I see this happen a lot: someone finally gets into a healthy relationship after struggling with insecure attachment (through a lot of work on themselves, of course), and they miss the intensity. They watch a passionate love scene on TV or hear about their friend’s romantic escapade and momentarily lament their “boring” relationship, wondering if this is what a healthy relationship is supposed to feel like.

But then they realize, “Hey, I’m not constantly in pain! My stomach isn’t tied up in anxious knots. I can relax and be myself with this person!” Attachment is like a drug with extreme highs and lows, so giving up the lows also means giving up the highs. When we equate love with intense chemistry, then realize that’s not real love, it can be an adjustment. If this happens and you find yourself craving intensity in a healthy relationship, listen to this podcast. I’ll tell you what you can do to fill your emotional tank and focus on what you have rather than operating from a place of lack.

#691 The Sadness of a Healthy Relationship

i guess some would say i'm an anxious lover
the push and pull of wanting closeness and wanting to be free.. 
this is a short mindful breathing exercise for when we need to return back home to ourselves. 

breathing technique: 3, 9, 6 breath - deeply grounded and soothing. breathe in through the nose, hold the breath, breathe out through the mouth. go at a pace that feels most right for you.

enjoy x

deep breaths for anxious lovers: a mindful breathing exercise

Sun Yehoshua - Anxious Attachment

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, and especially romantic relationships. It's also something we tend to fear, and that triggers us into protective behaviours that move us away from connection & stress out our bodies & nervous systems.

But conflict itself is not a bad thing - it's the way we APPROACH & MANAGE conflict that makes all the difference. So, what if we could approach conflict consciously, using it as a tool to deepen our connection rather than allowing it to drive us apart? 

In this episode of Relate Higher, Award-Winning Relationship Coach & Former Family Lawyer, Leticia Ringe introduces the concept of 'Conscious Conflict' providing a three-step process for healthily, sustainably & effectively working WITH conflict in a romantic relationship to create deeper connection, understanding and growth.

Learn how your 'protective strategies' rooted in childhood experiences show up in your disagreements with your romantic partner, and how triggers, protective patterns and lack of repair chip away at your relationship (and nervous systems) over time. 

Whether you're in a relationship or single, this episode provides valuable strategies to approach conflict consciously in your romantic relationship, so that you thrive as a couple and transmute protective patterns & unconscious conflict cycles coming between you. 

Tune in to learn how to create meaningful and conscious connections in your romantic life and beyond.

Apply for a place in Leticia's Conscious Relationship Coaching Program here: https://www.relatehigher.com/crcp

Download Leticia's FREE TRAINING "Create Thriving Relationships Today" here: https://www.relatehigher.com/masterclass

Enjoy show notes and more here: https://www.relatehigher.com/podcast

Register for Leticia's community newsletter here: https://www.relatehigher.com/community

CLB 258: Conscious Conflict in Romantic Relationships (How to Healthily Respond to Conflict as a Couple) [RH 32]

You want less drama in your relationship? Guess what? Conditioning will keep you looking for it, until you do something about it. Check out this episode to learn how to connect and relate. Let’s get to the real essence of relationships, especially if you’re grappling with attachment issues and toxic patterns.

Get ready for a no-BS approach to breaking free from the shame, blame, and emotional barriers holding you back. This is your chance to change it up, so you are happier, more confident and connected.

Key Takeaways:
* Stop playing the game and learn to connect without judgment.
* Shame impacts your relationships; take steps to overcome it.
* Discover the power of honest, blame-free communication.
* Break unhealthy patterns by focusing on your own emotional growth.

"Relating is about sharing where we’re at. It doesn’t mean it has to be fixed or that somebody’s right and somebody’s wrong—it’s just about being honest." ~ Tracy Crossley

#787: Relationships and what are they?

Are you your own worst enemy in relationships? Whether it’s anxious clinging or avoidant distancing, attachment issues often create cycles of fear and emotional avoidance that sabotage the love and intimacy you crave. In this episode, Tracy dives deep into the hidden forces driving these patterns and shares how stepping into self-responsibility can transform your connections from the inside out.

