So many of us hold ourselves back, not because we don’t have the skills, the smarts, or the strategy, but because we’re afraid of what people might think.

In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes to one of my most uncomfortable “visibility” moments...getting completely humiliated in a training room and battling the inner voice that told me I wasn’t stylish, bold, or “enough” to wear the damn boots I’d packed. Spoiler alert: I wore the boots anyway.

Here’s what we’re talking about:

    * Why it's completely normal to link new concepts to familiar ideas—and how that actually supports learning and confidence

    * The wild stories we make up about how we’ll be judged (and how to rewrite them)

    * The real reason people hesitate to show up, speak up, and step out—and how to overcome it

    * A mantra that changed everything for me: “It’s not my business what anyone else thinks of me.”

    * How to move through fear, stay curious, and keep showing up—even when you feel like a human pretzel

Whether you’re holding back on launching something bold, booking that photoshoot, applying for the role, or simply showing up more visibly in your brand, this episode is your permission slip to stop playing small.

Because let’s be honest… you can’t be unforgettable if you’re trying to blend in.

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It’s Not Your Business What They Think of You

Owning our decisions is one of the core ways to reduce our suffering in life

Life Made to Order #264:At the End of the Day We Can Do Whatever We Want, We Just Need to Own It

You dress well. You speak well. But if you’re still chasing her approval… she’ll never respect you.

In this video, I break down why external polish means nothing if your internal frame is weak. Women can sense when you're performing for validation — and it kills attraction instantly.

You’ll learn:

Why being well-dressed isn’t enough

The real reason women ignore “nice guys”

How to shift from approval-seeking to self-respecting


If you’re ready to stop performing and start leading, this one’s for you.

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#datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen

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#444 - Why She Doesn’t Respect You (Even When You Dress Well)

Most men think attraction is something they earn by performing well. Saying the right thing. Looking the part. Acting confident.
But that mindset kills your power.

Attraction has always been about hierarchy — how you carry yourself, what energy you lead with, and whether she instinctively places you above or below her.
This video breaks down the real reason why women feel magnetised to certain men... and completely indifferent to others.

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything right and still not getting results — this explains why.

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#daygame #coldapproach #dating 

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#445 - Attraction Isn’t About Performance - It’s About Hierarchy

In this deeply inspiring episode of Inside Personal Growth, host Greg Voisen sits down with John Chappelear - author, speaker, and former high-flying entrepreneur—to explore the life-changing lessons behind his award-winning book The Daily Six. After losing a multi-million-dollar business and facing personal devastation, John reframed his failures as “gifts of devastation” that led him to discover a new way of living rooted in emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and service to others.

John shares his journey from being a “recovering big shot” to a mindful leader and mentor, introducing listeners to his six transformative principles: Willingness, Quiet Time, Love and Forgiveness, Gratitude, Service, and Action. Through personal stories, corporate case studies, and honest reflections, John explains how these values can restore balance and purpose—not just in business, but in life.

Whether you're a CEO, a team leader, or simply someone seeking personal clarity, this episode delivers both wisdom and practical tools to help you live and lead with intention.

🎧 What Listeners Will Learn:
-Why “gifts of devastation” can become turning points for growth
-The power of quiet time and how to actually make it work
-Why love and forgiveness belong in the workplace
-How service to others boosts employee engagement and business success
-Practical ways to take action on the Daily Six every single day

Our Guest, John Chappelear:
➥ Book: The Daily Six: Six Simple Steps to Find The Perfect Balance of Prosperity and Purpose
➥ Buy Now: https://a.co/d/01hqhhP
➥ https://johnchappelear.com/
➡️Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JohnChappelearChangingTheFocus/
➡️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jwchappelear/
➡️LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnchappelear/
➡️YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JohnChappelear

Learn more about your Inside Personal Growth host, Greg Voisen:
➥ https://gregvoisen.com
➡️Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/insidepersonalgrowth/  
➡️Facebook:   https://www.facebook.com/InsidePersonalGrowth/
➡️LinkedIn:     https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregvoisen/ 
➡️Twitter/ X:  https://twitter.com/lvoisen/

Podcast 1241: 6 Habits That Changed John's Life After Losing Everything – The Daily Six by John Chappelear

Most men obsess over attraction tactics: what to say, how to act, how to keep her interested. But here’s the truth — attraction isn’t something you perform. It’s something you become when you learn to respect yourself.

In this video, I explain why constantly trying to attract her actually pushes her away. You’re putting her on a pedestal — while ignoring the one person who can truly change your results: you.

If she’s not chasing you, it’s not because you're not good enough — it’s because you’ve been chasing her approval instead of your own growth.

You’ll learn:

Why self-respect is more magnetic than any “line”

How performance-based attraction kills polarity

The mindset shift that flips the dynamic permanently


This isn’t about tricks. It’s about becoming the man women naturally want to follow.

📍 Watch it now. This might be the one video that makes everything click.

View my upcoming courses: 
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Work on your dating success for only £10.79/$13.50 per month with my Advanced Dating System and 100-Day Dating Challenge: https://social-attraction-courses.teachable.com/p/small-bundle

Access all of my digital products for only £24.96/$33.20 per month: https://social-attraction-courses.teachable.com/p/gary-gunn-big-bundle

View all of my digital courses here:
 https://social-attraction-courses.teachable.com/

My TikTok account: https://www.tiktok.com/@garygunnshow

Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/garygunnshow/

Access my podcast with over 420 episodes: https://soundcloud.com/garygunn

Subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/GaryGunn?sub_confirmation=1

This video is for entertainment purposes only. Any action you take upon the information provided is strictly at your own risk, and we will not be responsible for any losses or damages in connection with the use of this video. The selection of techniques, opinions, programs, products, services, tools, templates, or manuals is not a guarantee of income or success. You are fully responsible for the effort you put in and the results you achieve by following the information in this video.

