Joe Tandle is a relationship communication master, we talk about helpful frameworks for non-monogamous couples, triads and more.


Check out Joe's tool the connection map
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How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. 
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Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
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The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
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How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
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#59 - Joe - Mastering Relationship Communication for Threesomes and Beyond.

Love the intense energy Matt B Murray Brings, in this podcast about life after reality TV, his views on open relationships, MMF and FFM Threesomes, Threesomes with his girlfriend and best friend, fucking on a gravestone impotence, possessiveness and so much more.

If you want to find Matt on TikTok
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If you want to find Matt on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/matt_b_murray/

How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now. 
howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

Find us on Instagram
How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

#60 - Matt B Murray - MMF Threesomes, Fucking on a Gravestone and More

Join Beverly Hills Matchmakers and sisters Alessandra Conti and Cristina Conti Pineda as they dive into the wild, unpredictable world of modern dating. In this episode of Dating In The City, the dynamic duo debates the art of "Loud Crushing," unpacks the shocking news of Elon Musk welcoming baby number 14, and shares their candid thoughts on polyamory. Plus, they tackle a listener question from someone who's been stuck in the friend zone—and offer their best advice on how to break free and find real love. With a mix of humor, expertise, and real talk, this podcast is your go-to guide for navigating the dating scene in 2025. Tune in for all the juicy details, hot takes, and expert insights that you won't want to miss!

*Note: Cristina made a mistake in her Biblical history! King David's son Solomon ruled after his father died. It was King Solomon's sons Rehoboam and Jeroboam who divided the kingdom of Israel.

Celebrities: They Not Like Musk

We got something to get off of your chest.

0:00 – Mic Test
5:36 – Intro
9:20 – What Can’t You Wrap Your Head Around?
19:43 – Ontario Premier to Impose 25% Tariff on US Electricity
28:36 – The Girls Are Fighting
38:00 – We Need To Have These Discussions
55:24 – Druski and Odell Beckham Jr Named in Diddy Case
1:00:58 – 3 Arrested in Hazing Scandal Caleb Wilson at Southern University
1:05:15 – Southwest Airlines Will Now Start Charging for Checked Bags
1:10:32 – Outro/Corny Joke

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Off On A Tangent - S9, E5

Polyamory from a woman’s perspective with two male partners.

Poly Princess-Unmastered

The word Polyamory comes from ancient Greek and Latin, quite literally translating to “many love”. It is desiring or being in multiple intimate relationships at the same time with the full knowledge and consent of all parties involved. 

We're here today to explore what that means in a Nigerian context, so, now that we’re all caught up, let's introduce you to our poly folk…

Jafar: A 25-year-old polyamorous man living in Ibadan, Osun state, who has been in multiple poly relationships, but is currently monogamous with his partner. We spoke about how his neurodivergence shaped his love life (he’s autistic), and why he doesn’t understand “jealousy”. Oh, there was also some stuff about how he was introduced to BDSM at 17, but you’ll have to get into it yourself to find out the details. 


I've never understood jealousy...


The word Polyamory comes from ancient Greek and Latin, quite literally translating to “many love”. It is desiring or being in multiple intimate relationships at the same time with the full knowledge and consent of all parties involved. 

We're here today to explore wat that means in a Nigerian context, so, now that we’re all caught up, let's introduce you to our poly folk…

Timi: A 22-year-old Lagos babe working as an executive assistant and currently in two poly relationships with two women. She gushed about how being loved by women as a woman genuinely changed her life, her “straight era”, the importance of being a strict babe, what cheating looks like to her, and the one time a couple approached her. She also coined the phrase “Real lover scarcity”, and we must give 10s where they are due. 


I love without measure...

In this anniversary episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Darren celebrate 19 years of marriage and 22 years of being together. They dive into the dynamics of their non-traditional relationship, discussing their unique identities as a monogamous person and a polyamorous person. The couple shares insights on communication, the importance of understanding one's own needs, and how to navigate love and relationships outside of societal norms. Join them as they reflect on their journey and provide valuable tips for anyone interested in exploring polyamory.

S8E4 - Celebrating 19 Years of Marriage

[Verse]
Hearts that shimmer like the stars in the night
Love that's boundless
Endless in its flight
They see us through their narrow
Clouded lens
But love's a circle
It never ends

[Chorus]
Infinite love
It expands and it grows
A garden of feelings
Where everyone knows
No chains
No limits
Just hearts that connect
A tapestry of care
A bond to protect

[Verse 2]
They ask their questions
They can't comprehend
How love can flourish without an end
They think we're broken
They think we're confused
But our hearts are open
Never to be abused

[Chorus]
Infinite love
It expands and it grows
A garden of feelings
Where everyone knows
No chains
No limits
Just hearts that connect
A tapestry of care
A bond to protect

