Faith Unshaken

Overthinking

Hey friends, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. If this is your first time here, I’m so glad you found this space. I created this podcast to walk alongside faithful women—and men—who are navigating the heartbreak of divorce with grace, courage, and yes… even joy.
Today’s episode is one I’ve been wanting to talk about for a while. It’s about a phrase that sneaks into so many of our thoughts, especially after things fall apart in divorce. “I should have seen it coming.”
Have you said that before? Whispered it to yourself in bed at night… or cried it to a friend in disbelief… or maybe even screamed it in your car when the grief was just too heavy?
It’s such a tempting thought, because it gives us something to hold onto when everything feels out of control. But here’s the thing: that thought feels like truth… and yet it’s laced with shame.
So today, we’re going to break it down. Together, we’ll look at where this belief comes from, what it costs us, and how faith offers us a much better lens.

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174. When You Didn’t See the Divorce Coming

A song based on Romans 8, in two versions (Solo (feat. James Loynes), and Solo w/optional treble duet (feat. Rebecca Lord) and including both accompaniment tracks and piano tracks.

The Love of Christ  (Piano Track - F Major)

The Love of Christ (feat. Rebecca Lord

The Love of Christ  (Piano Track - G major)

The Love of Christ (Accompaniment Track - F Major)

The Love of Christ (Accompaniment Track - G major)

The Love of Christ (feat. James Loynes)

Hey Joy Seekers, it’s Jenn—and today we’re diving into a topic that comes up so often with the amazing men and women I coach: closure after divorce.
If you’ve found yourself saying, “I just need closure,” or “If I could just understand why it all happened the way it did, maybe then I could move on,” this episode is especially for you.
Let’s be honest—when divorce turns your world upside down, it’s normal to crave some kind of neat, tied-up ending. Something to help it all make sense. But here’s what I want you to know: closure isn’t something your ex gives you. It’s something you choose to create—with the Lord’s help.
So today, we’re going to talk about what closure really means, how to stop waiting for it, and how to move forward with faith, grace, and resilience—even when your questions feel unanswered.
I want to show you that closure isn’t something we get from someone else. It’s something we create—with God’s help.
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175. The Truth About Closure After Divorce (What No One Tells You)

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I'm so grateful you're here. Today’s episode is especially tender and powerful—one that will speak to anyone who’s found themselves hurting in the shadows of someone else’s struggle with addiction.

I’m honored to be joined by Roxanna Johnson, a remarkable woman of faith, resilience, and wisdom. Roxanna has over 50 years of experience loving people who compulsively use substances or behaviors, including sexual addiction, to numb their pain. Her journey has taken her through two divorces and one recovered marriage that ended in loss due to death. Through it all, Roxanna has leaned into her faith, her professional background as a federal grant administrator, and the profound spiritual lessons she’s learned by attending hundreds of 12-step meetings and applying powerful therapeutic principles. 

She recently poured all of that hard-earned insight into her book:
 Forgotten in the Battle with Sexual Addiction: The Journey of a Spouse.  It’s an honest and deeply personal look at what it means to live through betrayal and heartbreak—and still find hope, healing, and joy, even if your spouse doesn’t choose recovery. Whether you’re walking this path yourself or love someone who is, Roxanna’s story will bless and strengthen you.

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176. Faith and Healing Through the Journey of a Spouse with Sexual Addiction with Roxanna Johnson

“Hear Him” is a heartfelt song inspired by scripture, prophetic messages, and personal testimony. Drawing on the example of Saul’s transformation on the road to Damascus and the quiet promptings described in Elijah’s encounter with God, the song invites listeners to reflect on how they can better hear and follow the Savior’s voice today. It emphasizes the importance of stillness, service, love, and obedience in cultivating a spiritually attuned heart. Whether through life’s storms or its tender mercies, God is always speaking — we are invited to listen.

Hear Him (He is Listening)

Hey Joy Seekers, it’s Jenn. Today’s episode comes straight from a place of deep personal experience—something that rocked my world recently and gave me an entirely new perspective on the wounds we carry, both seen and unseen. I want to tell you about a recent experience that caught me completely off guard—something that literally left a scar and totally disrupted my life for a while. But more than that, it taught me a powerful lesson about healing… and how similar physical wounds are to the emotional ones we carry. This experience taught me something powerful about grief, trauma, and the slow, intentional work of healing after divorce.
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177.  Healing After the Cut- What Cancer Taught Me About Divorce

A selection of songs done in the style of '90s Latter-Day-Saint Contemporary, using Chat GPT for lyrics and Suno A.I. for music.

Peace Be Still

Hosanna, Blessed Be the Name

One of the Ninety and Nine

Hey, Joy Seekers, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.  Today, we’re diving into a topic I know hits close to home for so many of us: TRUST.
If you’ve been through a divorce, especially one where trust was shattered by betrayal, emotional abuse, or neglect, or just someone’s choice to end the marriage, then you know how hard it is to trust again.

When a marriage ends—especially one rooted in faith—the damage often goes deeper than the relationship itself. It can shatter your trust in your ex, in yourself, in your ability to make good decisions, and even in God.

But here’s the good news: trust isn’t lost forever. It can be rebuilt. And that rebuilding starts with you.

Today, I want to discuss some powerful truths from the book "The Speed of Trust" by Stephen M. R. Covey — specifically, his 13 Behaviors of High-Trust Leaders. These aren’t just leadership tools—they’re LIFE tools. And they are incredibly relevant for anyone healing from divorce, and you don’t need to have read the book—I’ve got you.

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178. How to Rebuild Trust in Yourself, Others, and God After Divorce

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