We should never underestimate the importance of reflection and introspection. Self-reflection is a powerful tool for personal growth and development. When done often, you create a much more intentional and powerful life. But many of us only do it annually, as we approach the new year and think about what went well and what didn’t…in essence, Reflecting Forward. 😊

In this week’s episode of Reflect Forward, I discuss how I came up with the name of my podcast, Reflect Forward, and why frequent self-reflection can help you to better understand yourself and your thoughts and feelings, which can lead to improved self-awareness and self-esteem. Frequent reflection and introspection can also help you to identify areas in your life where you may want to make changes or improvements. This can be especially helpful if you are feeling stuck or unfulfilled in some aspect of your life. Additionally, self-reflection can help you to better understand other people and improve your relationships with them.

I share my plan to journal during the new year, capturing my journey on the path to grow StoneAge to a billion-dollar company and why you, too, should develop a practice of frequent reflection and introspection. 

Question of the Week
This week’s question comes from a new manager who said, “I just hired someone and it’s not working. What do you do when it’s obvious that the person you just hired is not the right person for the job?”
Great question. I know the feeling and it’s not a good one. During the episode I share the steps you need to take to handle the situation such as evaluating your onboarding process, letting your manager know, and having a direct conversation with the struggling employee. Have a listen and let me know what you think!

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The Importance of Reflection and Introspection

Ever wanted to send that scathing email or slam the door shut after someone disappointed you?
We all have. But here’s the hard truth: Don’t burn that bridge—your future self might need it.
In this episode of Reflect Forward, I dive into one of the most overlooked leadership strategies: choosing compassion over retaliation, even when you feel wronged. Especially when you feel wronged. Because the way you show up during conflict doesn’t just define your character—it shapes your future opportunities.

The Real Reason We Lash Out—and Why We Must Resist
When someone quits unexpectedly, underdelivers, or betrays your trust, your brain goes into fight-or-flight mode. The amygdala floods your system with cortisol. Logic shrinks. Ego inflates. We react from fear, not clarity.

But strong leaders don’t lead from reactivity. They lead from ownership.
Unfortunately, business culture conditions us to compete at all costs. We’re taught to dominate, win, and protect what’s “ours.” That scarcity mindset convinces us that success is limited—and anyone who threatens ours must be the enemy. But real leadership requires a different path.

Mic Drop Moment: “You don’t need to win every time to be successful. You need to lead every time with integrity.”

The Law of Unexpected Returns
Here’s the magic: the kindness you extend today often circles back to benefit you later. Sometimes years later.

Maybe it’s the employee you part ways with gracefully who refers top talent to you later. Or the competitor you treat respectfully who becomes your partner in a surprising venture. The point is: you never know. And in tight-knit industries, your reputation is your currency.

Mic Drop Moment: “Every interaction is a seed—and the most valuable harvests come from the bridges you didn’t burn.”

Compassion Isn’t Weakness. It’s Strategy.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean condoning poor behavior. It means not carrying resentment. You can set boundaries and still choose compassion. You can walk away from someone and still treat them with grace.

Mic Drop Moment: “Just because the relationship looks like this today doesn’t mean it will look like this forever.”

The long game of leadership means leaving the door open—even if it’s only a crack.

Five Ways to Lead With Compassion—Even When It’s Hard
1.	Pause before reacting. Ask yourself: “What’s the story I’m telling myself right now?”
2.	Assume positive intent. Even if you’re hurt. Especially if you’re hurt.
3.	Use “I” statements. Lead with your truth, not with blame.
4.	Reach out with grace. A kind message can shift everything.
5.	Zoom out. Will this matter five years from now? How do you want to be remembered?

Key Takeaways
•	Lashing out is human. Leading with ownership is leadership.
•	Scarcity thinking creates enemies. Long-term thinking builds networks.
•	Your reputation travels. People remember how you made them feel.
•	Grace is strategic. Leave room for future reconnection.
•	Forgiveness fosters emotional maturity, team health, and future growth.

