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Ways to understand and alchemise your chaos into grounded confidence


This is not about being “fixed.” It’s about being real. Your chaos is not your weakness. It is your edge. Learn how to turn it into the most honest and compelling version of yourself.

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#451 - How To Attract Women With Your Inner Chaos

KRUGER (FT DS2012) (P.KUNIU)

IM SO ME (P. KUNIU)

TIKTOKS (P. KUNIU)

VAN GOGH (P. KUNIU)

TRUST (P. KUNIU)

🔻 Song Insight
“Dark Surprise – Not My Town” is a descent into the inner chaos that lingers after betrayal, trauma, and the kind of self-exile that isn’t always visible from the outside. It’s not a clean break. It’s a spiral — one lined with static memories, fractured timelines, and buried rage.

The track weaves y industrial textures with haunting cinematic layers, pulling listeners into a world where the lines between pain and numbness blur. Each verse is a confession — not polished, not filtered, but jagged and breathless. The chorus, almost melodic, lets the smoke rise, showing the aftermath of falling for something that was never real to begin with.

It’s about getting buried alive in a version of yourself you no longer recognize — and realizing, too late, that the town, the love, the identity… was never truly yours. “Dark Surprise” isn’t about closure — it’s about the slow, spiraling process of owning your own exit.

🔻 Lyrics
Intro:
Main Voice – Spoken:
I don’t run from the truth...
I just bury it deeper.
Dual Voice – Whispered, y:
You're not fooling anyone.

Verse 1 – Rap:
I go to speak — my words free fall
Like drops on skin, no catch at all
Swimming through memories trapped in walls
I hide inside... just static calls

Glued inside my self-made cell
Falling back, say it’s all just hell
Pretend the pain is time I spend
Away from a self I won't defend

Pre-Chorus :
Surrounded by ghosts that drain
Every spark, every vein
That burn displaced my name
Hope cracked like ice in pain

Chorus:
Love dove headfirst into mud
Lies spun tight like blood
Thick layers cracked under pressure
Smoke swirled, vortex took my center
Just words... but they never last

Verse 2 – Rap:
I’m feeling rage, tension — the place I’m in
Crossed paths with death, can’t pretend
Flirted with earth, ditch dug with a shrug
No trust... lost respect, no love

Dual Voice:
You didn’t care… you let it collapse…

Psycho sprint down dead-end tracks
Wish I missed those collapse attacks
Seeped in deep where lungs can’t breathe
Toxic air, no chance to leave

Bridge – Melodic, distorted :
Realms bend — this ain’t my timeline
Slide through glass, life in decline
Seconds bleed, countdown loud
This ain't my city. This ain't my crowd.

Chorus:
Love dove headfirst into mud
Lies spun tight like blood
Thick layers cracked under pressure
Smoke swirled, vortex took my center
Just words... but they never last

Verse 3 – Rap:
Ignoring what’s down don’t stop the spin
Buck up or fuck up, that’s how it begins
Roll the dice — land on eyes
Be your own dark surprise

Lock it up. Truth dies quiet.
Only you knew… we’re on the other side.

Outrol:
This isn’t me…
This ain’t my town…
You were never really here...



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Dark Surprise - Not My Town

This EP was started a year ago in the grieving motions of my former self, during a period of darkness I never thought I could get past. As a kindness I decided to honour that broken part of myself and expand on his work instead of neglecting it. I leave behind the apparitions of a love that burned the closer I got.

Long Distance

Ominous ritual sacrifice music evokes nocturnal dread and psychedelic gloom. Moog flute pipes mournfully over a detuned sawtooth, funerary dirge, summoning lo-fi solemnity in marching half-speed washes.

Coffee Tome

You think anything is real in this world?
A whispered challenge. A death-rattle of illusion.
This piece is a descent—into shadow, sacrifice, and sovereignty.

“Thistle” is a ritual spoken-word incantation from the threshold—a conjuration of flesh and spirit, bone and void. Through spectral breath and lyrical ash, it calls out the myth of reality, the tragic fabric of the human “skin suit,” and the sacred chaos of identity unraveling.

Inspired by esoteric philosophy, chaos magick, and the ancient pulse of archetypal transformation, this work explores the liminal space where form breaks down and something older speaks through.

🩸 I am the bender of time
🌑 I am the banality of the blood
🌿 I am the thistle—alive, whispering, and crowned with shadow.

Listen. Dare. Fall into the hole.

Whistle in the Thistle

"If it didn’t matter, it wouldn’t hurt. Pain is the gift of knowing you’re alive."

4Me2BeFree is more than music—it’s my story, my scars, and my survival. Every song is a piece of me, a raw melody of love, heartbreak, and resilience. I blend AI-generated vocals and instruments with real emotions, turning my experiences—especially from an LGBTQ+ perspective—into something that speaks to anyone who's ever felt lost, broken, or just searching for something real.

Breakup songs? Yeah, they hit different. Music carries us through the worst of it, and every generation finds their own anthems of love, loss, and getting back up. Heartache doesn’t care about age, gender, or where you come from—music connects us all.

I make music because I’ve been there. The pain, the anger, the hope—it's all in these songs. If something here hits home for you, let it. If you feel something, let me know. That’s the connection that keeps this alive.

I create carefully coordinated manual throat noises that occasionally resemble music

Experimental ambient/IDM electronic sound design,  musique concrete and contemporary composition.

My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

“Creator of City of Make-Believe – a spoken word dreamscape blending poetry, sound design, and cosmic ritual.”

John C. Sweet is a poet, musician, and sonic explorer who crafts immersive, atmospheric experiences through sound and spoken word. Blending haunting melodies with raw, introspective lyricism, his work walks the thin veil between reality and the unknown—where echoes of the past meet the pulse of the future.

From ethereal soundscapes to sludgy, hypnotic rhythms, John’s music is a fusion of industrial textures, post-rock grit, and spectral storytelling. His spoken word performances unravel themes of existential longing, cosmic wonder, and the fragile beauty of decay—pulling listeners into a world where myths whisper and the boundaries of time blur.

His latest project, Hymns for the Dead & Divine, is a journey through shadow and light, weaving dreamlike vocals with cinematic instrumentation, ritualistic chants, and ghostly transmissions from places unseen.

This is not just music. This is an invocation. A reckoning. A voyage into the spaces between.

🔹 Follow for new releases, experimental collaborations, and transmissions from the void. 🔹

New tracks tagged #ShadowWork