Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here. 
You thought the hardest part was leaving—but co-parenting with a narcissist might just be the real challenge. I promise God didn’t bring you this far to let a narcissist steal your joy through parenting conflict.

If your ex is still trying to manipulate, gaslight, or provoke you through parenting decisions, schedules, or communication—you are not crazy.
You’re just dealing with a narcissist, and today we’re going to talk about how you can stay grounded, protect your peace, and show up as the steady, safe parent your kids need.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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185. God Can Help You Co-Parent with a Narcissist Ex

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.
I’m so glad you’re here. Today, I’m talking about what makes a Second Marriage Work After Divorce. The Hard Work Behind My Happy Ending.

After I released episode #180, our 20th anniversary special, I heard from so many of you. You thanked me for being vulnerable and opening up about the journey my husband and I have been on. If you haven't listened to it yet, go check it out! You asked powerful questions—about rebuilding trust, parenting in a blended family, navigating differences, and choosing love after heartbreak.

And to be honest… I almost didn’t share it. It’s easy to share the highlight reel. The anniversary photos. The blessings. But I knew that wasn’t the full story. I also knew I wouldn’t be doing you any favors if I skipped over the real parts. Because truthfully, what we have today is the result of deep personal work, trial and error, hard conversations, learning to accept and forgive each other, and keep trying…grace upon grace.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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186. What Makes a Second Marriage Work After Divorce? The Hard Work Behind My Happy Ending

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. If you’re in a season of transition—especially navigating life after divorce—today’s episode is going to speak right to your heart and your future. We're talking about something that so many of us wrestle with in this journey: money—how to manage it, how to feel confident with it, and how to rebuild your financial life when everything has changed.

Joining me today is someone I deeply admire—Kathleen Judge. Kathleen knows what it’s like to have the rug pulled out from under her. After quitting her corporate career to stay home and raise her children, she found herself suddenly and unexpectedly divorced in her 40s. Overnight, she became a single parent, solely responsible for her children’s well-being and their financial future.

Instead of staying stuck in fear, Kathleen took brave, practical steps to rebuild. She found a financial advisor she trusted, learned how to manage her own wealth, and eventually became a financial advisor herself. Now she helps others—especially those who are new to managing their own money—make smart, confident financial decisions, so they can build a future that feels secure and fulfilling.

Whether you’ve always managed your money or you’re just now learning how, today’s conversation is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and real-life strategies to help you move forward with faith and clarity.

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187. From Suddenly Divorced to Financially Empowered with Kathleen Judge

Hey friends, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re diving into a really important topic—one that I know touches so many of you listening.

We’re talking about protecting and empowering children in divorce.

This is a tender subject, because divorce doesn’t just affect the couple—it ripples out to our children. And as parents, grandparents, or even leaders in the Church, one of our greatest responsibilities is to safeguard their hearts, their trust, and their ability to thrive, even in hard circumstances.

Much of what I’ll share today is inspired by a beautiful Ensign article from April 2019, called “Protecting Children” by Marissa Widdison, but I’ve adapted it specifically to address the unique challenges children face during divorce.

So if you’re going through a divorce, or you love someone who is, this episode is for you.

If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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•Check out the talk I referenced by Marissa Widdison  here: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2019/04/protecting-children?lang=eng

• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

188. Empowering Kids Through Divorce—Lessons from the Savior

If you’ve been waiting for permission to start healing after a hard marriage or divorce… this is it. No one is coming to do it for you—and that’s not bad news. It’s the doorway to your freedom. Stick around to the end for a 7-day “No One Is Coming” challenge you can start today.

Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re discussing a message that may feel a little jarring at first: No one is coming to save you. It’s an idea popularized by Mel Robbins—basically, stop waiting for the perfect moment or for someone to rescue you, and start taking small, courageous steps yourself. She teaches that motivation rarely appears first; action does. When you act, motivation follows. 

Here’s my faith-filled twist: No one is coming to live your life for you… And God is already here to help you take inspired action today! Scripture says, “For God gave us not a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) Power + love + a sound mind—that’s your toolkit for today.
If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. 