Call to Action: Lead With Integrity, Even in Discomfort
Think of one person you’ve mentally written off. Someone you feel hurt by.

Ask yourself:
•	What kind of relationship would I want with them in five years?
•	What’s one small act of compassion I can offer—today?
Maybe it’s a message. Maybe it’s just letting go. Either way, take the high road. Because your future self just might thank you.

Connect with Kerry
Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Don’t Burn That Bridge—Your Future Self Might Need It

Choose love over fear. It’s more than a feel-good mantra. It’s a radical leadership choice that can transform teams, ignite innovation, and turn crisis into opportunity. Washington Speakers Bureau President Ryan Heil has built his career proving that love, not fear, is the real competitive advantage in business and life.

In this episode of Reflect Forward: Advice for Leaders, I sit down with Ryan to unpack how this philosophy has shaped his journey from professional baseball to earning a PhD in organizational culture, co-authoring Choose Love Not Fear with his father, and leading a major turnaround at one of the most influential organizations in the speaking industry.

We explore why choosing love over fear creates stronger teams, deeper trust, and cultures that can adapt to disruption—plus how Ryan and his team navigated the pandemic’s devastating impact on the speaking industry to emerge stronger than ever.

Key Takeaways:
•	Love is a leadership strategy – Choosing love over fear builds trust, engagement, and sustainable performance.
•	Fear-based leadership fails in the long run – It may get short-term compliance, but it erodes creativity, passion, and loyalty.
•	Creative abrasion fuels innovation – Healthy conflict, when guided with respect, produces better ideas and stronger solutions.
•	Culture change starts one belief at a time – Turnarounds require relentless clarity on values, vision, and “why.”
•	Relationships are the real currency – They outlast trends, technologies, and even market disruptions.
•	Crisis is a catalyst for reinvention – Use uncertainty to question old assumptions and build better ways forward.
•	Your team may not always love you back – But consistent, steady leadership earns respect and trust over time.

Mic Drop Moments:
•	“It’s easy to lead with fear. But fear makes us dumber. Love unleashes human potential.”
•	“We don’t have speaker contracts—we have handshakes. Integrity is the glue that holds our relationships together.”
•	“Success is temporary. So is failure. The real skill is knowing how to pivot fast.”
•	“AI can recommend a speaker, but it can’t tell you who will stay after the keynote to shake every hand.”
•	“Love your team even when they don’t love you back. That’s leadership.”

Connect with Ryan:
•	Connect with Ryan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanmheil/ 
•	Learn more about Washington Speakers Bureau: https://www.wsb.com/
•	Get the book Choose Love Not Fear: https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Love-Not-Fear-Engagement/dp/1734105135 

Connect with Kerry
Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Why Great Leaders Choose Love Over Fear w/ Ryan Heil

What the best leaders do when no one is watching is what truly defines them. Leadership integrity isn’t built in front of a crowd; it’s forged in the quiet, unseen moments when no one is keeping score. The choices you make in private—whether to cut a corner, live your values, or own a mistake—are the foundation for building trust as a leader. When you consistently choose the harder right over the easier wrong, you strengthen self-trust, gain unshakable confidence, and set the tone for your entire culture. Leading with values in private is what makes people believe in you in public.
It’s easy to show up strong when the spotlight is on. But it’s what you do when the room is empty, the pressure is high, and the easier wrong beckons that proves whether you’re a leader worth following.
In this week’s episode of Reflect Forward, I share the moments that tested my integrity behind the scenes, such as halting the launch of a new product, even though it cost us time and money, because I refused to cut corners. I talk about owning mistakes before anyone noticed, walking away from a big client who didn’t align with our values, and protecting a team member’s reputation when exposing them would have been easier.

None of those choices made headlines. Most people never even knew. But those decisions shaped me into a leader I can trust and when you trust yourself to live your values no matter what, your team will too.

As J.C. Watts famously said, “Character is doing the right thing when nobody’s looking.” And as Carl Jung reminds us, “You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do.”

