She & I is back with another heartwarming episode! In this episode, India Marie shares exciting news: a special discount code for She & I listeners to enjoy 30% off their 10-Class Pass at Work It Pilates when they use code SHEANDI.

B~Love and India Marie then dive into the world of R&B music, discussing how this genre has contributed to the stability of their marriage. They share their favorite R&B artists and songs, and explore the emotional connection that music can bring to a relationship.

As the holiday season approaches, they talk about their holiday expectations and traditions. They discuss the importance of setting realistic expectations and finding joy in the little things.Podc

Don't Let the Holidays Ruin Your Marriage

B~Love and India Marie are back, and they're kicking off the episode with a hilarious story about why they missed last week's show: the dreaded Norovirus! They share their comical (and slightly horrifying) experiences battling the stomach bug and offer some much-needed sympathy to anyone who has ever experienced this unpleasant situation.

The couple then dives into a deep discussion about their recent attendance at the Love & Respect Marriage Conference. They share their key takeaways, insights, and how they plan to apply the lessons learned to their own relationship.

Get ready for a funny and insightful episode filled with relationship advice

Love and Respect Marriage Conference

B~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive husband and a strong community in navigating the challenges of motherhood. This episode offers a raw and relatable perspective on the realities of postpartum life, offering comfort and encouragement to those experiencing similar emotions.

Postpartum Loneliness

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In this episode of Dating in the City, Celebrity Matchmakers and sisters Alessandra Conti and Cristina Pineda dive into the latest dating trends and pop culture moments that have everyone talking! In "DatingTok: Take or Toss?," they break down the March Theory—is this really the season of breakups and fresh starts? Plus, does the "Sticky Eyes" flirting technique work, or is it just another overhyped trend?

Then, in "Stars, They’re Just Like Us," the sisters unpack the biggest celebrity relationship headlines, from Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez’s romance to the latest Tom Cruise dating rumors. Plus, Alessandra gives her take on Justin Bieber’s recent struggles and why Benny Blanco deserves some love.

In "Sisterly Advice," they answer a juicy listener question from “Material Girl” about dating wealthy men, hypergamy, and how to attract high-value partners the right way.

And of course, no episode would be complete without "Catching Up with the Contis!" Tune in for unfiltered takes, expert dating advice, and plenty of sisterly banter.

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Hypergamy, Benny Blanco's Dating Advice, & March Theory

Syd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes into the spotlight, revealing a discussion about honesty and seeing things clearly, even when it's uncomfortable. They then delve into the delicate territory of relationship red flags, debating whether or not to support a friend's decision to bring a new, potentially fleeting partner to an event. The conversation shifts to the balance of having fun on guys/girls trips while maintaining respect and connection with their partners at home. They also tackle the common challenge of handling arguments with a spouse before joint events or tasks, seeking strategies for constructive conflict resolution. A listener writes in with a "What Would India Do?" scenario, describing discomfort with their wife's flirty male coworker who acted inappropriately at her birthday party despite prior conversations. Syd and B~Love dissect the situation, exploring the husband's perspective and considering what they would do in both the husband's and the wife's shoes. Finally, they share a "RelationTIP" based on a survey that reveals seven out of seven guys prioritize niceness and friendliness in a partner, emphasizing the importance of basic kindness in relationships.

Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat

This week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors that influence our desires and choices. They then shift their focus to the dynamics of dating younger people, considering the potential benefits and challenges that can arise in such relationships. Finally, Syd and B~Love discuss the various perks and advantages of being committed to one person, highlighting the emotional security, deepened connection, and shared experiences that often come with long-term monogamy.

Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners

Syd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a single letter can evoke. Following that, they share a Mother's Day recap, likely filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on the day, and perhaps some memorable moments. They then wrap up the episode with a lively game of "Would You Rather," promising some entertaining dilemmas and insights into their personalities.

Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships

It’s a birthday celebration on the podcast this week, and Syd joins B~Love to get real about everything from birthday etiquette to work travel drama.

They kick things off with Birthday + Relationship Vibes, diving into the contentious topic of birthday beef. Is forgetting your spouse’s birthday ever forgivable? They also tackle the age-old "Birthday Wars," questioning why women’s birthdays often feel like a national holiday while men’s are a simple text and a Cash App. The conversation continues with the ultimate "Birthday Test": If your partner planned it all, would they actually get it right? They also debate the merits of surprise parties and whether they’re a thoughtful gesture or a low-key selfish act. And for those who celebrate a "birthday month," they ask the hard-hitting question: Are you really celebrating or just holding the house hostage for 30 days?

Birthday Rules: What’s Expected vs. What’s Real

This week, B~Love and Syd dive into the real dynamics of marriage—where joy meets seriousness, routines clash with spontaneity, and “rules” only apply when they’re convenient. From early-morning cleaning stand-offs to the gray area of household leadership, they unpack the tension between perception and reality: why men often feel unseen for the work they do, and why women sometimes feel like they’re carrying the visible load. With honesty, humor, and a few throw-blanket jokes, the fellas tackle how to protect joy, respect leadership, and give credit where it’s due—all while keeping love at the center.

Don't Go Messing Anybody Else's Happiness Up

B~Love and Syd kick things off with their usual weekend recap, including their first impressions of Cardi B’s new album. From there, the fellas dive into relationship dynamics that hit close to home. They debate whether showing support on Instagram can cross the line when it comes to liking someone else’s photos, and they tackle the tricky question of how to encourage your spouse to hit the gym without sounding critical. The conversation heats up as they explore what happens when friends can’t give you the right advice because you didn’t tell them the whole truth, and they break down the funny but frustrating reality of why your spouse always seems to look extra good right in the middle of an argument. As always, the show wraps with a round of relatable “Would You Rather” questions guaranteed to spark laughs and keep the conversation going long after the episode ends.

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Welcome to Dating In The City!  Dating In The City is a podcast hosted by sisters & Celebrity Matchmakers, Alessandra Conti & Cristina Conti Pineda (featured on Access Hollywood, CBS, Forbes, MTV), where we debate all things dating, relationships, and pop culture, and relate it all back to YOU!  

Segments include: Sisterly Advice, We Couldn't Help But Wonder, They're Just Like Us, and Catching Up With The Conti's.

Alessandra & Cristina are Co-Founders of nearly 10 year old personal Matchmaking firm, Matchmakers In The City (www.matchmakersinthecity.com), based in Beverly Hills.  The sisters lead a team of 7 Matchmakers as they work with celebrities, professionals, royals, and more. They are now revealing all of the secrets that they have learned about love and relationships to you.

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She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!

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