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn

189. No One Is Coming To Save You… Because God Is With You Every Step

If you’ve been through divorce, you may have moments where you wonder if you’re still lovable, or if love will ever find you again. Today, I want to remind you of a profound truth: you are already worthy of love—not because of your relationship status or how someone else treats you, but because of who you are.

Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re going to dive into a topic that sits at the heart of so many divorce journeys: feeling worthy of love after divorce.

I don’t know about you, but when I walked through my own divorce, one of the deepest wounds wasn’t just the loss of the relationship. It was the way I started to question myself. Am I lovable? Was I not enough? What’s wrong with me that this marriage didn’t work?

If you’ve ever asked yourself those kinds of questions, I want you to lean in today. Because here’s the truth: your worthiness of love is not up for debate. It was settled the day you were created by a loving God. Divorce doesn’t erase it, rejection doesn’t diminish it, and someone else’s opinion of you can’t redefine it.

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190. Feeling Worthy of Love After Divorce

Hey Joy Seekers! Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I am so glad you’re here today. Today, we’re exploring three words that can completely change the way you experience divorce: awareness, acceptance, and agency.

Divorce can feel like a hurricane ripping through your life. One day you think you know where your future is headed, and the next, you’re staring at pieces scattered everywhere—legal battles, emotional pain, financial uncertainty, and the big question: What now?

If you’re in the middle of it, you know how overwhelming it feels. But these three principles—awareness, acceptance, and agency—can serve as anchors in the storm. They can help you slow down, find clarity, and step forward with confidence and faith.

So let’s walk through them together.

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191. Rebuilding After Divorce: How Awareness, Acceptance and Agency Change Everything

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re unpacking something that will shape every relationship you have — not just in your marriage or divorce, but in parenting, friendships, work, and any relationship you’ll ever build in the future.

It’s the energy you bring: are you showing up to serve or to strive to get?

This is part of your healing journey through divorce — learning how to grow better, not bitter. Because how you show up now will echo into every relationship you build later.

And before we dive in, let me say this: if you recognize yourself in the “get” side of things, you will have absolutely no judgment from me. I want you to hear that. There is no shame in noticing where you are. The natural human tendency is to ask, “What do I get out of this?” That’s normal. We all start there. But I’m here to show you how to take that natural instinct and grow beyond it — how to step into the best version of yourself through service.

If you’re walking through divorce — whether you’re still deciding, in the middle of the legal and emotional process, or already living life after — this message will help you grow better, not bitter. Because how you show up in relationships during this season shapes the kind of relationships you will build in the future.

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192. Serving vs. Striving: The Energy Shift That Heals After Divorce

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here with me today. Every week, I get to sit down with you and talk about how to find joy, peace, and healing — especially in life’s hardest moments.

Today’s episode is one that has been on my heart for a while, and honestly, I think it’s one of the most important topics we can talk about when we’re going through divorce, heartbreak, or any major life challenge.

We’re going to talk about the difference between learned helplessness and learned hopefulness.

Here’s the big idea: if we can “learn” helplessness — which many of us have without even realizing it — then we can also learn hopefulness. And when we’re facing something as difficult as divorce, that’s not just a good idea… It’s survival.

So stick with me, because by the end of this episode, I want you to walk away with three practical ways you can start retraining your mind for hope instead of helplessness.

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193. From Helplessness to Hopefulness- Choosing Joy in the Hardest Seasons

Hey friends, it’s Jenn—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. 💛

In today’s episode, I’m sharing a special replay from my very first Divorce Hotline Live Q&A. This is where I answer real questions from men and women walking through the challenges of divorce—questions about healing, co-parenting, faith, dating, confidence, and everything in between.

If you’re new here, the Divorce Hotline is my way of giving you a little Jenn Juice—that dose of hope, encouragement, and direction you need to keep moving forward. My goal is to help you partner with God in your healing and find joy again, no matter where you are in the process.

