Lonely Is Worse (featuring The Lonesome Drops band)

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December evenings can feel like a pressure cooker. You scroll through Instagram and see everyone’s lives perfectly arranged: big wins, festive decor, smiling faces. Meanwhile, you’re staring down unfinished projects, mounting fatigue, and that nagging voice telling you you’re behind, failing, or simply out of place. Why does it feel like everyone else is moving forward, while you’re stuck living life out of order? Here’s the hard truth: comparison is a silent peace thief. When you measure your messy, nonlinear reality against others’ carefully curated timelines and highlight reels, you ignite stress, judgment, and paralysis. You start thinking: “I should be further by now,” or “I’m failing because my progress isn’t as clean or fast.” But life rarely, if ever, unfolds in neat rows like we want it to. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the .    Remember this: “It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.” Lou Holtz’s words cut deep here. Your life’s load—your struggles, your wins, your pace—is unique. Trying to bear it under the weight of others’ expectations or schedules doesn’t just crush your confidence; it steals your peace. The order of your journey is yours alone—and that’s exactly how it should be. There’s deep wisdom in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me,&nbsp;all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.&nbsp;29&nbsp;Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,&nbsp;for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.&nbsp;30&nbsp;For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”&nbsp; This isn’t a call to competition or perfection. It’s an invitation to rest, to accept your season, and to stop proving your worth based on external timelines. So how do you live life out of order and still move forward? The K.I.S.S. ~ Live O.U.T. of order!   Let’s get strategic about this. Living life “out of order” isn’t a setback—it’s a different rhythm. Here’s a bold O.U.T. framework to own your pace and reclaim your peace: O —&nbsp;Own Your Story Stop comparing. Your path, with all its twists, messiness, and detours, is&nbsp;yours. Write down what you’ve overcome and what only you can bring to the table. Ownership of your unique journey silences the voice of judgment and fuels confidence. U —&nbsp;Unplug from the Noise Disconnect from feeds and vibes that trigger comparison or self-doubt. Create a daily ritual to check in with yourself—journal, meditate, or simply breathe. This clears mental clutter so your decisions come from clarity, not chaos. T —&nbsp;Trust Your Timing (and God's) Ignore the pressure to “catch up.” Remind yourself that forward momentum doesn’t require a straight line. Set small, non-negotiable goals that honor where you are now—and celebrate each one like a win. December’s chaos isn’t your enemy. Living life out of order isn't waiting for your turn—it’s owning the one you’re already in. And it means you refuse to be defined by anyone else’s calendar or highlight reel. Shift your mindset from judgment to acceptance—and watch your peace grow. Your story matters—on your schedule. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   &nbsp; #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: () 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the .   &nbsp;- This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏&nbsp;  on Pray.com () 🎥&nbsp;  on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶&nbsp;  () ✍️&nbsp; &nbsp; Instagram   Twitter   Facebook   &nbsp; Cover Art by&nbsp; Photo by  &nbsp; Music by&nbsp;&nbsp;- Overcomer  Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013...

3898 Living Life Out of Order

This track is that messy pull-back, pull-in tension Jade and Rain always spark. Two people acting done, but still circlin’ like there’s unfinished business.

Jade slides in with that airy, cold delivery controlled, unbothered, calling out the switch-ups. Rain follows with that deeper, steady edge, pretending he’s detached while he keeps getting pulled right back in.

Alt-R&B with a jersey bounce and a little hyperpop gloss, the song feels smooth, sharp, and addictive. It’s not sweet. It’s not soft. It’s two people playing the same game and finally admitting they want one more round.

Short. Direct. Toxic-adjacent without the drama. Perfect replay energy.

