In the classes I teach and the podcasts I record I talk frequently about how deeply Sun Tzu’s The Art of War has impacted the way I understand the opportunities that show up in my life. Once you get past the title, you can begin to understand how it is really a book about collaboration. I have MANY translations of the Art of War in my apartment but none of them have reshaped my brain as profoundly as the ones by Gary Gagliardi. His book The Amazing Secrets of Sun Tzu's The Art of War: The Mysteries of History's Most Powerful Strategy helped me to understand the work on a completely different level and was the basis for my Five Meaasures Canvas tool.

And, he is the guest on this episode of the podcast!!!!

If you are a fan of the Art of War or are curious about how a book called The Art of War could actually be about collaboration, this podcast is for you. 

I also want to say that I am so grateful to Gary for being willing to share his time with me and tolerate my questions. He definitely took me to school during this interview. 

I hope you will enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed making it.

Links from the Interview
The Amazing Secrets of Sun Tzu's The Art of War


Contacting Gary Gagliardi
Amazon Author Page: https://bit.ly/3CHgJkh
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/garyjgagliardi/
Web: https://scienceofstrategy.org/main/  and http://www.garygagliardi.com
SubStack: https://practicalstrategy.substack.com
Email: gagliardi.gary@gmail.com

The Art of War with Gary Gagliardi

Welcome to Fight Club! Enjoy applying the 3 keys to improve your workplace conflict skills.
Join the Creative Conflict Community Facebook group HERE: https://www.facebook.com/groups/creativeconflictcommunity
Access the video HERE:  https://youtu.be/fagAVeXO_n4 
00:00 Fight Club intro
00:30 Welcome!
04:15 An empowering promise: I commit to serve ...
07:27 A challenge & invitation: use the keys, tools, insights gained today to achieve new results (results being clearly defined events and/or numbers/numerical proof)
09:54 If you can make it here ... If I can make it here ♪♪♪. Individual motivation
14:34 Rate your experience of workplace conflict
16:25 Tomorrow will always be more challenging than today, because ...
18:02 Rate your experience, Part 2
19:55 What is 'conflict?' Unhelpful cultural associations with 'conflict.'
21:17 When does conflict happen? Why? What? How? Who? When? By When? Quality measurement?
23:22 Where do you experience the most conflict?
24:45 Leading team members with longer service
25:30 Rate your experience, Part 3
26:25 The leader in conflict with every one of her 11 team members
28:38 The What/How line & how to inspire and encourage self-directed, aligned performance in your team, growing in your role, as leader, at the same time
30:40 Reporting to a toxic leader, to water-cooler-war, or not?
34:50 The strategic (what?) often times 'easier' to decide, compared to the operational, 'how' etcetera.
36:48 Real-talk: Are you a micro-manager? How to flip these tendencies and take the lead, growing in your role as leader
37:50 Turning the corner on micro-management, inspiring trustworthy, self-empowered, aligned team-members
38:10 When intense conflict is a blessing: in hindsight, re. unsustainable relationships
39:55 The toxic leader: the line between sabotage and constructive conflict
44:15 Key Number 1: Accept That Conflict Creates Everything
49:58 Key Number 2: Practice Conflict to Create 2 Winners, and more ...
53:35 Conflict as a dance
55:05 Towards unshakeable peace on Earth, with proper tension
55:20 Key Number 3: Join the Conflict Gym/Club: life's daily conflict training grounds
58:20 Next steps: 1-2-1 journeys, 6-week program, The Creative Conflict Academy

Manage Workplace Conflict Like a BOSS Webinar

In this episode, Dr Adelina McLeod talks to Chris Breedon, an expert by experience on conflict and conflict resolution. They explore causes and drivers of conflict and the impact of conflict on individuals and the wider impact on the team and organisation. They go on to discuss ways to mediate and resolve conflict, and whistle-blowing. 

Chris Breedon is an RAF officer, and during his 40 years of service has completed five tours of active duty in Afghanistan. He is a Squadron 'Uncle' for XIII Sqn, and supports personnel across the services and civil service as part of his role in mentoring and support. Chris Breedon is a conflict resolution expert who is a mediator and runs a business, Prospero Professional Solutions, delivering workplace conflict mediation, conflict coaching, conflict management training as well as unconscious bias training. Chris Breedon is on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-breedon-ba-hons-mcgi-52612393/

Dr Adelina McLeod is a Geriatric Medicine Consultant, a Collegiate Member of the Royal College of Physicians of Edinburgh (RCPE), and a member of RCPE’s Recently Appointed Consultants’ Committee (RAC).