[Bridge]
One love doesn't erase another's flame
Each soul we cherish
No need to blame
Jealousy's a shadow
Trust is the light
Together we shine
Hearts burning bright

[Verse 3]
So judge if you must
But we stand proud
Voices united
Singing out loud
Poly is not broken
It's beautifully whole
It's love without borders
It's love of the soul

Infinite Love Expands

In this episode of That Black Couple, Jenn and Daren discuss the complexities of parenting while being polyamorous, addressing common misconceptions and societal concerns. They explore the benefits of polyamorous households for children, emphasizing open communication, community support, and the importance of diverse experiences. The conversation highlights the need for honesty and authenticity in parenting, ultimately showcasing how polyamory can contribute to raising well-adjusted, happy children.

Reference Material
* What About the Children?! Children in Polyamorous Families: Stigma, Myths, and Realities - https://www.whatdidshesay.ca/2019/03/25/what-about-the-children-children-in-polyamorous-families-stigma-myths-and-realities/
* “It’s someone who means a lot to me, and who means even more to mom”: Children’s views on the romantic partners of their polyamorous parents - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11521776/
* Polyamorous Relationships: Children’s Perceptions - https://inrs.ca/en/news/polyamorous-relationships-childrens-perceptions/
* A WHOLE VILLAGE: POLYAMOROUS FAMILIES AND THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD STANDARD - https://community.lawschool.cornell.edu/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/Sheff-et-al.-final.pdf

S8E5 - Parenting While Black and Polyamorous

I am a singer, songwriter who also is very involved with my production. I don’t fit into just one genre and I love doing cross over elements in my music. I have lots of projects in the works. Most of this is preview content, or completely raw versions of songs.

Started with mashups and currently writing my own songs for my interests, feelings, thoughts, or knowledge
Always check tags for credit to artists if songs have a name present
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I HOPE THAT MY MUSIC HELPS BRING LIGHT INSIDE YOUR LIFE OR LETS YOU ENJOY LIFE MORE WITH YOUR OWN VIBES <333  BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS AND YOU WILL SUCCEED :DDD I love doing this for a hobby btw :3 

I love making edits, mashups, music videos like amvs or other types, drawing, I only sing for friends cus get too nervous on recordings, big into anime, love gaming solo type games mostly, but play some coop games and big on RPG mainly. Astral realm owner and figure.

IN3K8 Media is a growing digital advertising agency and media concepts consultancy focused on creating awareness around new and existing brands via our digital advertising platform and our new media thinking.

This is an accidentally funny podcast about the realities of Blackness and adult life. 

Our goal is to create a space for Black millennials to discuss and embody adult life on their own terms. We aren’t beholden to “traditional” gender or parenting roles, queerness is fluid and present in the ways we show up in our relationships and in the world, and we want to build community with other 30-something Black folx who are trying to figure this ish out.

We do “adult” differently. 


-About Daren and Jenn-

Jenn is a queer, Black feminist from Oakland. Daren is an introverted nerd and novelist from Anaheim.

They are boo’ed up and have been since 2002 when they bonded over a mutual love of Brian McKnight’s “Never Felt This Way”, their favorite Brandy lyrics, and nineties TV like Family Matters, Fresh Prince of Bel Air, and Living Single. It was a shared obsession with Black cultural icons, histories, and artistry that drew Jenn and Daren to one another even though they are actually completely different personality-wise.

Jenn and Daren have always said to themselves, “Wouldn’t it be cool if we had a show?” Well, no major networks have reached out yet. So, until that happens, you can find the them here, sharing their views on race and culture and everything in between.

They are young thirty-somethings who have been married since for over a decade. Jenn and Daren have three beautiful, brilliant, radical, snarky kids who play no games.

Come on a journey with two HBCU alumni, Sharelle and Sierra, for a weekly discussion covering topics from politics to pop culture to current events! Welcome to Headwraps and Lipsticks where the conversations are plentiful, thought-provoking and funny!

Welcome to Dating In The City!  Dating In The City is a podcast hosted by sisters & Celebrity Matchmakers, Alessandra Conti & Cristina Conti Pineda (featured on Access Hollywood, CBS, Forbes, MTV), where we debate all things dating, relationships, and pop culture, and relate it all back to YOU!  

Segments include: Sisterly Advice, We Couldn't Help But Wonder, They're Just Like Us, and Catching Up With The Conti's.

Alessandra & Cristina are Co-Founders of nearly 10 year old personal Matchmaking firm, Matchmakers In The City (www.matchmakersinthecity.com), based in Beverly Hills.  The sisters lead a team of 7 Matchmakers as they work with celebrities, professionals, royals, and more. They are now revealing all of the secrets that they have learned about love and relationships to you.

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Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights? 

The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.

Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.

New tracks tagged #Polyamory