Today Asterian Astrologer Jade Luna joins me again to discuss how the stars predicted this time we are in, what we can learn from it and how we can move forward.&nbsp;Jade and I speak about what life is really about and what the most important things that each and every one of us can do right now to live our most aligned and true lives. &nbsp; Jade S. Luna is the first Westerner ever to reconstruct Jyotish (Hindu Astrology) into a Greco-Roman format.&nbsp;Jade has traveled extensively around the planet, lecturing and conducting workshops on Astrology and Ancient Roman-Greco mysticism. He has traveled to India more than 30 times and spent a great deal of time with various teachers, Saints and Sadhu’s in Asia.  Jade also consults with people privately. He usually presents a few seminars each year at various locations world wide.&nbsp;He is the author of Asterian Astrology and has been one of the most successful Astrologers in the world and has maintained a high level practice for over 18 years. You can learn more or book a session with him here:&nbsp;

CC: What to Expect from the Years Ahead (and how to Navigate the Now) with Asterian Astrologer Jade Luna

Steven Kessler has been a psychotherapist in the San Francisco Bay Area for almost 30 years, teaching both locally and internationally. He is a certified EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) Expert and Trainer, and is the bestselling author of The 5 Personality Patterns, a simple, clear, true-to-life map of personality that gives you the key to understanding people and communicating with them effectively. More information and descriptions of the patterns are available at . Steven loves teaching and helping people grow. He can be reached at

CC: The Five Personality Patterns with Steven Kessler

You are going to learn so much from this episode!! And get to listen to a live demo of Dr Schwartz doing parts work with me.&nbsp; Richard Schwartz began his career as a family therapist and an academic at the University of Illinois at Chicago. There he discovered that family therapy alone did not achieve full symptom relief and in asking patients why, he learned that they were plagued by what they called “parts.” From these explorations with parts work, the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model was born in the early 1980s. &nbsp; IFS is now evidence-based and has become a widely-used form of psychotherapy, particularly with trauma. It provides a non-pathologizing, optimistic, and empowering perspective and a practical and effective set of techniques for working with individuals, couples, families, and more recently, corporations and classrooms. &nbsp; In 2013 Schwartz left the Chicago area and now lives in Brookline, MA where he is on the faculty of the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.

CC: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Richard Schwartz

If you ever struggle with anxiety, worry or even depression, do NOT miss this episode.&nbsp; One of the leading voices in personal development and transformation and an international bestselling author Mel Robbins joins Christine and gives a TON of soothing and practical advice for creating more calm in your life.  Mel's work includes the global phenomenon The 5 Second Rule, the upcoming The High 5 Habit, four #1 bestselling audiobooks, the #1 podcast on Audible, as well as signature online courses that have changed the lives of more than half a million students worldwide.&nbsp;  Her groundbreaking work on behavior change has been translated into 36 languages and is used by healthcare professionals, veterans’ organizations, and the world’s leading brands to inspire people to be more confident, effective, and fulfilled.  As one of the most widely booked and followed public speakers in the world, Mel coaches more than 60 million people online every month and videos featuring her work have more than a billion views online, including her TEDx talk, which is one of the most popular of all time.  There’s nothing Mel loves more than making a real difference in people’s lives by teaching them to believe in themselves and inspiring them to take the actions that will change their lives. Mel lives in New England with her husband of 25 years and their three kids, but she is and will always be a Midwesterner at heart.

CC: The High Five Habit with Mel Robbins

If you are interested in becoming a coach or already are a coach and want to be even more impactful, don't miss this episode.&nbsp; You've heard me talk about the coaching certification program I co-founded with Stef, Preston Smiles and Alexi Panos.&nbsp; Today, my dear friend and partner, Alexi, joins me as we take a deep dive into describing the Elementum Coaching Institute. &nbsp; We cover: why and how it's different from other certification programs, how it's structured, what you learn, what you receive, and SO much more.&nbsp; If you've been considering enrolling in Elementum, this episode will answer so many of your questions. &nbsp; A little more about Alexi . . . &nbsp; A leader in the Emergent Wisdom movement,&nbsp;&nbsp;Alexi Panos was named as one of FORBES Top 11 Women Entrepreneurs, INC's magazines TOP 10 ENTREPRENEUR'S CHANGING THE WORLD, one of Origin Magazines TOP 100 CREATIVES CHANGING THE WORLD, and is a featured expert in the films THE ABUNDANCE FACTOR, RISEUP and AGE OF THE ENTREPRENEUR.&nbsp;&nbsp;Alexi is a&nbsp;&nbsp;Master Leadership and Embodiment trainer&nbsp;&nbsp;and co-founder in The Bridge Method workshops and The Elementum Coaching Institute, host of the Top 10 Self Improvement Podcast UNLEASHED, business strategist, filmmaker and humanitarian (through her organizations E.P.I.C. and The Sisters Society); and as a bestseller, Alexi has authored the books 50 WAYS TO YAY! and NOW OR NEVER, both by Simon &amp; Schuster. Alexi is a proud mama to 4 kids and currently lives in Austin, TX.&nbsp;&nbsp;Follow her on Instagram and Youtube @alexipanos.&nbsp; @alexipanos

