🌟 Presenting "Baap Baap Hota Hai" – a soulful song dedicated to the unwavering love, wisdom, and guidance that every father brings into our lives. A father is always there, supporting us through every high and low. 👨‍👦👨‍👧 This song is a celebration of that priceless bond, reminding us that a father’s intuition and advice are gifts that shape our journey forever. 🌈💪💖

Baap Baap hota hai

Dr. Reedy discusses regression and what triggers it. He explains that old contexts, old relationships, old energies, roles, or rules can trigger us in ways that we revert back to a less evolved way of functioning. He encourages observing this dynamic and developing compassion for ourselves when we experience this inevitability.

Regression: When and Why it Happens - Ep 637

A Father's Pain" is a raw and hauntingly emotional song that delves into the despair and longing of a father estranged from his children. Through vivid imagery and powerful lyrics, it explores themes of love, sacrifice, and heartbreak, painting a portrait of a man fighting to hold onto hope amidst the crushing weight of abandonment. With a heavy, somber tone, this song resonates with anyone who has faced the agony of being forgotten by those they cherish most.

LYRICS:
(Verse 1)
I wanted to guide them, to help them grow,
To be the light they’d always know.
But I’m just a ghost in their fleeting days,
Shadows consume me as they fade away.

(Pre-Chorus)
Every laugh I’ve missed cuts deep inside,
Every tear unseen, I’ve swallowed my pride.

(Chorus)
I’m screaming in silence, I’m drowning in pain,
A father forgotten, left out in the rain.
I gave them my heart, my soul, my fight,
But the darkness whispers, “You’ll lose tonight.”

(Verse 2)
I’ve sold my life for every smile,
Every cent sent kept me alive for a while.
But love’s not enough when you’re locked outside,
Replaced and erased, with no place to hide.

(Pre-Chorus)
Their laughter haunts me in dreams I can’t keep,
Their faces fade in the void where I weep.

(Chorus)
I’m screaming in silence, 
I’m drowning in pain,A father forgotten, 
left out in the rain.I gave them my heart, my soul, my fight,
But the darkness whispers, “You’ll lose tonight.”

(Bridge)
If I fall, will they know I tried?
Will they remember the tears I cried?
The weight of love, it’s breaking my back,
And I’m slipping further into the black.

(Chorus)
I’m screaming in silence, I’m drowning in pain,
A father forgotten, left out in the rain.
I gave them my heart, my soul, my fight,
But the darkness whispers, “You’ll lose tonight.”

(Outro)
Every breath I take feels heavier now,
But I’ll hold on, though I don’t know how.
For every embrace I’ll never feel,
I’ll fight to prove my love was real.

(Chorus)
I’m screaming in silence, I’m drowning in pain,
A father forgotten, left out in the rain.
I gave them my heart, my soul, my fight,
But the darkness whispers, “You’ll lose tonight.”

A Father's Pain

Dr. Reedy discusses boundaries and self-care and how guilt, shame, and fear must be dealt with in order to love yourself. He explains how boundaries are beyond right and wrong. He explains how love of self is the foundation for loving everyone else.

Self-Care: A Gift to the Self - Ep 638

Dr. Reedy takes live questions from the audience on setting boundaries in relationships where that hasn’t been the practice. He explains that we will get better as we go. He explains that the ability to listen to a feeling or a boundary says more about the receiver than it does about the person sharing.

The Obnoxious Stage of Setting Boundaries (Q&A) - Ep 639

Dr. Reedy reviews Alice Miller’s, "The Drama of the Gifted Child." He touts this book as the most important book written on the subject of the parent-child dynamic. Miller explains how a child will give up who they are to meet the parent’s needs. The call is to do the deep work necessary to “cut the tragic link between admiration and love.”

The Drama of the Gifted Child (Book Review) - Ep 640

Come join our session at the P1 Club last week - Andalös and I played some of our favorite tracks from this year - tech house, deep house and melotech - enjoy!!

Andalös&GBRN - Reply@P1

El centro de mi mundo
Words & music: Rafael "Rafa" Moreno Vega.
Arrangement: Ibrahim Merel.

El centro de mi mundo

Dr. Reedy discusses goals and how our goals change as we change. He discussed the difference between first order change (behavior, skills, tools) vs. second order change (a fundamentally different way of seeing the world and relating to it). He suggests that we ask different questions, bigger questions, to get unstuck from old patterns. The great task is to look critically into our programming and challenge the answers to the largest questions in life.

Goals: New Year, Know Me - Ep 641

Dr. Reedy discusses the challenges and keys to creating intimacy. He explores how, when we don’t own our feelings, our histories, or our issues, we see problems "out there" – specifically in our partners. He explains how sharing your feelings are only one part of intimacy. Listening, with compassion and non-judgment is often the real challenge that prevents intimacy in couples.

Keys to Intimacy in Romantic Relationships- Ep 642

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Finding You Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving individuals, parents, couples, and families. Email the host drbradreedy@gmail.com

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