In this weeks episode Danny and EJ discuss the topic of CONTROL. Everyone that loves an addict reacts to the unwanted chaos the same - with CONTROL. This is 100% natural but the problem is, it's only an illusion and it only negatively impacts YOU. We are so happy you are here and hope that you share this episode with someone that needs the support.

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Ep 83: The Illusion of CONTROL

One of the biggest reasons families stay stuck when a loved one is spiraling is this paralyzing question: "Is this addiction... or is it a mental health crisis?" That uncertainty can stop parents, spouses, and siblings from taking action—afraid of labeling it wrong, of pushing too hard, or making things worse. In this episode, we unpack why this question is so common, why it keeps families on the sidelines, and how to move forward even when you don’t have all the answers. 

Danny and Emily answer this question loud and clear—bringing truth, experience, and hope to the heart of the struggle.

If you've ever felt torn between compassion and fear, this episode is for you.

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Episode 102: Is it Addiction? Or a Mental Health Crisis?

In this episode, Danny and Emily take a hard look at the growing trend of so-called "natural" and "non-addictive" alternatives to real recovery and healing — think microdosing mushrooms, ketamine therapy, kratom, psychedelics, and more.

These substances are marketed as healing tools for trauma, anxiety, and addiction. They're often labeled as safe, non-habit-forming, and even therapeutic — but the truth is, they’re becoming modern-day counterfeits for true healing and long term recovery. Many people turn to these as replacements for actual treatment, unknowingly trading one false solution for another.

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Episode 103: Counterfeit Recovery: When "Healing" Becomes The New "High".

Already dreading the family reunion? Wondering if it's possible not to invite them to the wedding? Summer is supposed to be a time for fun, and family—but when you love someone who’s battling addiction, these gatherings can quickly become stressful, chaotic, or even painful. In this episode, we are sharing practical, compassionate strategies to help you show up for summer vacations, weddings, family reunions, and other big events without losing yourself in the process. 
Whether you’re dreading the next family trip or simply wondering how to handle hard conversations around the dinner table, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence you need to navigate it well.

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Episode 104:Surviving Summer: How to Navigate Family Events with an Addicted Loved One

When someone you love is addicted, it's easy to fall into survival mode—doing whatever it takes to keep the peace, manage the chaos, or fix the problem. But many of the strategies families use, though well-intentioned, actually cause more harm than good.

In this episode, Danny breaks down 5 of the most common toxic patterns families fall into when dealing with addiction—and why these responses only fuel the cycle. From enabling and denial to blame and over-functioning, you'll hear real-life examples and learn healthier, more effective ways to respond.

Whether you're a parent, spouse, or sibling of someone struggling with addiction, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical next steps to start breaking free from the dysfunction.

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Episode 105: 5 Toxic Ways Families Deal with Addiction

Loving someone with an addiction is gut-wrenching. The emotional rollercoaster. The confusion. The fear. And the constant question — *am I helping or hurting?* In this episode, Danny lays out 5 hard truths every parent, spouse, or loved one of an addict *must* understand if they want to stop the chaos and start the healing. It’s raw, real, and possibly the most important episode you’ll hear if you’re trying to help someone you love break free from addiction.

If you’re tired of feeling powerless, this episode is for you.

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Episode 106: 5 Hard Truths Every Family Member Needs to Face

They were doing so well... so why did they relapse?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on one of the most painful and confusing moments in addiction recovery—relapse. It’s not about weakness. It’s not about willpower. And it’s definitely not because they "don’t want it bad enough."

We break down the five real reasons why people relapse, even when everything on the outside seems to be going right. If you’ve been blindsided by a setback—or you’re terrified one is coming—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and a practical path forward.

Whether you're the one in recovery or the one standing beside them, this conversation will shift the way you see relapse—and what you do next.
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Episode 107: The Real Reason They Relapsed. (What Every Family Needs To Know.)

Everyone focuses on the addict’s recovery — the detox, the rehab, the meetings. But what about you?
The truth is, families are often left carrying the weight of addiction alone — drowning in fear, resentment, sleepless nights, and second-guessing every decision.
In this episode, we uncover the missing piece no one talks about: family recovery. You’ll learn why your healing isn’t optional, it’s essential — not just for your well-being, but for your loved one’s chances at lasting change.

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Episode 108: The Missing Piece in Addiction Recovery No One Talks About

Every family who loves someone battling addiction has thought it—even if they’ve never said it out loud: What if they die? That unspoken fear drives sleepless nights, constant anxiety, and the guilt loop that never lets you rest.

In this episode of Your Living Proof Podcast, Danny and Emily  name the fear beneath everything and give you tools to face it head-on. Learn what you can and can’t control, how to practice anticipatory grief without being ruled by it, and why letting go of responsibility doesn’t mean letting go of love. With raw honesty and faith-filled perspective, this conversation will help you breathe again, love your addicted loved one fully, and reclaim peace in your home.

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Episode 109: What If They Die? Facing the Fear Beneath Every Sleepless Night

Do you feel restless when things are finally calm?
Do you catch yourself bracing for the next crisis… almost like peace feels wrong?
You might be caught in the hidden addiction almost nobody talks about: chaos.
In this episode, Danny breaks down why families so often get hooked on the drama surrounding their addicted loved one — and how to break free from it. You’ll learn:
What “chaos addiction” really is and why your nervous system craves it
Signs you might be more entangled in the chaos than you realize
The science behind cortisol and trauma bonding (in plain English)
Practical steps to retrain your body and mind to find safety in peace
Why real love doesn’t live in survival mode — it creates space for healing
👉 Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or sibling, this conversation will give you tools to step out of the cycle of chaos and start reclaiming your peace.
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Episode 110:Addicted to the Chaos: The Trap Hiding in Plain Sight

In this episode, Danny and Emily expose the 4 most common lies families believe that keep addiction alive—even when they’re doing everything they can to help.
You’ll learn how addiction twists love into guilt, how faith can be weaponized by shame, and why trying to “save” your loved one can actually keep everyone stuck. Most importantly, you’ll hear the truth that sets families free—and the steps to start changing things right now.
🎯 What you’ll take away:
The 4 lies that quietly fuel the cycle of chaos
How to recognize when “helping” is actually hurting
A new perspective that gives you peace, not guilt
How to lead your loved one toward lasting change
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Episode 111:The 4 Lies That Keep Families Stuck in Addiction

Danny Deaton, a Family Addiction Recovery expert, and his wife Emily offer a raw, honest, and deeply personal perspective on addiction, marriage, faith, and family life. Drawing from their own journeys through teenage pregnancy, adoption, drug addiction, and incarceration, they bring an authentic voice to these challenging topics. Together, they founded Living Proof Recovery Service, a program dedicated to supporting families affected by addiction, and The Living Proof Family Foundation, a nonprofit focused on providing crucial support and education to those struggling with addiction. They’ve built these organizations from the ground up, all while raising their three children together, which they consider their greatest success. This dynamic couple welcomes you into their world, sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between with open hearts and unwavering transparency. Tune in for a conversation that feels like family, where you’ll find hope, strength, and authenticity in every episode.
 
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