CC: Be a Coach or Become an Even Better Coach with My co-founder of Elementum Coaching Institute Alexi Panos

This episode is about love and relationships. Today’s caller, Rocio, is in a pattern that is blocking her from calling in love. She would like guidance on how much of her dating is based on divine timing or if there are things she can do to date from a more empowered, emotionally available space. &nbsp; [For show notes go here: ] &nbsp; A lot of times we think we are emotionally available because we want love and connection and we’ve done the work to make ourselves vulnerable. But, often, there is a hurt part of us that is a protective mechanism that makes us put a guard up so we are not completely emotionally available. &nbsp; We are co-creators in our life. The spirit of the divine meets us at the point of action and intention. If we are not actively participating in getting what we desire, then we are not fully meeting the divine at the point of action and intention. If we have fear, it can block us. A lot of the time we spend avoiding love because we are afraid of rejection more than we are into opening ourselves up and putting ourselves out there. &nbsp; When we have a parent that created an anxious attachment style, we draw in people who trigger that feeling inside of us because we are attempting to heal it. As children, we can’t advocate for ourselves as we can as adults. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:   Are you frustrated with dating and want to know how you can shift it?   Did you think everything was going well with the last person you dated and then it just didn’t work out? If you look back at it, did you miss some red flags?   Did you have a parent you craved more from and you can see how that wound impacts how you date?   Are you willing to be vulnerable, emotionally available, and honest about what works for you and what doesn’t?   &nbsp; Rocio’s Question: Rocio would like guidance about how much she should trust timing and intuition to call in love. &nbsp; Rocio’s Key Insights and Ahas:   She has been meeting emotionally unavailable guys.   She fears rejection and being vulnerable.   Recently she thought she met someone and their energies aligned but there were inconsistencies.   She feels that she is putting herself out there and trusting her intuition.   There were inconsistencies in her relationship with her father.   She is not fully healed from an unmet need from her childhood.   She wants to call in a relationship.   &nbsp; How to Get Over It and On With It:   If triggered, call it out and stand up for herself right away.   Normalize being emotionally available and asking for what she wants.   Don’t let her fear of rejection stop her from speaking her truth.   Trust herself to express her needs.   Remember the guys she dates are not her father.   &nbsp; Sponsor:  — is good-looking clean cooking. Caraway products are beautiful, easy to clean and use, and it is non-toxic. The cookware and bakeware sets have a naturally slick ceramic surface. Go to  to take advantage of the exclusive 10% off on their full suite of products, including their new food storage sets. Be sure to use OVERIT at checkout. &nbsp; Resources:  — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community

EP 395: How to Date When It Hasn’t Been Going So Well with Rocio

This episode is about taking risks or making changes when you don’t feel safe or secure on some level. Today’s caller, Julie, feels stressed about making money because she is not doing something she is passionate about. Christine offers her guidance on how to shift her perspective into making an intentional transition. &nbsp; [For show notes, go here: ] &nbsp; One of my pet peeves of the personal development industry is the implied pressure to just make changes, take leaps, or have courage. And, while it is important to be able to make changes and to be able to take leaps, when you feel not safe on some level, it is going to be challenging. &nbsp; It’s always a blend of not staying in something that is familiar and “safe” but not what you want to be doing for so long that you get accustomed to feeling safe but not feeling alive, Not really feeling like you’re doing what you’re passionate about. Because the years will go by and your dream will quickly fade. &nbsp; However, you don’t want to just drop everything and make a drastic change when you don’t feel safe. When it comes to safety, we are humans who have basic needs. We have the need for love. We have the need for feeling that our physical needs are met also. &nbsp; There is a part of us that if we’re not doing what we love or what we really desire, it can be difficult to make money at it because if we’re really being called to something else, and we’re not listening to it, often we’ll have a sabotaging part that will come up. &nbsp; My upcoming Signature Retreat is for women who want to go deeper into their consciousness, release layers that need to go, expand their femininity, get clear about their purpose, and heal wounds. Get exquisite self-care from October 13‒15 in San Diego, CA. To apply go to . There is still time to get the early bird discount. Listen to this Coaches Corner episode to find out what happens during the retreat . &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:   Are you a people-pleaser and make decisions based on what you think other people want from you versus what you truly want from yourself?   Are you making choices or doing things that are breeding resentment, maybe in your marriage, a friendship, in business, or with your parents?   Do you feel unsafe and unstable in some way and you are doing something just for the money?   Do you want to make a change but you feel like you just can’t because you’re not financially “stable” enough?   &nbsp; Julie’s Question: Julie is looking for guidance about personal finances. &nbsp; Julie’s Key Insights and Ahas:   She and her husband feel stressed about money.   She is self-employed in her small business.   She started working with an IFS therapist.   She consumes a lot of information about her small business.   She is a people-pleaser.   She feels pressure from her husband to make more money.   She likes helping people.   She tires of doing what other people think she should do.   She felt love from her parents was conditional.   She judges herself for not doing what she wants to do.   She has a love/hate relationship with money.   &nbsp; How to Get Over It and On With It:   Create a self-love-healing plan and an action plan.   Approach her work from a different perspective.   Identify where her triggers originate.   Create safety in her system.   Love herself through it.   Check out the upcoming .   &nbsp; Takeaways:   What are the steps, both internally and externally, you need to take to make an intentional transition?   Get your applications in to join Christine at her .   &nbsp; Sponsor:  — is an infrared resonance device that when paired with sessions in the companion app works towards reducing stress, and improving well-being. It provides deep relaxation in 10‒30 minute sessions to tone the vagus nerve. For $30 off your purchase, go to  and use the promo code OVERIT. &nbsp; Resources:  — Take a Coaching Assessment

