BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination &amp; Ruination Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

BPD idealization is the beginning of the intense fast-paced relationship and it is also 
unconsciously for both the Borderline and the person dating or in love with this person, 
the start of the ending of all you believe you have found and can continue to build on. 

People in these relationships with (untreated) Borderlines go from idealization, shockingly, 
to devaluation on to be ghosted, discarded, or you breakup with the Borderline and then 
rumination is overwhelming and if not treated people with Codependency are the brink of 
emotional and/or physical, and sometimes also, financial ruination. You need to get off the BPD rollercoaster before you really can't recognize or know yourself emotionally at all anymore.

Sessions with A.J. Mahari - https://ajmahari.ca/sessions

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting

A commenter on my Youtube channel asked if BPD silent treatment is the same as BPD ghosting or 
similar or are they different. Great question. For some people your person with (most often quiet) 
BPD may well have silent treatment patterns and this is the best way you can ascertain the difference 
between the silent treatment and BPD ghosting. I also talk about the internal differences in what's 
happening for the Quiet Borderline.

Sessions with A.J. Mahari - https://ajmahari.ca/sessions

BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting

To Survive a BPD Breakup First Stop Relationship Recycling

So many people are so stuck in the betrayal bonds that play
out Codependent repetition compusions cycles in relationships
with people with Borderline Personality Disorder to a point even 
way beyond self-abandonment, self-sacrifice, and losing yourself
that emotionally it feels impossible to live with the Borderline
or without the Borderline. Where do exists in that when there's
no middle, no room for you, no reciprocity and you are stuck
giving all the time and not being seen and heard? This is a recipe 
for mental and physical health breaking down and you need to find
your way, with help, to stop the relationship recycling, get to the
point of taking action that is self-focused and self-partnering so
you can heal and recover and live your best life in all areas of 
your life.

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