Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. 

Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex.

But not every bottom wants that kind of aftercare, and not every top is comfortable in providing everything a bottom might want. So, it’s important for tops and bottoms to communicate what they want—or don’t want—after a spanking session is over. Listen on dudes, to learn more.

All of this and a quick explanation about some rule changes at Etsy about the types of BDSM and adult gear they allow to be sold through the site. Oh, and the pink lanyards are coming to Bad Ass Weekend!

Bad Ass Weekend: BAWevent.com

Etsy’s adult content policies: https://www.etsy.com/legal/policy/adult-nudity-and-sexual-content/1269612959532

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 56: All About Aftercare

Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott’s new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as information about what’s happening with Las Vegas. Listen on, dudes!

Bad Ass Weekend: https://bawevent.com/
Hot Seat Vegas: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home
OTK LA: https://www.otkla.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 57: Bad Ass Weekend 2024’s Wonderfully Painful Memories

We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd.

Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.

Special: Hot Seat Vegas 2025 Is Coming! July 30 to August 3

Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! 

Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen on Dudes, and find out what Sean plans to do to Scott’s butt in Palm Springs in March!

Bonus links:
Check out the “Sips and Smacks” Podcast: https://www.sipsandsmacks.com/ (Scott is a guest on Episode 97)
Hot Seat Retreat 2025 in Palm Springs, March 19-23: https://www.hotseatps.com/home
Hot Seat Vegas 2025 in Las Vegas, July 30-August 3: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com


Episode 58: Demands of the Hand

You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you.

The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a long time. But how exactly do you pull them off so that it feels genuine for both sides? Listen on dudes, as HotbotScott is joined by Steven and Mike to talk you all through it.

(Note: This episode was recorded before the announcement that Skype would be shutting down its services.)

Links:

“Bad Lads, Strict Sirs and the World of Adult Male Spanking”: http://badladsandstrictsirs.com/

The Chicago Leather Archives and Museum: https://leatherarchives.org

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com


Episode 59: Long-Distance Discipline

Oh gosh everyone prepare your umbrellas and hold onto your wigs, the boys are FINALLY discussing "Upgrade!"

TLH YT: www.youtube.com/channel/UCas9EdAawBZg-THpmxD6okA
TLH SoundCloud: @theloinclothhour
TLH Patreon: www.patreon.com/theloinclothhour
TLH BlueSky: bsky.app/profile/theloinclothhour.bsky.social
TLH Tumblr: www.tumblr.com/theloinclothhour

Manicorn's FurAffinity: www.furaffinity.net/user/croup
Manicorn's AO3: archiveofourown.org/users/Manicorn/…/Manicorn/works
Manicorn's Patreon: www.patreon.com/manicorn
Manicorn's BlueSky: bsky.app/profile/manicorn.bsky.social

Syd's Tumblr: www.tumblr.com/sydscripts
Syd's BlueSky: bsky.app/profile/sydscripts.bsky.social
Syd's BlogSpot: sydscripts.blogspot.com/

Hiran's BlueSky: bsky.app/profile/did:plc:flxntf7zl6rmcrjjay4wjvan
Hiran's FurAffinity: www.furaffinity.net/user/once3333

Gargoyles Season 2, Episode 18: "Upgrade" PART 1/2

Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting their prey—consensually of course. Listen on, dudes, for all the details.

Upcoming events:
OTKLA: May 30. https://www.otkla.com/home
Camp Red Tails: July 17-22. https://www.campredtails.com/
Hot Seat Vegas, July 30-August 3. https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home
Bad Ass Weekend, Oct 15-19. https://bawevent.com/

Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com

Episode 60: Bullies and Bounties at Hot Seat Retreat

Podcast co-creator Brian/Croup returns for an episode because he and Scott just came back from a whirlwind spanking good vacation in Augusta, Georgia, for Bad Ass Weekend #9. They get into details about spankings, both delivered and received (and that includes Scott) and how amazing the entire event was. Y'all should consider going next year! Details about Bad Ass Weekend here: www.bawevent.com.

In other news, Scott has decided to take a spin at self-publishing some of his spanking fiction. An anthology of his early chapters of "Aaron's Game" are now available as a Kindle ebook for the low-low price of $2.99. Check it out here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JFJSFCS

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