"People pleasing seems to come from love, but it typically comes from fear." People pleasing is rooted in a desire to be viewed, experienced, remembered, known, etc. in a certain way. The idea of the opposite being true is completely unacceptable. Whether it's to be seen is good, kind, helpful, available, or a good friend, good wife, good mother, good employee, or good child, the root is not the love for others, at the core it is all about what it means to be seen as other than how we portray ourselves. 

In this episode of Share & Let's Live! with Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist, I talk all about people pleasing. About where it comes from, how it presents itself, and how to begin to break the habit. If you are a people pleaser, know one, or a recovering people pleaser, like me, you definitely want to check this out!

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Day 22 "People Pleasing: Roots & Remedies" #LETSTRYJULY w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

If you are in a relationship that makes you feel like crap, if someone you love is a relationship that looks unhealthy, if you are dealing with people slandering your name, if you are running yourself ragged trying to please everybody, CHECK OUT THIS EPISODE. 

Today, I couldn't help but address two main topics, which is why this has two names. If you've never listened to this #podcast before, LISTEN TODAY. This is hands down one of my most vulnerable, open, empowering, tell-it-like-it-is, #storytelling, honest, COULD SAVE SOMEBODY'S LIFE podcast episodes!

Blessings. Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist
Creator, Podcaster, Visionary at Share & Let's Live!

Day 25 "Know Yourself/Love Feels Like Love" #LETSTRYJULY w/ Marlene Dillon Empowerment Specialist

5 HACKS to Handle Difficult People! Well, you know the deal...

We ALL have had interactions with people who really grind our gears, or maybe even bring us to tears!

In this episode I share 5 excellent tips to handle difficult people that actually work, and will make you more likable, respected, and filled with peace.

Here are the 5 tips to use when it comes to interacting with others that are guaranteed to script your confidence!

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>> [BOOK] Gen-Z Pharmacist: bit.ly/3DmhM7s

Host: Adam Martin, PharmD, ACSM-CPT, NAMS-CNC
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Difficult People: 5 Hacks to Interact with Confidence // Episode 282

Bussmann und Pelz - Die Besserwisserin und der Psycho
Einmal Hand hoch wer es immer und ständigen allen anderen Recht machen will und sich dabei vergisst! Richtig das machen sehr viele von uns. Warum und wie wir uns vielleicht mal wieder an die erste Stelle stellen, dass hört ihr in dieser Folge.

108. Folge People Pleaser - Ich will es allen recht machen

Wish Come True (Summer Anthem)

I had a love-hate relationship with music for the last couple years, but I recently found comfort in making covers through GarageBand, and it took a little courage to share them. I hope you love this as much as I loved making it.

people pleaser

Has people pleasing put you in a pickle? 

Have you ever said "yes" to a request...then regretted it immediately?

In this episode, I share "the phrase that pays" for getting out of people pleasing and into the living intentionally at your next level!

Host: Adam Martin, PharmD, ACSM-CPT, NAMS-CNC
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-YouTube: bit.ly/2x2urwl

People Pleasing Antidote: The 4 P's // Episode 313

There is only one fear that the Bible portrays as healthy:  the fear of God.  What is the fear of God?  And what is driving you:  fear of man, or fear of God?  Join Pastor Adam Kees as he brings a transparent and timely word for believers.

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We’ve all heard the hero’s tale, but what about those in the shadows? Have you ever looked at a villain and thought that they looked divine, that their words or actions were delectable, or that they were living deliciously? 

In today’s episode Kallie Klug explains how we’ve gotten villains all wrong, and what we can learn from them when it comes to our own people pleasing tendencies. We ask questions like, ‘Why does being in our bodies matter?’ ‘How can I transform hurtful words that people assign to me and play with them instead?’

We discuss what glimmers are, how to stop giving your precious life energy away to randos at the park (LOL…no, seriously), practical grounding techniques in moments of fawning, and what we can learn from the infamous Cruella De Vil.

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#71: From People Pleaser To Villain: The Recipe For Delicious Living With Kallie Klug

Worrying what other people think? About you?

