EPISODE 226

The other day, I made a small mistake while ordering something online. I typed in the wrong street address for my location to have my package delivered.

While trying to deliver the package, the delivery driver called me, confused. The location on her GPS delivery system in her truck, was showing a fire hydrant in an empty field. 

I laughed quickly gave them the deliver driver my correct address. My package was successfully delivered, but my typing mistake stuck with me.

I was not surprised the fire hydrant may had a GPS address tag as the fire department needs to know where the fire hydrants are in an emergency situation.

However, the fact that my small mistakes got mapped to a fire hydrant in an empty field got me thinking: how often does a small mistake in your own life leave your somewhere you did not expect?

A single mistyped number, letter or set of misspoken words can often send you far off course in your own life.

How do you correct such mistakes in your own life?

Giving the Universe your correct address can create a significant positive impact in your own life.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2025 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.



It was the Address of a Fire Hydrant

A devotional mantra honoring the radiant light of Surya, the Sun, the source of life-force, vitality, and awakening. This piece channels warmth, clarity, and inner illumination through Harmony Pavett’s angelic voice, harmonium, and meditative soundscape.

Created as a vibrational offering to uplift the spirit, the Surya Mantra invites listeners to awaken their inner radiance, strengthen prana, and realign with purpose and joy. Perfect for meditation, morning practice, yoga, or anytime you want to reconnect with your own light.

Let this mantra be a sunrise in your heart.
☀️ More new music is coming throughout 2026.

Surya Mantra

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EPISODE 233

I was recently in Los Angles, California, to see a music concert at the Troubadour.  A friend of mine, a Hollywood actress, joined me for the concert at Troubadour.

It was a concert including featuring Robby Krieger of the Doors and Billy Gibbons of ZZ Top.
Like most great venues, it has rules, and like most rules, they only matter when they suddenly apply to you. As we passed through security, her purse was searched and a forbidden item was discovered: chewing gum.

The security team informed her that chewing gum was not allowed inside. She was asked to give it up.
She could throw it away and leave it with security and pick it up after the concert.

She choose to leave it with security.

However,  some point, she made an empowered decision. She was going to get her gum back.

She left the club, retrieved the gum from security, walked back to her car, placed it safely inside, and then returned to the venue. Only then could she relax and enjoy the show with me.

She applied "The Chewing Gum Principles."

“The Chewing Gum Principles provide a sense of empowered control over your own life within your own boundaries with you being responsible for you own actions.”

How can you use the Chewing Gum Principles in your own life?

Using the Chewing Gum Principles and always being aware of your own personal boundaries, being responsible for your own actions and always be empowered allows you to create a positive impact in your own life. 

Even if someone tries to take away your chewing gum.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2025 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.


They Took My Gum

EPISODE 234

I was recently at a music concert at the Troubadour in Los Angeles, California with a friend of mine who is a Hollywood actress. It was a concert featuring Robby Krieger of the Doors and Billy Gibbons of ZZ Top.

Billy Gibbons said during the concert being a good performer depends on the “tuning” of your guitar and your “timing” playing on time with the rest of the band.

“It’s all about tuning and timing.”

Billy Gibbons

Like good music, a good life for you emerges when you are both in tune and on time.

How do you practice tuning and timing in your own life?

When you tune yourself carefully to your own intuition, pay attention to your own timing and enter your own song at exactly the right moment, you can create a positive impact in your own life.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2026 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.

It's All About Tuning and Timing

EPISODE 235

In our age of constant comparison, endless opinions, and relentless noise, one of the greatest challenges we face is not deciding what to do, but deciding who to listen to.

Trends change. External validation is fleeting. Yet, beneath the surface of all this motion, there exists something far more stable: your North Star.

Your North Star is not a goal, a job title, or a destination. 

Your North Star is an internal compass, a deeply held sense of purpose, values, and direction that remains constant even when circumstances change.

Your North Star, is your Intuition.

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Your North Star, your Intuition, is your First Sense, what you use before using your other five senses of seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting and touching.

Believing in your North Star, your Intuition, is the act of trusting that inner guidance, especially when the path forward feels uncertain.

A life guided by your North Star, your Intuition, is be linear, but it is coherent. Over time, seemingly disconnected choices begin to form a pattern. Effort feels purposeful. Resilience deepens. Confidence becomes quieter but more stable.

What are practical steps to connect with your own North Star, your Intuition?

When you trust that internal compass, your North Star, your Intuition, you move through uncertainty with dignity. You make fewer decisions driven by fear and more driven by meaning.

Believing in your North Star, your Intuition, is not about having all the answers. It is about committing to live in relationship with your inner truth, even as it evolves to create a positive impact in your life.

That is your real north, North Star, its your Intuition.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2026 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

What is Your North Star?

EPISODE 235

Most people think change requires more time, more information, or more motivation.
It doesn’t.

Immediate positive change begins the moment you Decide. Period.

Not consider.
Not hope.
Not wait until conditions improve.

Not try.

Decide. Period.

Decide right now.

“Your life changes the moment you make a new, congruent, and committed decision.”
— Tony Robbins the self-help and motivational teacher

How can you make decisions that will change the trajectory of your own life?

Decide Today.

Decide. Period.

Your life doesn’t change when circumstances change.
Your life changes when you Decide. Period.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2026 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.

Decide. Period.

EPISODE 237

Are You a Disruptor?

Many people feel the word disruptor used to belong exclusively to Silicon Valley. It described founders who overturned industries, rewrote business models, and rendered legacy systems obsolete, such as Bill Gates with Microsoft Windows, Steve Jobs with the iPhone, Elon Musk with SpaceX and Tesla and others.

What Is a Disruptor, Really?

At its core, disruption is not chaos. It is intentional pattern interruption.

A disruptor identifies an entrenched framework then challenges it.

In business, that might mean replacing physical stores with e-commerce such as what Amazon.com did.

In personal growth, being a disruptor means replacing inherited beliefs with consciously chosen ones.

If you want to operate as a personal disruptor in your own life, apply this structured approach/

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

Copyright © 2026 by Stephen Lesavich, PhD.  All rights reserved.

Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.