🎙️ What you’ll learn in this episode:
* How attachment styles impact your connection patterns.
* Why unavailable partners feel familiar—and how to stop chasing them.
* Steps to break free from fear-based habits and nurture authentic intimacy.
* How to create a vision for healthier, real relationships.

"Every single person on this planet wants to be loved, but most of the time, when you have attachment issues, what you really want, you push away." ~ Tracy Crossley

#792: What you really want but push away

In this episode of The BrokeMan’s Podcast, we’re diving into the psychology of attachment styles with special guest BO. Learn how anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles shape your relationships, communication, and emotional well-being. From understanding the roots of these patterns to actionable tips for fostering healthier connections, this episode offers insights that can transform the way you connect with others. Perfect for anyone on a journey of personal growth and self-awareness.

Attachment Styles Unpacked: Anxious, Avoidant & Secure | The BrokeMan’s Podcast ft. BO

JOIN THE TRUE LOVE EXPERIENCE (for FREE): Learn How to CREATE True Love. A LIVE Masterclass on February 13th for Singles & Couples teaching you a simple process for CREATING True Love. Because we don't find true love, we CREATE it. Replay available. Register here: https://www.leticiaringe.com/truelove

This episode is for you if you have recently ended a relationship or marriage with a romantic partner or spouse and now you need to process the relationship ending and move on! 

This episode is also for you if you know you still haven't moved on from a prior romantic relationship and it's impacting your ability to create a healthy relationship with a new partner now. 

You'll learn a holistic strategy for supporting yourself fully through this chapter so that you process any heartbreak & the relationship ending, support yourself through the grief cycle, get to know yourself outside of the relationship, re-establish a new life for yourself without your ex, feel comfortable being on your own and put yourself in the best position to be in a healthy, secure and loving relationship with someone else in the future. 

Learn cutting edge conscious relationship tips from an Award-Winning Conscious Relationship Coach and former Family Lawyer to support you with this phase of the romantic relationship cycle.  

You're not alone!

Apply for my Conscious Relationship Coaching Program here: www.leticiaringe.com/crcp

Podcast show notes at: www.leticiaringe.com/podcast


CLB 283: How to Get Over Your Ex & Move On (and The True Love Experience!)

We will all need help sometimes when it comes to our love life and romantic relationships.  Whether you're single, dating, in a relationship, deciding whether to leave a relationship or uncoupling right now - you can use Conscious Relationship work to help you. 

So, what exactly is Conscious Relationship work? And how can it help you?

In today's episode, I'm breaking down:

1) Exactly what Conscious Relationship work is;
2) How it can support you wherever you are in the love life right now;
3) Why it matters; 
4) How to know it's something you need; and 
5) How I can help you to do this work in my Conscious Relationship Coaching Program.

I also break down how Conscious Relationship work supports you with untangling insecure attachment styles and common protective patterns that get in the way of creating and experiencing the love, connection, sex & intimacy you desire. Enjoy! 

Apply for my Conscious Relationship Coaching Program today at: www.leticiaringe.com/crcp

Podcast show notes at: www.leticiaringe.com/podcast


CLB 286: The Conscious Relationship Coaching Program & What Conscious Relationship Work Involves

Welcome and welcome back to the Not Carrie Bradshaw podcast, where your host Jessica discusses style, pop culture, and wellness.

This week, Jessica is giving a cursory course on bandage dresses, updates on the new job, defining success on your own terms, and the anxiety of dipping a toe back into the dating pool.

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Getting Tested

A raw, confessional cinematic pop ballad unpacking the ache of attachment wounds. “Anxiously Attached” feels like reading a page from a private journal — with stripped-back lo-fi drums, haunting ambient pads, and breathy, vulnerable male vocals that crack open the truth about chasing love that pulls away.

Cleo wrote this song as an honest mirror — to hold space for the parts of us that still beg for a reply, that chase the silence just to feel seen. It’s about naming the spiral, tracing it back to the first fear, and slowly learning how to stay soft when old stories scream run.