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The holiday season is notorious for turning you into a checklist machine. You wake up with a mental rundown of what must be done: complete Cyber purchases, groceries, school events, meal prep, work deadlines, holiday gatherings, gift wrapping, and on and on. By the time Tuesday is here, that list is already gnawing at your energy and your spirit. You're already wiped out just thinking about the week ahead. Sound too familiar? Well, here's your escape:&nbsp;Your to-do list does not anchor your life—your heart is the anchor. Psalm 46:10 reminds us to “Be still, and know that I am God.” Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the .    Stillness isn’t about ignoring responsibilities. It’s about pausing in the chaos to reconnect with what truly grounds you. It’s not the frantic crossing off of tasks that fuels you—it’s the quiet connection to yourself and those you love. When did you take a moment over these past few days to take in the beauty that surrounded you?&nbsp; Max Lucado once wrote, “You were made to be loved. You were made to love.” When you lose touch with your heart, you lose touch with the very purpose that carries you through the overwhelm. Your presence—the real you, not the spinning to-do list version—is what matters. The K.I.S.S. ~ Your heart is the anchor!   Zig Ziglar nailed it when he said, “Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude.” When the weight of the holiday hustle presses down, your mindset is the rudder. Choose to see your heart as the anchor. Choose presence. This week, before you dive into the endless lists, take a moment. Pause. Breathe. Feel your feet on the ground, your hands holding someone you love, your heart beating strong beneath it all. Your to-do list will still be there tomorrow. But your heart? That’s what will keep you steady, strong, and fully alive to whatever comes next. No more burying yourself in excuses or drowning in overwhelm. Your heart is your power. Anchor there first—and find the peace in your presence for today. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   &nbsp; #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: () 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the .   &nbsp;- This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. () 🙏&nbsp;  on Pray.com () 🎥&nbsp;  on YouTube () 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶&nbsp;  () ✍️&nbsp; &nbsp; Instagram   Twitter   Facebook   &nbsp; Cover Art by&nbsp; Photo by  &nbsp; Music by&nbsp;&nbsp;- Overcomer  Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music -&nbsp; Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

3899 Your Heart is the Anchor

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Why is it that this time of year, the calendar fills up and your energy disappears? December comes in like a whirlwind, dishes pile up, and suddenly you’re wondering when you signed up to be the world’s busiest elf. Seriously?!? If you’re like most people, your own wellness gets pushed way down on the list just because there’s too much to do. However, ignoring yourself this time of year is the fastest route to burning out before the big day even arrives. But there's the holiday secret nobody tells you. Yet, if you’re anything like most people, you keep pushing harder, giving more, and telling yourself it’s worth it — even as you ignore the warning signs from your mind, body, and spirit. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the .    But here’s the brutal truth nobody wants to admit: If you don’t care for yourself first, there won’t be anything left to give. This isn’t just feel-good fluff. It’s a critical holiday survival strategy. Think of it like this: you cannot refill anyone else’s cup if yours is bone dry. "Rest isn’t a luxury or a reward—it’s a divine directive." ~ Kristianne Wargo The biblical invitation in Matthew 11:28 lays it bare: “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Beyond faith or philosophy, this is science. Chronic stress, burnout, and exhaustion wreck your immune system, crush your joy, and hijack your ability to connect with the people you love. The holiday season isn’t just about getting through December—it’s about laying the foundation for your whole year ahead. What you need to do is start now, and not wait until the new year. Resolutions come and go. But you have one mind, body, and spirit.&nbsp; Reclaim your power this holiday season! The K.I.S.S. ~ Reclaim your power!   This is all about what you have control over. You can't control the inventory for the gifts you want to buy. You can't control the attitudes of those around you. You can't control traffic. You can't control the weather. BUT you can control yourself and choose to reclaim your power this holiday season to make it enjoyable from a healthy point of view. Here are the three most essential ways: 1. Prioritize Rest Like Your Life Depends On It Put rest on your calendar with the same urgency as your meetings. Sleep, pause, and deep breathing aren’t optional—they’re your survival tools. Even a 10-minute mindful break can reset a stressed-out mind and body. Say no to non-essential plans that drain you and yes to moments that restore you. 2. Nourish Your Body with Purpose, Not Guilt Forget crash diets or “detoxes” after the fact. Fuel yourself with whole foods that energize. Skip empty calories disguised as “holiday treats” and give your body real nutrients instead. Hydrate like it’s your job and notice how much more vibrant you feel. Your body should serve your goals, not sabotage them. 3. Create Space for Joy and Connection, Not Obligation You don’t have to do all the things or please everyone. Cut out the noise and focus on moments that bring real joy—whether that’s a quiet cup of tea, a walk outside, or meaningful time with loved ones. Curate your holiday experience with intention—because joy is the best kind of self-care; what's the real reason for the season? "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness.” ~ Kristianne Wargo This season, let those steps be gentle but determined. Your mind, body, and spirit deserve a radically different December—one decorated from the inside out. No more chasing calories or commitments that don’t serve you. It’s time to build a foundation of wellness that fuels your greatness beyond the holidays and into every day that follows. This year, make your holiday survival your secret weapon. You aren’t just surviving December—you’re mastering how to show up fully, fiercely, and joyfully for everything and everyone that matters. "Be present. Be incredible. Be...

3900 The Holiday Secret Nobody Tells You

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