Dr Tina Schermer Sellers is a sex therapist and family therapist. She has worked extensively with those emerging from purity culture to find a healthy embodied approach to sex and freedom from the shame their faith has built around sex.

You can find out more about Tina at https://www.tinaschermersellers.com
You can follow her at:
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And keep an eye out for her upcoming book "Shameless Parenting"

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110 - Dr Tina Schermer Sellers - Shameless Parenting

I was raised a religious nut
I had it all figured out
"You don't share my faith
Hell's gonna be your fate"
You never asked to be born

That's how we got trapped
We were keen to keep the law
Our life completely mapped
They arrived without a flaw
They never asked to be born

They never want you to stop
and check if it all makes sense
Why do we hate so much
if Jesus healed with a touch?
It's like he was never born

Love cut like a knife
through the church and all its lies
I've never felt this free
it's the springtime of my life
now I feel like I've been reborn

I Never Asked To Be Born

Granddaughter Crow: Belief, Being, and Beyond: Your Journey to Questioning Ideas, Deconstructing Concepts & Healing from Harmful Belief Systems
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Join our co-hosts, Maddie and Amy, as they discuss just how apparently coincidental the similarities between the Freemasons and Mormons. Plus, is informed consent even possible in the church? Spoiler alert: it's not looking great for you, mormon dummies!

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@fhepodcast

Sources:
https://mormonstories.org/truth-claims/mormon-doctrine/temple-ceremony-masonry/

https://www.history.com/news/freemasons-facts-symbols-handshake-meaning

https://www.reddit.com/r/exmormon/comments/nsabav/informed_consent_and_the_mormon_church/

Music: Funk In The Trunk by Shane Ivers - www.silvermansound.com

More Mason than Mormon

Seeds, Weeds, and Little Birdies, baby!

I'll start with a TikTok about parenting - Jim Gaffigan is the best, man! Parenting really is hard. And here's the reason: we want to be in control. If we could force our teenagers to make the right decisions we would do it. Because we love the ideal of control. And  it's not just a parent thing - it's a human thing. But God's ideal for us isn't control.

Jesus tells three parables to show us what the KoG (the Kingdom of God) is like. And these stories are absurd. They don't make sense. They're jokes.

The gardener. He scatters seed willy nilly and goes inside and takes a nap. The seeds sprout all on their own. That's not how gardening works. Good gardeners do all sorts of things to make the thing grow. But not Jesus' gardener. What does this have to teach us?

The mustard seeds. Yeah, they're weeds. That's the joke. No one plants mustard seeds. They're weeds and they spread like weeds and look like weeds. What does it mean that Jesus equates the KoG with a little seed? Who and what counts in God's kingdom? What is beautiful? Where do we see, perceive the divine?

Little birdies. The plant grows and the birds perch on its branches and enjoy the shade. They get grace! Isn't that so sweet? Yeah, on the surface. But let's go deeper. Do we want birds in the garden? Nope, they eat the seeds and fruit. Birds are bad for gardens. Crows screw up cornfields. That's why we have scarecrows - to keep those little bastards out.

But Jesus is like, "nope, I like birds in my garden." Why does Jesus say this? What might it mean? Here's what I think - radical inclusion and hospitality - that's the KoG.

Speaker: Aaron Vis
Scripture: Mark 4:26-34
https://www.bible.com/events/49151043

October 8, 2023 "Seeds, Weeds, and Radical Hospitality"

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Principal hilo conductor en Bohemian Rhapsody (piano)
Lista donde aparece el hilo textual
· Primera aparición (incompleto), 22''
· · Segunda aparición, 1'42''
· · · Tercera aparición (contraído), 3'31''
· · · · Cuarta aparición, 5'42''
Lista donde aparece el hilo transformado
· · · · · (armonía dilatada) 38''
· · · · · · (gesto cromático) 3'06''
· · · · · · · (armonía contraída) 3'55''
· · · · · · · · (gesto similar, dilatado)5'27''

Hilo conductor en Bohemian Rhapsody

An arrangement of Bratja from the original Fullmetal Alchemist series. I really, really like the Brotherhood soundtrack - it's one of my all time favourites - but I think Bratja from the original is almost as good. I reorchestrated this from scratch to practice with some things and test others and hopefully kept the feel of the original while adding a little of my own style.


Find more of the Synthetic Orchestra on the sites below:
YouTube: http://youtube.com/dummeh
Facebook: http://facebook.com/syntheticorchestra
Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/syntheticorch
Google+: http://plus.google.com/b/116523306548488804710/
Site: http://syntheticorchestra.com

Used:
FL Studio 10, Kontakt 5, Spitfire Albion,  Solo Strings, Harp, Percussion & Piano, Project Sam Symphobia II, Orchestral Tools Berlin Woodwinds, Cinesamples VOXOs, Various private orchestral libraries

Fullmetal Alchemist - Bratja (Re)Orchestra

Social justice is a concept that maintains that all people should have equal access to health, wealth, and well-being. Of course, some maintain that social justice is a just a ploy by progressives (or crazy feminist SJWs) to destroy all white people and make us all communists, which of course is not (entirely) true. How can we social justice not only as a concept but as a practice? What are some of the misconceptions about social justice? How can we get involved? Consider this episode Social Justice 101, and class is in session!

What Is Social Justice?

Jon Steingard of the band Hawk Nelson joins us in this episode to talk about his deconstruction and how it has been coming out as deconstructing very publicly.

You can follow Jon on Instagram where he's posting some really great thought provoking stuff at https://www.instagram.com/jonsteingard

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056 - Jon Steingard (Hawk Nelson) - Is Deconstructing Publicly

I've been tinkering with music since I was a kid, composing tunes for fun. Nowadays, I mainly write orchestral scores for video games. Alongside this, with an extensive career in the games industry as a tools programmer I've now focused my skills on developing next-generation sample libraries and music software.

Compositor de ópera, música de cámara, medios visuales. Arreglista.

ReNew Community: Following Jesus to renew lives that renew the world.
UP with God, IN with one another, OUT in service.

A new podcast exploring all things gay, exmormon, and sex positive! Hosted by Amy & Maddie - we are the Fruity Horny Exmos aka the FHE podcast!

The best variety in News, Sports, Esoteric talk online and over the airwaves on Earth. The new learning channel UPRNtalkradio.com

Irish singer-songwriter, dabbling in the fine arts of piano, guitar & audience participation.

Helping those losing their faith find something new.

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