Let’s jump into a few of the powerful questions we discussed live…

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194. Divorce Hotline #1 - Finding Hope and Healing When Everything Has Changed

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here with me today. Every week, I get to sit down with you and talk about how to find joy, peace, and healing — especially in life’s hardest moments.
Have you ever felt completely brought low — like life stripped away everything familiar? In this episode, Jenn shares what she learned from Doctrine and Covenants 112:3 about being abased, and how the Lord uses those humbling seasons to refine and rebuild us.
 If you’re walking through divorce or heartbreak, this episode will remind you: being abased isn’t punishment — it’s preparation for something greater.
🎧 Listen to hear:
The true meaning of “abased” in scripture
What the refining process looks like after divorce
How God’s grace lifts us when we feel broken

Keywords:
LDS divorce, healing after divorce, Doctrine and Covenants 112, refining process, faith after heartbreak, Christian divorce healing, humility and grace

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195. How God Uses Hard Seasons to Refine and Heal Us

Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 1) – with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this first half of my powerful two-part conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, we dive into the connection between desire, divinity, and emotional honesty—and how these principles can help you heal and grow after divorce.

Dr. Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast. Her wisdom and clarity are life-changing for anyone navigating heartbreak, faith, or rebuilding self-worth.

You’ll learn how to:
💛 Reconnect with your true self after divorce
💛 Understand the divine purpose of desire
💛 Release shame around love, intimacy, and spirituality
💛 Begin finding joy through truth, courage, and growth

This conversation is honest, faith-filled, and full of light.
Be sure to tune in next week for Part Two, where we’ll go even deeper into desire, healing, and finding joy in the refining process.

✨ Order Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s new book: That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love HERE:https://www.finlayson-fife.com/book

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196. Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce — with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife- Part 1

We’re back for Part 2 of my powerful conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, LDS relationship and sexuality coach, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast.
In this episode, we go deeper into the themes of desire, faith, and emotional honesty — exploring how to find peace and purpose after divorce while deepening your relationship with God and yourself.
You’ll learn how to:
 🌿 Heal the relationship you have with yourself and with God
 🌿 Reclaim desire as a divine and sacred force for growth
 🌿 Move from guilt and shame into peace and self-compassion
 🌿 Discover how joy is born in truth, not perfection
Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s insights are both faith-affirming and deeply liberating — a reminder that God’s plan for you is never on pause, even after heartbreak.
If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, be sure to start there first — it sets the foundation for this incredible, hope-filled discussion.
✨ Listen now to Episode 197: “Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 2)”

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197. Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 2) – with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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Episode overview

In this eye-opening conversation, Darren sits down with Heidi Luv (Unfiltered Rise) to unpack her journey out of Mormonism and into Jesus—and why her story touches far more than one religion. We explore alleged links between LDS temple rites, Freemasonry, genealogical “royal lines,” necromancy-adjacent practices, and the psychology of control. Heidi shares how desperation turned into daily “coffee with God,” the cost of following Jesus, and why language, ritual, and secrecy matter.

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Time-stamped guide

00:07:10 — Setup & why this conversation matters

00:09:50 — Calling, desperation, and “coffee with God”

00:12:09 — Family fallout & life in Utah

00:14:43 — Royal lines, Acadia, and Templar threads

00:16:08 — Why genealogy is central in LDS practice

00:18:25 — Crowley, “sacred knowledge,” and secrecy

00:20:59 — “Divine right to rule” & power at the top

00:27:41 — Breaking out of the matrix

00:36:19 — Temple prep vs. temple reality

00:39:26 — Control: interviews, files, and fear/shame

00:41:20 — Rites, new names, and proxy for the dead

00:47:25 — Words vs. the Holy Spirit

00:48:48 — Meeting Jesus outside the system

00:52:00 — Oaths, narratives, and “lying for the Lord”

00:54:08 — What we couldn’t say on YouTube & next steps

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Heidi Luv: Bloodlines, Temples, and the Mormon “Matrix”

Hey there, Joy Seeker! 💛 Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn — the space where we grow through what we’re going through and learn to see God’s fingerprints in every chapter of our lives.
Today we’re talking about something subtle but life-changing: the scripts you’ve been following — the ones you didn’t even realize were directing your thoughts, emotions, and choices.
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198. The Hidden Script That’s Been Controlling Your Life (and How to Rewrite It with God)

