Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection 

Borderline and Codependent dance of impossible connection comes together from the wounded childhoods (to varying degrees) of both. People with BPD cannot connect from a lack of self. People with Codependency have learned to try to please and over-give to others to connect. It is the woundedness of each that creates the betrayal bonds - that is not just a one-way street like so many with Codependency believe.

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Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination &amp; Ruination Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

BPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced relationship and it is also 
unconsciously for both the Borderline and the person dating or in love with this person, 
the start of the ending of all you believe you have found and can continue to build on. 

People in these relationships with (untreated) Borderlines go from idealization, shockingly, 
to devaluation on to be ghosted, discarded, or you breakup with the Borderline and then 
rumination is overwhelming and if not treated people with Codependency are the brink of 
emotional and/or physical, and sometimes also, financial ruination. You need to get off the BPD rollercoaster before you really can't recognize or know yourself emotionally at all anymore.

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