The truth is that our worries over circumstances RARELY come true.

And this pattern rings true when we are thinking about what others are thinking about us.

They RARELY are thinking about you!

But...HOW do we let those thoughts go?

In this week's podcast, I share the framework you can use to let go of worrying what others think about you...and BE THE BEST YOU!

RESOURCES:
>> [FREE EBOOK] 5 Tips to Thrive in Healthcare: bit.ly/3U3Z6Ts
>> [BOOK]: Rx: YOU! The Pharmacist's Survival Guide for Managing Stress & Fitting in Fitness: amzn.to/3tEkzW4
>> [BOOK] Gen-Z Pharmacist: bit.ly/3DmhM7s

Host: Adam Martin, PharmD, ACSM-CPT, NAMS-CNC
-Coaching: www.tonyrobbins.com/team/adam-martin
-Website: www.thefitpharmacist.com
-LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/fitpharmfam
-Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefitpharmacist
-YouTube: bit.ly/2x2urwl

What Other People Think: How to Shift Your Inner Narrative from Concern to Confidence // Episode 320

Do you care about what others think about you? You're not alone. And...

...often times the only thing others are thinking about is what YOU are thinking about THEM!

That's the truth, but how do we let that go?

In this week's podcast, I share a simple strategy that will allow you to let go of worrying what other people think!

And shift your focus to what matters most: what YOU can control. Enjoy: here is to your next level of you!

RESOURCES:
>> [FREE EBOOK] 5 Tips to Thrive in Healthcare: bit.ly/3U3Z6Ts
>> [BOOK]: Rx: YOU! The Pharmacist's Survival Guide for Managing Stress & Fitting in Fitness: amzn.to/3tEkzW4
>> [BOOK] Gen-Z Pharmacist: bit.ly/3DmhM7s

Host: Adam Martin, PharmD, ACSM-CPT, NAMS-CNC
-Coaching: www.tonyrobbins.com/team/adam-martin
-Website: www.thefitpharmacist.com
-LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/fitpharmfam
-Instagram: www.instagram.com/thefitpharmacist
-YouTube: bit.ly/2x2urwl

What Others Think About You // Episode 322

Show Main Idea: This lesson examines how a misplaced desire impacts our identity, breeds insecurity, and prevents genuine spiritual growth. Through practical self-reflection and biblical insights, we begin learning how to discern this idol, redirecting our hearts toward God’s approval as the true anchor of our identity.

Show Notes: https://lifeovercoffee.com/podcast/ep-532-fear-of-man-understanding-the-root-of-approval-addiction/

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Ep. 531 Fear of Man: Understanding the Root of Approval Addiction, Lesson 1

Show Main Idea: A God-centered community provides mutual accountability, encouragement in truth, and prayerful support, helping us to walk in freedom from approval-seeking. Through active support, we can uplift others in their journey to live for God’s approval. This lesson also explores practical ways to keep Christ at the center of our fellowship through serving others and finding joy in God’s truth together.

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Ep. 534 Fear of Man: Cultivating a God-centered Community

Are you a people pleaser? Can you even begin to measure how the approval of others has shaped your heart and mind? Your faith and relationships? Your habits and identity? In People Pleaser, New York Times bestselling author Jinger Vuolo shares her personal journey of constantly seeking approval from others and how she found her true identity.

From childhood to early adulthood, Jinger Duggar Vuolo followed the expectations of others, never taking the time to discover who she truly was. It wasn't until she asked herself the question, "Who am I?" that she realized she was a people pleaser. This realization led her on a journey of self-discovery and ultimately, to rely on God for her approval and sense of self-worth.

Through her faith and reliance on God, Jinger began to break free from the need for approval and discover true freedom. This book is a guide for anyone struggling with people-pleasing tendencies and seeking to find their true identity and purpose in life. Learn how to:

- discover the beauty of community and how we were made to enjoy others,
- identify sin and how it can hinder your ability to be in community with one another,
- diagnose yourself with ruthless honesty but without judgement, and
- understand who you are in God's eyes.

Jinger hopes this book will inspire others to embark on a similar journey towards freedom.