This episode will inspire you to reflect on your own behind-the-scenes leadership habits and give you three simple practices to strengthen your integrity muscle—so that when the world is watching, you’ll lead with magnetic confidence.

Key Takeaways
1.	Integrity in private is the foundation of trust in public. Don’t ruin trust by making poor decisions when no one’s watching.
2.	Confidence comes from self-trust. Every time you choose the harder right over the easier wrong, you reinforce the belief that you can count on yourself.
3.	The ripple effect is real. Quiet, values-driven choices shape culture and reputation far more than speeches ever will.

Mic Drop Moment
“The easiest time to lower your standards is when no one’s around to see. The best leaders raise them instead.”
Connect with Kerry
Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


What the Best Leaders Do When No One Is Watching

Great leaders build courage

What if the biggest risk to your leadership isn’t failure, but staying stuck where you are? Playing it safe may feel comfortable, but over time it erodes growth, impact, and confidence. That’s why bravery is the defining trait of great leaders.

In this week’s Reflect Forward episode, The Bravery Effect: How Leaders Build Courage, I sit down with Jill Schulman, a former U.S. Marine Corps officer, leadership development expert, and founder of Breakthrough Leadership Group. Jill has dedicated her career to studying the science of bravery, resilience, and peak performance, helping leaders reframe fear not as a barrier but as a signal for growth.

Her story is remarkable, going from combat engineering in the Marine Corps to a thriving pharmaceutical career and then leaping into entrepreneurship. Along the way, Jill discovered that bravery isn’t about being fearless. It’s about taking meaningful action in the presence of fear which every leader needs if they want to step out of the rut and into real influence.

In this powerful conversation, Jill and I explore:
•	Why fear—not failure—is often the greatest barrier to leadership growth
•	How micro-moments of bravery build resilience and confidence over time
•	The importance of aligning your career with your strengths and values
•	How to overcome self-doubt by taking action, not waiting for motivation
•	Why vulnerability is at the heart of true courage

Jill also shares insights from her new book, The Bravery Effect, written as a parable to help readers build their bravery “muscle” one small act at a time. Whether it’s speaking up in a meeting, having a tough conversation, or making a major career change, Jill shows us how courage compounds into transformation.

Listen to the full conversation on your favorite podcast platform or watch on YouTube.

Mic Drop Moments
💥 “If you’re waiting to feel confident or motivated before you act, you’ll be waiting forever. Action creates confidence. Action fuels motivation.”
💥 “If you don’t feel fear, it’s not bravery. The presence of fear is what makes courage possible.”
💥 “Everyday bravery isn’t about running into a burning building. It’s raising your hand in a meeting, having the hard conversation, or saying yes to the stretch assignment. Those choices compound and that’s how you change your life.”

Key Takeaways
1.	Bravery is not the absence of fear; it’s action in the presence of it.
2.	Confidence and motivation come after you take action, not before.
3.	Micro-moments of bravery compound over time into life-changing courage.
4.	Aligning your work with your strengths and values leads to lasting fulfillment.
5.	Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s the gateway to true courage.

Connect with Jill
Company website: https://breakthroughleadershipgroup.com/

Personal website: https://jillschulman.com/

Social Media
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillaschulman/
https://www.instagram.com/jillschulman
https://www.facebook.com/jill.schulman.5/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiS29aCCoaDGEDPLc6JJklQ
The Bravery Effect: https://www.amazon.com/Bravery-Effect-Teaching-Conquering-Achieving/dp/B0F2BBPR35 

Connect with Kerry
Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


The Bravery Effect How Leaders Build Courage w/ Jill Schulman

Complacency is the slow death of leadership. When we tolerate “good enough,” we quietly set the ceiling for our team’s potential—and our own.

When you say “good enough” is acceptable, you erode excellence. You send the message that mediocrity is tolerated, and that message ripples across culture, morale, and results. People disengage. Teams plateau. Opportunities slip away.