From late-night texts to childhood echoes, this song explores why we overlove, apologize too much, and keep calling it “match” when we’re really just trying not to be left alone.
It’s gentle but gritty — made for anyone learning to sit in the messy middle and feel a little less alone in it.


Anxiously Attached

Are you exhausted from trying to make everything happen? From kicking down doors and forcing your way into opportunities that never quite pan out?

Stop. Just stop.

You think you're being proactive, but you're actually running from yourself. Every time you force something—a relationship, a job, a business opportunity—you're telling the universe you don't trust it to deliver. You're saying you're not enough as you are.

In this episode, Tracy explores:
* Why forcing comes from not believing in yourself
* How attachment keeps you stuck in patterns of scarcity and desperation
* The difference between taking action and forcing outcomes
* Why avoidants struggle to value what they already have
* How to break the cycle of work hard → fail → repeat

"When you force, you're never emotionally available. I was forcing because I thought that would open a door that would bring what was missing, but it never did." ~ Tracy Crossley


#819: Are You Still Forcing Sh** to Happen?

Welcome to the brokeMans Podcast where the journey is real and spoken about. Where community shares that journey to show everyone they are not alone in this life. Penny for your thoughts lets talk about it.

sun yehoshua's second account. mainly for songs i feel dont "fit" my main page.. that i otherwise would have deleted

sunyehoshua@gmail.com for any inquiries 

Use my music in your videos if you want, just give credit. However, for songmakers, visit my website/email me for prices.

Cleo Antaeus is an independent songwriter, singer, and producer based in Honolulu, Hawaiʻi, whose music drifts between cinematic pop, soulful indie, bossa nova flips, and raw, sync-ready confessions that feel like secrets whispered at 2 a.m.

In just seven months, Cleo has written over 160 original songs, each one shaped by their poetic storytelling and fearless experimentation. Since April alone, their self-released tracks have pulled in 25,000+ organic streams worldwide, with multiple songs crossing 1K–2K+ plays on SoundCloud — proof that Cleo’s garden is alive and echoing.

At the heart of this work are Cleo’s alter artists, Nova Rue and Sunni — soulful, cinematic branches of their voice that bring each story to life in new shades and textures.

Cleo’s songs are 100% original, self-owned, fully cleared, and crafted for TV, film, and brand syncs — perfect for supervisors, artists, and listeners seeking music with real depth and a timeless global soul.

Good songs rise — and so do I.

Genres: Cinematic Pop, Indie Folk, Neo-Soul, R&B, Bossa Nova, Alt-Pop
Based: Honolulu, Hawaiʻi
Sync/Publishing/Collabs: cleonytus@gmail.com

Create a Life that is Beautiful is a personal development & coaching podcast with Award-Winning Coach Leticia Ringe supporting you to create the life, business & relationships you want! 

Relate Higher™️ is a series on the podcast, dedicated to providing the leading standard for conscious relationships: whether that be your romantic partnerships, friendships, family or your professional relationships. As well as support for all phases of the relationship cycle from deciding whether to leave a relationship, completing a relationship (including divorce, separation & break ups), healing a broken heart, dating & attracting new relationships, starting a new relationship and improving an existing relationship.  

Hit subscribe & get ready to create the life, business and relationship you want! Show notes & more at: https://www.leticiaringe.com/podcast

A lot of us live in our head, disconnected from our feelings and intuition. This podcast touches on releasing insecure attachment, accepting your authentic self and getting “unstuck” by connecting to how you FEEL instead of how you THINK. I’ve been there, and discuss sensitive subjects using my own experiences with a lot of laughs and even more empathy… because we’re all flawed humans.

dora kamau is a mindfulness meditation artist creating expressions of presence for the collective. based in los angeles.

The Not Carrie Bradshaw Podcast is hosted by Brooklyn-based (Atlanta native) Content Creator Jessica Wilkins. In each episode, Jessica dives into all the style, wellness, and pop culture topics she’s been DM’ing and texting with her friends about. From fashion tips to feminism to all things Black and beautiful, Jessica is your new fun bestie who has something to say about everything.

New tracks tagged #anxious attachment