as he shows how anxious he is to see his girl

Come And See What I Got For you

Pastor Doug continued our "Love Life" series with a message highlighting the power women have in the choices they make in relationships.

The Power Of A Godly Woman (Pastor Doug)

In this song Zoey sings about the effort he gives to keep his partner happy.

Please don’t take my kindness for weakness

Force Fantasy

In this song Rell sings about giving up the night life and club scene for his new woman.


You're An Adventure In My Bed

In this erotic song Zoey asked her man to express his deepest disires

Name One Thing

Licht aus drifts into that intimate space where two people forget the world for a while. It’s about those quiet moments—close, familiar, almost weightless—where a single look says everything and turning the lights off feels like stepping back into the best memories you’ve ever shared. The song moves through nostalgia and warmth, capturing the feeling of rediscovering someone you’ve known forever, yet still feeling that spark as if it were all brand-new. Expect closeness, softness, and a story that glows even in the dark.

Licht aus taucht ein in diesen besonderen Raum, in dem zwei Menschen die Welt um sich herum für einen Moment vergessen. Es geht um Nähe, Vertrautheit und dieses Gefühl, dass ein einziger Blick alles sagt – und dass es sich beim Lichtausschalten so anfühlt, als würde man in die schönsten Erinnerungen zurückgleiten. Der Song verbindet Nostalgie mit Wärme und fängt das Wiederentdecken eines Menschen ein, den man schon ewig kennt – und trotzdem wieder ganz neu spürt. Erwartet Nähe, Sanftheit und eine Geschichte, die selbst im Dunkeln leuchtet.

Licht aus

Wir liegen einfach da
Eng
Leise
Streiten über nichts
Lachen über nichts
Und das reicht

Du wirfst mir diesen Blick zu 
Diesen einen
Den ich schon immer geliebt hab

Und dann geht das Licht aus
Und alles wird unscharf
Flüchtig
Genau richtig
Mmh Mmh Mmh Mmh
Die Decke knistert wie damals
Als alles noch neu war

Deine Haut riecht noch immer nach zuhause
Auch nach all den Jahren
Deine Hand findet meine
Ohne Umweg
Wie früher im Kino

Und ich denk
Wie geil das alles mit dir ist

Und plötzlich geht das Licht aus
Alles ist unscharf
Und flüchtig
Genau richtig
Mmh Mmh Mmh Mmh
Ich seh dich vor mir wie damals
Als alles neu war

Spür dein Lächeln im Dunkeln
Ehrlich
Glücklich
Wie immer

Unser altes Bett knackt 
Draußen funkeln die Sterne
Wie damals
Im Zelt auf dem Campingplatz

Zum Glück ist das Licht aus
Alles unscharf
Flüchtig
Richtig
Mmh Mmh Mmh Mmh
So wie damals
Genauso wie damals 

Du ziehst mich zu dir rüber
Als hätten wir uns gerade erst kennengelernt

Und dann ist da nur noch Haut
Atem
Herzklopfen 
Kein Morgen

Licht aus


Licht aus

In this song Rell sings about an intense night of intimacy.

Do You Like It When I Do It Like That

Just a guy with a voice. If my music speaks to you, that means the world to me

We are same.sheep, two souls bound by melody — a songwriter and a dreamer, a creator and a muse. Born in a small city, our story began with the quiet hum of late nights, a laptop, and the desire to turn emotions into sound. Before there was an audience, there were songs written out of love, loss, and the wish to be understood.

At first, same.sheep played in small bands, chasing fleeting moments of local success. But the world had other plans — a pause, a rediscovery, and then a return. The spark became a fire again, and music found its way back.

Since then, our songs have crossed oceans, played on radio stations in France's OXO Radio, Italy's Home Made, to being featured in Portugal's Your Music Hub and Mexico's Avanzada — reminders that connection knows no borders.

What makes us different is not perfection, but honesty. We bring stories to life through sound, crafting songs that are as chill as they are vulnerable. Every lyric, every beat, is a reflection of the emotions we’re often afraid to say aloud.

Our vision is to build a world where stories and ideas matter — where people can feel, cry, and love without restraint. Where music becomes a mirror for the soul.

The journey has just begun. Our debut album is coming soon — a cosmic journey of love, memory, and everything in between.

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