Hey there, Joy Seeker — it’s Jenn, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn!
This is my 200th podcast episode yall! 200 episodes- thank you for being here with me! I do this for you! I’d love to hear from you if this podcast has encouraged, helped, or supported you in some way. Please tell me! Share this episode on social media and tag me, or go to the bottom of your podcast APP right now and leave me a five-star rating and review! 
Today’s episode is a little different. We’re talking about three moments that define everything else that follows — the last ten pounds, the first thousand dollars, and the next six months of your divorce journey.
Each of these represents a critical threshold — a place where what you do next has a bigger impact than you realize.
So if you’re walking through divorce, rebuilding your life, or just trying to figure out what comes next… lean in. Because what you do in this next season will set the tone for your healing, your peace, your relationships, and even your family legacy for years to come.
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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


200. The Last Ten Pounds, The First Thousand Dollars, and The Next Six Months

Hey friends, it’s Jenn — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! 💛

Today’s episode is extra special because I’m sharing the replay from our second Divorce Hotline Live Q&A. If you’re new here, the Divorce Hotline is where I answer real, heartfelt questions from men and women walking through all the stages of divorce — from heartbreak and healing to co-parenting, rebuilding confidence, and learning how to trust and love again.

These conversations are raw, faith-filled, and full of practical guidance. My goal, as always, is to help you partner with God through your healing and find peace and purpose right where you are.

And of course, I’m here to give you some Jenn Juice — that dose of hope, encouragement, and direction to keep you going when the road feels heavy.

So grab a notebook, take a deep breath, and let’s jump into some of the powerful questions we talked through live during Divorce Hotline #2.”

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


199. Divorce Hotline Q&A - How to Let Go, Heal, and Trust God After Divorce

Hey there, Joy Seeker — it’s Jenn, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn!
Regret is one of the biggest reasons people stay stuck after divorce — stuck in fear, stuck in indecision, stuck in shame, and stuck replaying the past instead of believing in the future. In today’s episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I’m diving deep into how regret destroys your self-trust and how you can finally make peace with your past choices so you can move forward with confidence, courage, and faith.
You’ll hear the story of a client who carried years of regret over decisions he made during his marriage — regret that kept him frozen and afraid to make any new choices. But when he learned how to release the shame, view his past with compassion, and trust himself again, everything changed. His transformation is a powerful reminder that God can work with any decision we make when our hearts are willing to grow.
Inside this episode, we’ll explore:
• Why regret keeps you stuck in fear
• How self-judgment destroys your confidence
• A spiritual lens for understanding your past choices
• What God actually expects of you (hint: it’s NOT perfection)
• A step-by-step framework to release regret and rebuild self-trust
• How to move forward even when consequences are still unfolding
This episode is filled with hope, scripture, truth, and practical tools to help you stop using your past against yourself. If you’re ready to choose your future with clarity and courage, this episode is for you.
Keywords: LDS divorce, letting go of regret, healing after divorce, rebuilding self-trust, finding confidence again, faith-based divorce support, moving forward after regret, Latter-day Saint divorce, emotional healing, personal growth after divorce, LDS healing, divorce recovery tools, Christian divorce support, overcoming shame, choosing peace, trusting yourself again, Faith Filled Divorce coaching.
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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


201. Releasing Regret: Healing Your Relationship With Yourself

Have you ever wondered why specific patterns keep repeating… or why some relationships feel stuck no matter how hard you try? In today’s episode, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about the blind spots we all have — the things we can’t see about ourselves, our parenting, and our relationships until someone lovingly shows us. Over Thanksgiving, I had all my adult children home, and a conversation unfolded that revealed blind spots I didn’t know existed. It was humbling, emotional, and honestly… life-changing. And today, I’m sharing what I learned — because these insights can help you heal, too.
You’ll learn:
✨ What emotional blind spots are and why they’re so hard to see
✨ How your past divorce may have affected your children in ways you didn’t realize
✨ Why honesty and vulnerability can create a deeper connection
✨ How to invite healing conversations with your adult children
✨ The spiritual side of blind spots — and how God helps us see with new eyes
If you’re navigating LDS divorce, co-parenting, blended family life, or trying to rebuild trust and connection with your children, this episode will speak directly to your heart.

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• Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO-  Jenn


202. The Truth You Can’t See: How Blind Spots Sabotage Healing After Divorce

Hi there, I'm Jenn,

I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!

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