All content, materials, and techniques delivered are proprietary and cannot be used, disclosed, or duplicated without permission. This video is for informational purposes only and does not form a professional relationship. Visit our website if you wish to hire us on a professional basis.

#datingadviceformen #datingtipsformen #datingconfidence 

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#450 - Stop Asking Yourself How to Attract Her…

In this episode of The NewClub Bag Drop: Untold Stories in Golf, hosts Matt Considine and The Professor (Dr. Kevin Moore)delve into the profound impact of golf on mental health and personal development. Joined by Robert Jones Black, founder of the Generation Next Project, they explore how the game of golf serves as a powerful tool for teaching resilience, introspection, and emotional control. Discover how golf's unique challenges mirror life's obstacles and learn about the innovative "Change Your Course" program, which utilizes golf to address youth mental health. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that highlights the transformative power of golf for kids, adults, and communities. 
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The 5½ Inches That Matter Most: Golf, Mental Health, and Legacy with Robert Jones Black

In this gripping episode of Inside Personal Growth, host Greg Voisen interviews ultra-endurance athlete and mindset mentor JD Tremblay, author of Hunger For More in Life: Conquer Mental Struggles, Defy Limitations, and Discover Purpose Through Epic Achievements.

JD shares the unbelievable story of completing the Epic Deca - 10 full Ironman triathlons in 10 days across six Hawaiian islands - a feat accomplished by only three people in history. But this isn’t just about physical achievement. JD opens up about addiction, spiritual battles, and emotional pain, and how faith and discipline helped him break through personal limitations.

Listeners will uncover JD’s powerful DECA Method (Discipline, Endurance, Competence, Action), hear how he turned trauma into transformation, and learn how he’s helping others - including his world-champion son - build mental toughness, purpose, and spiritual resilience.

🎯 What Listeners Can Learn:
How to build emotional resilience and spiritual discipline
Why faith and values create lasting freedom
Steps to overcome addiction, shame, and self-doubt
How to train both mind and body to break through limits
Why true growth requires recovery, service, and purpose

Our Guest, JD Tremblay:
➥ Book: Hunger For More in Life: Conquer Mental Struggles, Defy Limitations, and Discover Purpose Through Epic Achievements 
➥https://a.co/d/6nSu5pi
➥https://hunger4more.com/
➡️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jdtremblaytri/
➡️LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jd-tremblay-2b6215256/

Learn more about your Inside Personal Growth host, Greg Voisen:
➥ https://gregvoisen.com
➡️Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/insidepersonalgrowth/  
➡️Facebook:   https://www.facebook.com/InsidePersonalGrowth/
➡️LinkedIn:     https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregvoisen/ 
➡️Twitter/ X:  https://twitter.com/lvoisen/

Podcast 1244: From Trauma to Triumph: Author of Hunger For More in Life on Finding Purpose Through Pain

This crucial truth is a game changer for your journey. 

Life Made to Order #265:LOA:The More You Need Something the Less Satisfying It Will Feel to Get It

Listen to this powerful guided visualisation to release your in-built capacity for greatness and fulfilment

EMPOWERMENT VISUALIZATION

A podcast all about helping you manifest what you ultimately want most--happiness, peace and emotional healing--which naturally aligns you with the 'wants' typical of most humans! By changing the inside, the outside has no choice but to change.

⚡ Business coach. Author. Professional BS-cutter.
Helping leaders and entrepreneurs unleash their voice, magnetise their message, and get radically visible—without selling their soul.
If you’re ready to rock the internet and attract Hot Coal Clients™? I’m your girl.
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Inside Personal Growth provides listeners with over 1000 high quality interviews featuring leading authors in the field of personal development. This online podcast program is curated with content from international experts in the art of transformation. It is our mission here to tune listeners into an audio experience that will entertain and educate to help improve every facet of their lives. 

Since 2007, Inside Personal Growth has connected people with the wisdom and resources they need to work through challenges and strengthen their internal compass on the pursuit toward wellness and mastery. Our archive features over 800+ podcasts. Each show offers insight into the minds of writers behind leading book titles. 

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My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

Charles Linden is the world's leading Anxiety, Panic, Obsessions, Phobias & Depression Recovery Expert. Charles has helped millions of people to recover and is developer of the world's only dedicated and accredited anxiety disorder recovery therapy and educational centre. Charles is an author, TV presenter, radio guest, stress and anxiety recovery consultant and owner of Anxiety Recovery Retreats, The Linden Tree Education Centre and Charles Linden Media.

Welcome to The NewClub Bag Drop: Untold Stories in Golf.

Your co-hosts are Matt Considine and Dr. Kevin Moore. 

About NewClub 

Founded in 2017, NewClub Golf Society is a Chicago-based private club without real estate. As one of the first and most comprehensive golf communities of its kind in America, NewClub provides localized golf experiences, immersive competitions, and bucket-list travel opportunities for the golf obsessed. The NewClub ecosystem is revolutionizing the private and public dynamic, pushing traditional U.S. golf structures forward to make the game more sustainable and enjoyable.

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