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SCARF model: https://www.growthengineering.co.uk/scarf-model/ 

Positions and Interests: https://the-conflictexpert.com/2019/04/03/positions-versus-interests-the-role-they-play-in-negotiation/ 

Amygdala hijack: https://www.healthline.com/health/stress/amygdala-hijack 

Betari Box: https://www.toolshero.com/communication-methods/betari-box-theory/

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Recording date: 18 July 2023

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Consultant Conversations

Conflict Resolution (2 Nov 2023)

In this month's episode of Tap'd Talks HR Anthony speaks to leadership and conflict coaches Alice Driscoll and Louise van Haarst, co-founders of The Power House, a global leadership development business focused on unlocking the potential in organisations and people. They discuss how it's possible to have conflicts in the workplace in a way that feel constructive and not toxic and the importance of having meaningful debates without them turning into a damaging force. Alice and Louise also share some insights from their book 'Turning difficult conversations into Smart Conflict' that will be published in the summer of 2025.

Turning Difficult Conversations into Smart Conflict

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, and especially romantic relationships. It's also something we tend to fear, and that triggers us into protective behaviours that move us away from connection & stress out our bodies & nervous systems.

But conflict itself is not a bad thing - it's the way we APPROACH & MANAGE conflict that makes all the difference. So, what if we could approach conflict consciously, using it as a tool to deepen our connection rather than allowing it to drive us apart? 

In this episode of Relate Higher, Award-Winning Relationship Coach & Former Family Lawyer, Leticia Ringe introduces the concept of 'Conscious Conflict' providing a three-step process for healthily, sustainably & effectively working WITH conflict in a romantic relationship to create deeper connection, understanding and growth.

Learn how your 'protective strategies' rooted in childhood experiences show up in your disagreements with your romantic partner, and how triggers, protective patterns and lack of repair chip away at your relationship (and nervous systems) over time. 

Whether you're in a relationship or single, this episode provides valuable strategies to approach conflict consciously in your romantic relationship, so that you thrive as a couple and transmute protective patterns & unconscious conflict cycles coming between you. 

Tune in to learn how to create meaningful and conscious connections in your romantic life and beyond.

Apply for a place in Leticia's Conscious Relationship Coaching Program here: https://www.relatehigher.com/crcp

Download Leticia's FREE TRAINING "Create Thriving Relationships Today" here: https://www.relatehigher.com/masterclass

Enjoy show notes and more here: https://www.relatehigher.com/podcast

Register for Leticia's community newsletter here: https://www.relatehigher.com/community

CLB 258: Conscious Conflict in Romantic Relationships (How to Healthily Respond to Conflict as a Couple) [RH 32]

We are delighted to introduce a brand new series of talks, Practice Across the Pond, in which we discuss the regulatory and ethical approaches taken to various matters from both a UK (England and Wales) and US (New York perspective).

In this episode, CM Murray LLP Partners Corinne Staves and Andrew Pavlovic and Devika Kewalramani, Partner and General Counsel at FisherBroyles, discuss the following:

- A comparative overview of the regulatory regimes in both jurisdictions
 
- The key ethical and regulatory challenges faced by GCs working across both London and New York offices and how to address them
 
- Identifying and effectively managing conflicts of interest across global offices, taking into account the differing tests applicable to each jurisdiction and the need to make decisions quickly


If you would like to discuss regulation and conflict management in more detail, or if you have any questions arising from this recording, please contact Corinne Staves, Andrew Pavlovic or Devika Kewalramani.

Practice Across The Pond: Introduction to the Regulatory Landscape and Conflict Management

In this episode of Nine to Thrive HR, host Cindi Koetzle interviews Carol Bowser, a workplace conflict expert and former employment lawyer, to discuss the persistent issue of conflict in the workplace. They explore how conflict often stems from unmet expectations and differences in communication styles, exacerbated by generational shifts and workforce turnover. Bowser emphasizes the importance of addressing conflict through clear communication, fostering trust and respect, and developing conflict resolution skills as core workplace competencies.

Nine To Thrive HR

Conflict and Expectations: Making the Invisible Visible

Are you struggling to develop deep connections with others? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, on their new book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations.

Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio affiliate!

Harville Hendrix, PhD, & Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, co-created Imago Relationship Theory and co-founded Safe Conversations LLC in 2015, a training institute focused on relational intervention. They are co-authors of three New York Times best sellers, including Getting the Love You Want,  which has sold over four million copies. Married for 40 years, they have six children, seven grandchildren, and split their time between Dallas and New York City. Dr. Hendrix holds degrees from Mercer University, Union Theological Seminary, and the University of Chicago, and has received numerous honors, including the Distinguished Contribution Award. Dr. Hunt earned her doctorate in Women's History from Union Theological Seminary and was inducted into the National Women's Hall of Fame in 1994 for her role in the global women's movement. https://harvilleandhelen.com https://safeconversations.com

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How to Talk with Anyone about Anything with Harville Hendrix PhD & Helen LaKelly Hunt PhD

Is it possible to address conflict calmly and constructively when it arises? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Michael J. Lee, PhD, on Conflict Management in Political & Personal Relationships.

Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET1490AM & 98.1 FM ABC Talk News Radio affiliate! 

Michael J. Lee, PhD, teaches and writes in the areas of political communication and rhetoric. He received his Ph.D., in Communication studies at the University of Minnesota, his M.A. (Communication) and B.A. (Political Science),at the University of Georgia.  His research focuses on political branding, political identity, strategic communication, and audience positioning in American politics.  His work has earned over a dozen awards including five national book awards for his first book, Creating Conservatism: Postwar Words that Made an American Movement. His latest book is We Are Not One People: Separatism and Secession in American Politics Since 1776. He is regularly invited to speak about his research at universities around the country.  https://charleston.edu/communication/faculty-staff/lee-mike.php


Conflict Management in Political & Personal Relationships with Michael J. Lee PhD

Is it possible to address conflict calmly and constructively when it arises? Tune in for an inspiring discussion with Michael J. Lee, PhD, on How to Manage Stress & Anxiety During Conflicts.

Moments with Marianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET 1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio Affiliate! 

Michael J. Lee, PhD, teaches and writes in the areas of political communication and rhetoric. He received his Ph.D., in Communication studies at the University of Minnesota, his M.A. (Communication) and B.A. (Political Science),at the University of Georgia.  His research focuses on political branding, political identity, strategic communication, and audience positioning in American politics.  His work has earned over a dozen awards including five national book awards for his first book, Creating Conservatism: Postwar Words that Made an American Movement. His latest book is We Are Not One People: Separatism and Secession in American Politics Since 1776. He is regularly invited to speak about his research at universities around the country.  https://charleston.edu/communication/faculty-staff/lee-mike.php

For more show information visit:
www.MariannePestana.com

How to Manage Stress & Anxiety During Conflicts with Michael J. Lee, PhD

RCPE's Podcast Series 'Consultant Conversations' by the Recently Appointed Consultants' Committee (RAC).

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In a single moment your life can change!  “Moments with Marianne” is a transformative hour that covers an endless array of topics with the ‘best of the best.’ Her guest are leaders in their fields, ranging from inspirational authors, top industry leaders, business and spiritual entrepreneurs.  Each guest is gifted, and a true visionary!  A recognized leader in her own work, and while teaching others to develop, refocus, and grow; Marianne will bring the best guest, and sometimes a special surprise.  Don’t miss this – you never know just which ‘moment’ will change your life forever.

Welcome to the CM Murray LLP podcast channel where we discuss a wide range of topical issues in relation to partnership and employment law.

CM Murray LLP is a leading partnership, employment and regulatory law firm based in London. 

We advise US and UK law firms and partners, hedge fund and investment management partners, US and other multi-national employers, senior executives and founders on a range of UK partnership and employment law issues.

Create a Life that is Beautiful is a personal development & coaching podcast with Award-Winning Coach Leticia Ringe supporting you to create the life, business & relationships you want! 

Relate Higher™️ is a series on the podcast, dedicated to providing the leading standard for conscious relationships: whether that be your romantic partnerships, friendships, family or your professional relationships. As well as support for all phases of the relationship cycle from deciding whether to leave a relationship, completing a relationship (including divorce, separation & break ups), healing a broken heart, dating & attracting new relationships, starting a new relationship and improving an existing relationship.  

Hit subscribe & get ready to create the life, business and relationship you want! Show notes & more at: https://www.leticiaringe.com/podcast

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