As Jim Collins reminds us: “Good is the enemy of great.” And Gallup’s research backs it up: only about 2 in 10 employees strongly agree that their performance is managed in a way that motivates them to do outstanding work. That’s what happens when leaders accept mediocrity instead of inspiring excellence.

The good news is that raising the bar doesn’t mean driving people to exhaustion. Excellence isn’t about perfection; it’s about clarity, ownership, and progress. As Brené Brown says, “Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind.” When leaders clearly define expectations, celebrate growth, and model accountability, teams rise to meet higher standards.

And it starts with us. We can’t expect our people to reject complacency if we’re coasting ourselves. Abraham Lincoln put it simply: “Whatever you are, be a good one.” Holding ourselves accountable to higher standards inspires trust, builds credibility, and makes excellence contagious.

In this episode of Reflect Forward, I introduce a tool I call the Ownership Audit, a quarterly practice designed to identify and eliminate complacency within yourself, your team, and your organization. I’ll walk you through how to use it to ask the hard questions, check for alignment with your mission and values, and take courageous action when “good enough” has crept in. Because the truth is, mediocrity doesn’t just cost culture, it costs money. McKinsey research shows that companies with high-performance cultures are 3.7 times more likely to be top financial performers.

Steve Jobs once said, “Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.” As leaders, we must become that yardstick. We must model what it looks like to expect and deliver excellence, not perfection, but the commitment to always do better.

Mic Drop Moments
•	“Complacency is the slow death of leadership.”
•	“When leaders tolerate ‘good enough,’ they set the ceiling for their team’s potential.”
•	“Mediocrity doesn’t just cost culture; it costs money.”
•	“Excellence isn’t perfection; it’s clarity and ownership.”
•	“If you tolerate average, you’ll never unlock extraordinary.”

Key Takeaways
1.	Tolerating “good enough” erodes both culture and results.
2.	Complacency spreads like a virus; leaders set the bar.
3.	Raising standards is about clarity and compassion, not perfection.
4.	The Ownership Audit helps leaders spot and eliminate mediocrity.
5.	Holding yourself accountable to higher standards inspires trust, energizes your team, and keeps complacency from creeping in.

Timestamps
•	00:00 – Why “good enough” is dangerous
•	02:05 – The StoneAge story: breaking the dealer model
•	08:42 – The psychology of “good enough”
•	12:30 – The ripple effect of complacency
•	16:10 – Raising standards without burnout
•	21:18 – Holding yourself accountable
•	27:45 – The Ownership Audit framework
•	35:10 – Closing thoughts and call to action

Connect with Kerry

Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Podcast_The Hidden Cost of Tolerating ‘Good Enough’Reflect Forward Podcast Kerry Siggins

Leading with grit is more than a leadership mantra; it’s the real-life story of how Kyle Ewing turned stacks of unsold paper in his basement into TerraSlate, a multi-million-dollar company whose waterproof, rip-proof products are now used by the U.S. military, biotech firms, restaurants, and even the NFL. His journey is proof that persistence, creativity, and accountability can transform even the “boring” into something extraordinary.

In our conversation on this week’s episode of Reflect Forward, Kyle shares how grit became his core value, the engine that carried him from stacks of unsold paper in his basement to scaling a thriving company. We talk about what it really takes to sell a product nobody thinks they need, why accountability creates stronger teams, and how leaders can flip the pyramid to serve their people and customers better.

If you’ve ever wondered how to lead through challenges, embrace mistakes, and build a culture rooted in ownership, this episode will inspire you to see grit not as a buzzword, but as a daily leadership practice.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
•	The origin story of TerraSlate: from wrinkled passports to waterproof menus and military manuals
•	How to pivot when your first idea flops and find true product-market fit
•	Why consistency and persistence are the secret weapons in sales and entrepreneurship
•	The power of psychological safety and accountability in building strong teams
•	How leaders scale by delegating authority and removing roadblocks

Key Takeaways
1.	Grit is the ultimate differentiator. Success comes from persistence, iteration, and showing up consistently, even when no one believes in your idea.
2.	Accountability builds culture. The best employees own their mistakes and create systems to prevent them in the future.
3.	Leaders must flip the pyramid. Your job is to remove roadblocks so your team can shine and serve customers.
4.	Selling is serving. Relationships and trust matter more than hard closes; people buy from people they like.
5.	Hire A-players early. Pay for top talent and let go of mediocrity quickly to unlock growth.

