Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here today because I get to introduce you to someone truly special—DeAnn Sadleir. DeAnn is a longtime teacher, speaker, and author with over 30 years of experience in the Latter-day Saint Seminary and Institute programs. She’s currently teaching Institute at the Utah State Correctional Facility, where she shares Christ-centered hope with those who need it most. She’s also a BYU grad in Interior Design, a retired travel educator, and co-founder of TWO Utah-based art and architecture schools. And she’s the author of A Window into God’s Garden: Meditations Rooted in Christ—a beautiful book filled with spiritual reflections and healing insights.
Today, she’s sharing her journey of faith and healing, including insights on navigating divorce with Christ at the center. Let’s dive in. 

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182. Meditations on Christ, Healing, and Hope- An Interview with DeAnn Sadleir

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here.
If your heart feels heavy today… if your life hasn’t turned out the way you planned… if you’ve been praying, and waiting, and wondering where God is in the middle of it all—this message is for you. I want to offer you a message of hope —something sacred, something that I hope brings you comfort and clarity, no matter where you are in your life or on your faith journey right now.
If you’re new here, I’m Jenn Zingmark—your LDS life and divorce coach, walking with you through faith, healing, and hope after heartbreak. And I believe God is still in the middle of your story, even if it doesn’t look like it.
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183. When Life Doesn’t Look Like You Hoped- A Message for the Weary Heart

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here.
Ever feel like you’re walking through life on edge—trying to avoid one emotional landmine after another? Triggers everywhere. A text message. A memory. Someone’s tone of voice. A glance. A comment. 

It’s exhausting. But what if I told you that triggers aren’t the enemy… and you don’t have to live at the mercy of them anymore?

Stick around—because in this episode, I’m going to unpack what triggers really are, and how you can go beyond managing them… to actually eliminating them.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

184. Triggers Are Teachers- What Your Pain Is Trying to Show You

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here. 
You thought the hardest part was leaving—but co-parenting with a narcissist might just be the real challenge. I promise God didn’t bring you this far to let a narcissist steal your joy through parenting conflict.

If your ex is still trying to manipulate, gaslight, or provoke you through parenting decisions, schedules, or communication—you are not crazy.
You’re just dealing with a narcissist, and today we’re going to talk about how you can stay grounded, protect your peace, and show up as the steady, safe parent your kids need.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


185. God Can Help You Co-Parent with a Narcissist Ex

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here. Today, I’m talking about what makes a Second Marriage Work After Divorce. The Hard Work Behind My Happy Ending.

After I released episode #180, our 20th anniversary special, I heard from so many of you. You thanked me for being vulnerable and opening up about the journey my husband and I have been on. If you haven't listened to it yet, go check it out! You asked powerful questions—about rebuilding trust, parenting in a blended family, navigating differences, and choosing love after heartbreak.

And to be honest… I almost didn’t share it. It’s easy to share the highlight reel. The anniversary photos. The blessings. But I knew that wasn’t the full story. I also knew I wouldn’t be doing you any favors if I skipped over the real parts. Because truthfully, what we have today is the result of deep personal work, trial and error, hard conversations, learning to accept and forgive each other, and keep trying…grace upon grace.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

186. What Makes a Second Marriage Work After Divorce? The Hard Work Behind My Happy Ending

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. If you’re in a season of transition—especially navigating life after divorce—today’s episode is going to speak right to your heart and your future. We're talking about something that so many of us wrestle with in this journey: money—how to manage it, how to feel confident with it, and how to rebuild your financial life when everything has changed.

Joining me today is someone I deeply admire—Kathleen Judge. Kathleen knows what it’s like to have the rug pulled out from under her. After quitting her corporate career to stay home and raise her children, she found herself suddenly and unexpectedly divorced in her 40s. Overnight, she became a single parent, solely responsible for her children’s well-being and their financial future.

Instead of staying stuck in fear, Kathleen took brave, practical steps to rebuild. She found a financial advisor she trusted, learned how to manage her own wealth, and eventually became a financial advisor herself. Now she helps others—especially those who are new to managing their own money—make smart, confident financial decisions, so they can build a future that feels secure and fulfilling.

Whether you’ve always managed your money or you’re just now learning how, today’s conversation is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and real-life strategies to help you move forward with faith and clarity.

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187. From Suddenly Divorced to Financially Empowered with Kathleen Judge

Hey friends, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re diving into a really important topic—one that I know touches so many of you listening.

We’re talking about protecting and empowering children in divorce.

This is a tender subject, because divorce doesn’t just affect the couple—it ripples out to our children. And as parents, grandparents, or even leaders in the Church, one of our greatest responsibilities is to safeguard their hearts, their trust, and their ability to thrive, even in hard circumstances.

Much of what I’ll share today is inspired by a beautiful Ensign article from April 2019, called “Protecting Children” by Marissa Widdison, but I’ve adapted it specifically to address the unique challenges children face during divorce.

So if you’re going through a divorce, or you love someone who is, this episode is for you.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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•Check out the talk I referenced by Marissa Widdison  here: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2019/04/protecting-children?lang=eng

• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

188. Empowering Kids Through Divorce—Lessons from the Savior

If you’ve been waiting for permission to start healing after a hard marriage or divorce… this is it. No one is coming to do it for you—and that’s not bad news. It’s the doorway to your freedom. Stick around to the end for a 7-day “No One Is Coming” challenge you can start today.

Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re discussing a message that may feel a little jarring at first: No one is coming to save you. It’s an idea popularized by Mel Robbins—basically, stop waiting for the perfect moment or for someone to rescue you, and start taking small, courageous steps yourself. She teaches that motivation rarely appears first; action does. When you act, motivation follows. 

Here’s my faith-filled twist: No one is coming to live your life for you… And God is already here to help you take inspired action today! Scripture says, “For God gave us not a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) Power + love + a sound mind—that’s your toolkit for today.
If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

189. No One Is Coming To Save You… Because God Is With You Every Step

If you’ve been through divorce, you may have moments where you wonder if you’re still lovable, or if love will ever find you again. Today, I want to remind you of a profound truth: you are already worthy of love—not because of your relationship status or how someone else treats you, but because of who you are.

Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re going to dive into a topic that sits at the heart of so many divorce journeys: feeling worthy of love after divorce.

I don’t know about you, but when I walked through my own divorce, one of the deepest wounds wasn’t just the loss of the relationship. It was the way I started to question myself. Am I lovable? Was I not enough? What’s wrong with me that this marriage didn’t work?

If you’ve ever asked yourself those kinds of questions, I want you to lean in today. Because here’s the truth: your worthiness of love is not up for debate. It was settled the day you were created by a loving God. Divorce doesn’t erase it, rejection doesn’t diminish it, and someone else’s opinion of you can’t redefine it.

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


190. Feeling Worthy of Love After Divorce

Hey Joy Seekers! Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I am so glad you’re here today. Today, we’re exploring three words that can completely change the way you experience divorce: awareness, acceptance, and agency.

Divorce can feel like a hurricane ripping through your life. One day you think you know where your future is headed, and the next, you’re staring at pieces scattered everywhere—legal battles, emotional pain, financial uncertainty, and the big question: What now?

If you’re in the middle of it, you know how overwhelming it feels. But these three principles—awareness, acceptance, and agency—can serve as anchors in the storm. They can help you slow down, find clarity, and step forward with confidence and faith.

So let’s walk through them together.

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


191. Rebuilding After Divorce: How Awareness, Acceptance and Agency Change Everything

Hi there, I'm Jenn,

I am an experienced, certified professional Ladder-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

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