PEOPLE PLEASER by Jinger Duggar Vuolo | Introduction

This song offers a thoughtful and honest perspective on the struggles of being a people-pleaser. 🌼
Grateful for the help of Joshua Orcino on this track. 

People-Pleasing Self by Liyenne (Demo)

Ever catch yourself feeling jealous of confident, successful men? You see them taking risks, speaking their minds, and getting what they want—while you feel stuck, hesitant, and full of self-doubt. That feeling of envy isn’t just frustration; it’s a clue. It’s showing you exactly where you’re holding yourself back.

In this video, we’ll break down:
✅ What envy really means (and why it’s not as bad as you think)
✅ The biggest lie envy tells you—and how it keeps you stuck
✅ The difference between admiration, inspiration, and envy
✅ How to flip envy into motivation instead of self-pity
✅ 3 powerful questions to challenge your envy and take action

The truth is, the men you admire aren’t special. They’ve just taken steps you haven’t—yet. And today, you’re going to learn how to start taking those steps yourself.

💬 Comment below: What’s one thing you’ve envied in another man, and how are you going to take action on it? Let’s break free from the envy trap together. 👇🔥

[#258] How to Stop Feeling Envious of Confident Men (And Become One)

Are you the go-to person for everyone’s problems and struggling to set boundaries? Do you feel drained from always putting others first? Tune in for an inspiring discussion Amy Wilson on her new book Happy to Help: Adventures of a People Pleaser.

#MomentsWithMarianne airs in the Southern California area on KMET 1490AM & 98.1 FM, an ABC Talk News Radio Affiliate! 

Amy Wilson is an author, recipient of a Mom's Choice Gold Award, and has served as contributing editor for Parenting Magazine. Her writing has also appeared in Redbook, Parents, and New York Family magazines, and on websites like CNN, NPR, and The New York Times. Amy is also an actor who starred on Broadway and appeared as a series regular on multiple network sitcoms. Amy was the performer and creator of Mother Load, a solo show which toured to sixteen cities nationwide after its hit off-Broadway run. Her comedy solo work was also featured at the HBO US Comedy Arts Festival. https://www.amywilson.com

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Happy to Help with Amy Wilson

A story of self-hatred and working one's way out of being a certified people pleaser.

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Marlene Dillon is a multi-talented single mom who's passionate about empowerment. Through her gifts of storytelling, songwriting, and her intuitive gifts, she shares insights on how to navigate life with more purpose. This podcast is called Share & Let's Live! because she believes that we all have gifts, passions, and interests that we came here to share. And as we release our reasons, beliefs, and hesitations, and begin to share them, we all get to expand. We are happier and we make our world a more beautiful place. So check out the podcast. Like, comment, and share. Oh, and a special thanks to Anno Domini Beats for the awesome track "Like That" which has become the signature sound for this podcast. Bless you for offering your music to creators like me. You're a blessing! 
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In 1990 he earned a BA in Theology and, in 1991, a BS in Education. In 1993, he received his ordination into Christian ministry, and in 2000 he graduated with an MA in Counseling from The Master's University. In 2006 he was recognized as a Fellow of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC).

Break through your psychological barriers to authentic confidence, with this fantastic series of podcasts from Dan Munro, founder of The Brojo.  Dan is a professional Confidence Coach, and is the Bestselling author of the books "The Legendary Life", and "Nothing to Lose".

In a single moment your life can change!  “Moments with Marianne” is a transformative hour that covers an endless array of topics with the ‘best of the best.’ Her guest are leaders in their fields, ranging from inspirational authors, top industry leaders, business and spiritual entrepreneurs.  Each guest is gifted, and a true visionary!  A recognized leader in her own work, and while teaching others to develop, refocus, and grow; Marianne will bring the best guest, and sometimes a special surprise.  Don’t miss this – you never know just which ‘moment’ will change your life forever.

The Unruly Travel & Living Podcast sits down with experts who share illuminating ideas, how-to tips, and personal stories on travel, alternative lifestyles, veganism, nature, queerness, and off-grid living. 

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