Mic Drop Moments
•	“Leading with grit means owning mistakes and turning them into momentum.”
•	“I work for my employees; they work for the customer.”
•	“You’re 2,000 cold calls away from success—consistency wins.”
•	“The buck always stops with the leader. Own it, fix it, move forward.”

About Kyle Ewing
Kyle Ewing is the founder and CEO of TerraSlate, makers of waterproof, rip-proof paper for mission-critical environments and everyday durability. TerraSlate serves industries ranging from hospitality to defense, and Kyle also writes the LinkedIn newsletter Ideas to Empires.

Connect with Kyle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyleewing/ 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=bizkyle
Instagram: @bizkyle  https://www.instagram.com/bizkyle/
TikTok: @bizkyle https://www.tiktok.com/@bizkyle
YouTube: @bizkyle https://www.youtube.com/@bizkyle 

Connect with Kerry
Don’t forget to subscribe to Reflect Forward on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube. Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 

Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Leading with Grit w/ Kyle Ewing

Busyness doesn’t equal effectiveness. In fact, the busier you are, the less effective you often become. In this episode of Reflect Forward, I tackle one of the biggest leadership lies: that a full calendar equals impact. It doesn’t. Busyness creates reactive leadership. Why? Because there’s no time for strategy, innovation, or even pausing to ask, “Is this the right move?”
Years ago, while running StoneAge, chairing a new economic development alliance, and preparing to become a mom, I hit the wall. Completely overwhelmed, I called my mom in tears. Her advice was simple: “Focus on what matters most and say no to everything else.” That moment changed how I approached leadership and life.

Since then, I’ve learned that busyness feeds our egos, masks fear and provides false validation. We think if we’re busy, we’re important. But true leadership comes from clarity, presence, and creating space for ourselves and our teams.

What We Explore in This Episode
•	The trap of busyness: Why leaders confuse activity with achievement
•	The real costs: Burnout, stress, and reactive decision-making
•	Escaping the trap: How to prioritize, delegate, say no, and protect white space
•	Leading by example: Why your team mirrors your busyness (and how to model intentionality instead)
•	Life beyond work: How less busyness creates more joy, energy, and presence

Key Takeaways
1.	Audit your calendar
Eliminate anything that doesn’t align with your top priorities. Decline meetings you don’t need to attend.
2.	Say no, unapologetically
No is a complete sentence. Every no creates space for a bigger yes.
3.	Delegate and empower
Frame the why, set outcomes, then let your team lead. Growth follows when you step back.
4.	Schedule white space
Thinking time isn’t a luxury—it’s a leadership requirement. Protect it on your calendar.
5.	Model intentionality for your team
Normalize focus time, give space after big pushes, and encourage your people to decline low-value meetings.

Mic Drop Moments
•	“If you’re too busy to lead, you’re not leading.”
•	“Never mistake activity for achievement.” – John Wooden
•	“No is a complete sentence. Use it.”
•	“Busy cultures are built by busy leaders—calm cultures are built by intentional leaders.”
•	“Every no makes room for a bigger yes.”

Busyness is not a badge of honor. It’s a trap that keeps us reactive and robs us of effectiveness. The best leaders create space—for clarity, for creativity, and for growth.
If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further.

Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 

Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Busyness Doesn’t Equal Effectiveness

How to be a super performer is a question every ambitious leader wrestles with. We chase higher goals, push our teams, and try to sustain momentum, but often overlook the real drivers of lasting success. True performance is not about doing more. It is about uncovering the root causes of success and creating the conditions where people can thrive.

In this episode of Reflect Forward, George Pesansky joins me to flip the script on performance. With over 30 years of experience in operational excellence, George has helped companies worldwide transform through lean manufacturing, Six Sigma, and continuous improvement. His new book Super Performance distills the lessons he has learned, and in this conversation, he shares how to apply them to your leadership, your teams, and even your personal growth.

We dig into why the “Prison of Expectations” quietly kills commitment, how to stretch your most productive “Golden Hour,” and why resilience and self-awareness are non-negotiables for anyone who wants to lead well. We also explore what sustainable momentum really looks like and how leaders can empower others without bottlenecking progress.

George’s insights are practical, powerful, and rooted in humility. This conversation will challenge your perspective on leadership and help you design systems for sustainable success without burning out yourself or your team.

Key Takeaways
1.	Find the root causes of your success. Do not just analyze problems. Dissect your wins and double down on what works.
2.	Protect and extend your Golden Hour. Name the time and conditions when you are most effective and build more of it into your day.
3.	Escape the Prison of Expectations. Pressure without psychological safety kills commitment. Replace it with clarity and curiosity.
4.	Lead with curiosity, not control. Step out of the boardroom, go to where the work happens, and ask questions to learn.
5.	Momentum is addition and subtraction. True progress comes when your gains outpace the losses created by turnover, inefficiencies, and neglect.

Mic Drop Moments
•	“If you try to be the hero of every story, you will burn out and bottleneck your company.”
•	“The Golden Hour is not luck. It is a designed environment you can repeat and stretch.”
•	“Pressure without safety creates the Prison of Expectations where people stop committing.”
•	“Real leadership is when the day-to-day runs without you because the why and the what are clear.”
•	“Do the Five Whys on your wins. Success leaves clues.”

George’s book Super Performance is available now wherever books are sold. To learn more about him and his work, visit georgepesansky.com and myblendedlearning.com.

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who could benefit. And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further.

Connect with Kerry

Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 

Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/




How to Be A Super Performer w/ George Pesansky

No one is coming to save you. The moment you realize that is the moment you step into your true power as a leader.

In this episode of Reflect Forward, I explore the life changing power of radical responsibility. As leaders, we all have moments when we wish someone else would fix the problem, make the decision, or show us the path forward. But waiting for someone to rescue us kills momentum. True leadership begins when we stop waiting and start owning.

I talk about how to recognize when you have slipped into victim thinking, how to catch yourself in that moment, and how to reclaim your sense of agency. You will learn how to listen for the subtle signals that you are giving away your power, especially when you hear yourself saying “Yeah, but.” That phrase is the telltale sign that you have moved from ownership to avoidance.

This episode will help you build the mindset of accountability and confidence that defines great leaders. It is about shifting from “Why will someone not fix this?” to “What is my next step?” and realizing that you already have everything you need to lead yourself and your team forward.

As Winston Churchill once said, “The price of greatness is responsibility.” Taking ownership for your choices, your reactions, and your mindset is how you become the kind of leader others want to follow.

Research backs this up. A McKinsey study found that companies with leaders who embrace ownership and accountability are 4.9 times more likely to outperform their peers in overall performance. Accountability is not just about personal growth; it is a competitive advantage.

Key Takeaways
1.	Ownership starts where excuses end. The moment you stop waiting for rescue, you start leading.
2.	Catch your “yeah, but.” It is the red flag of victim thinking. Pause, reframe, and act.
3.	Ask the three ownership questions:
• What part of this situation can I own right now?
• If no one else steps in, what is the best step I can take today?
• Am I choosing to be a victim or the leader who changes it?
4.	Clarity beats control. You cannot control circumstances, but you can always control your response.
5.	Leaders go first. When you model accountability, you build a culture that owns results.

Mic Drop Moments
•	“No one is coming to save you. The moment you realize that is the moment you step into your true power as a leader.”
•	“Leadership begins when we stop waiting and start owning.”
•	“If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you would not sit for a month.” — Theodore Roosevelt
•	“You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.” — Jim Rohn

If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review helps me spread the message of intentional leadership and the ownership mindset even further.

Connect with Kerry

Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!

Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 

Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 

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No One Is Coming to Save You

To lead well, you must train your brain to lead. When your nervous system is calm, you think clearly, make better decisions, and build stronger relationships. When it is hijacked by stress or fear, even the most experienced leader can lose presence and perspective. In this episode, executive leadership coach Nataly Huff, founder of Inspire Forward, explores the neuroscience behind composure, emotional regulation, and the stories we tell ourselves when we are triggered.

We dive into what really happens during an amygdala hijack, why your prefrontal cortex becomes depleted, and how to use your body’s cues to regulate your nervous system in real time. Nataly shares science-based strategies to pause before reacting, leverage tools like box breathing and compartmentalization, and reframe inaccurate thoughts before they spiral into conflict. Together, we explore what it truly means to train your brain to lead, not by suppressing emotions but by understanding them.

If you have ever left a meeting thinking, “Why did I react like that,” this conversation gives you the self-awareness and practical tools to stay grounded, curious, and in control.
About Nataly

Nataly Huff is an executive leadership coach with 15 years of corporate experience. She blends neuroscience and emotional intelligence to help emerging executives elevate their leadership impact. Learn more and book a discovery call at inspireforward.com.

What we cover
•	The brain’s happiness chemicals and how to leverage them for better performance
•	Amygdala hijacks and how to recognize, interrupt, and reset
•	Practical nervous system regulation through box breathing, 4 7 8, and sensory grounding
•	Healthy compartmentalization: when to use it and when to unpack it
•	The Think → Feel → Do framework and Byron Katie’s Four Questions for challenging 

limiting stories
•	Triggers, ownership, and radical honesty, and how to lead yourself first
•	Why the goal is not perfection but a faster recovery loop
Key takeaways
1.	Name it to tame it. Notice your physiological cues, label the amygdala hijack, and pause before reacting.
2.	Breathe with structure. Try box breathing or 4 7 8 to bring your attention back to the present.
3.	Compartmentalize with intention. Put it in a box now and plan when you will process it.
4.	Interrupt the story. Ask, “Is it true? Can I know for sure,” before assuming the worst.
5.	Progress over perfection. The more you train your brain to lead, the faster you recover and the stronger you show up.

Mic drop moments
•	“There is no bear. It is just an email.”
•	“Your prefrontal cortex cannot run on empty. Fuel it or you default to reaction.”
•	“Compartmentalization is powerful if you open the box later.”
•	“Honor the pattern before you release it. It helped you survive and succeed.”
•	“Leadership is not the absence of triggers. It is ownership of your recovery.”

Resources mentioned
•	Breathwork: box breathing, 4 7 8 breathing
•	Frameworks: Think → Feel → Do, Byron Katie’s Four Questions

Connect with Nataly
Website: https://www.inspire-forward.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalyhuff
Instagram: @inspirefwdcoaching 
Tik Tok: @https://www.tiktok.com/@inspirefwdcoaching
Book a Free Call: https://www.inspire-forward.com/book-a-free-call
Rewiring Your Leadership Brain https://www.inspire-forward.com/rewiring-your-leadership-brain

Connect with Kerry
Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok!
Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward 
Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ 
Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/


Train Your Brain to Lead w/ Nataly Huff

Reflect Forward isn’t your everyday leadership podcast. This show is about exceptional leadership. Game-changing leadership. Learn from peers, experts, authors, and more on how to be an uber successful leader…one that stands out from the rest. One that inspires others to do great things. One that others want to follow. How does Reflecting Forward fit into exceptional leadership? You can only become great at what you do by deliberately creating your future by reflecting on the past and present…what you did well, mistakes you’ve made, and lessons you’ve learned.

Kerry Siggins is the CEO of StoneAge, the global leader in the manufacturing and distribution of high pressure waterjetting tooling and automated equipment. Kerry is also a member of Young President's Organization (YPO) and sits on several boards. She is a sought-after speaker, thought leader, leadership blogger and podcast host.