EP 403: How to Take Risks When You Don’t Feel Financially Secure with Julie

I'm answering another question from a listener this week! She asked me to expand upon a phrase I've used in the show: leaky sexual energy. In this episode I'll describe what leaky sexual energy is, where it comes from, how to recognize it, how it impacts

CC: What is "Leaky" Sexual Energy?

Manisha Thakor&nbsp;has worked in financial services for more than thirty years, with an emphasis on women’s economic empowerment and financial wellbeing. A nationally recognized thought-leader in this space, Thakor has been featured in a wide range of publications including&nbsp;the Wall Street Journal,&nbsp;the New York Times,&nbsp;NPR, PBS, CNN, Real Simple, and Women’s Health. Prior to writing&nbsp;MoneyZen, Thakor co-authored two personal finance books for women in their twenties and thirties. Today her work focuses on helping people of all ages to balance financial health and emotional wealth. Thakor earned her MBA from Harvard Business School, her BA from Wellesley College and is both a Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) and a Certified Financial Planner (CFP). She splits her time between Portland, Oregon and rural Maine. Her website is&nbsp;.&nbsp;

CC: Become Emotionally Wealthy and Financially Healthy with Manisha Thakor

You'll never (or rarely) run again after listening to this insightful conversation about the tremendous benefits of walking and the consequences of running. &nbsp; Mark Sisson is widely regarded as the forefather of the Primal/Paleo lifestyle movement with a string of bestselling books (The Primal Blueprint and The Keto Reset Diet), a #1-ranked ancestral lifestyle blog, and the Primal Health  Coach Institute. Mark is former 2:18 marathon runner and elite Hawaii Ironman triathlete. Known as an innovating entrepreneur, Mark founded the Primal Kitchen healthy condiments and Peluva five-toe minimalist shoe companies. &nbsp; You can pick up his new book here: &nbsp; &nbsp; And get a pair of Peluva shoes here:&nbsp;

CC: Born to Walk (not run!) with Mark Sisson

In this heartfelt and transformative episode, Christine Hassler coaches Aubrea, who opens up about facing significant life challenges all at once. Aubrea shares her journey of navigating a job loss, the end of a long-term relationship, fertility struggles, and the passing of her last grandparent—all within a short period. These events have left her feeling untethered and engulfed by grief and anger. Christine compassionately guides Aubrea through the concept of an "expectation hangover," exploring how life’s curveballs can be opportunities for deeper healing and growth. Together, they unpack the roots of Aubrea's prolonged anger, her relationship with it, and the role it plays in her journey toward self-discovery and emotional release. This coaching call is a powerful reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is potential for transformation. Christine provides practical tools and spiritual insights to help Aubrea—and listeners—embrace their pain, release limiting beliefs, and move toward a more empowered and aligned life. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you experiencing an expectation hangover—where things haven’t gone as planned, or life has hit you with a massive curveball? Are you holding onto anger or grief that feels overwhelming or unfamiliar? Do you struggle to find meaning or purpose during challenging times? Are you ready to explore the deeper healing opportunities hidden within your struggles?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  Life’s unexpected challenges often create space for deeper healing and alignment with our soul’s evolution. Anger and grief, when acknowledged and expressed, can be catalysts for transformation and emotional release. Subconscious patterns often draw us into experiences that mirror unresolved childhood wounds, offering an opportunity to heal and grow. Finding meaning in the midst of chaos can provide a sense of peace and direction, but it requires patience and self-compassion.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Allow yourself to fully feel your emotions, including anger and rage, without judgment or blame. Explore the role that childhood patterns or relationships may play in current struggles, while avoiding self-blame. Create a sense of certainty by focusing on small, grounding practices and routines in your daily life. Trust that even the most painful experiences have a purpose in your growth and evolution.  &nbsp; Special Invitation: March 2025 Retreat – From Wounds to Wisdom Join Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos for a life-changing retreat, From Wounds to Wisdom, taking place at the Art of Living Retreat Center from March 28–30, 2025. This immersive experience is designed to help you transform pain into power, gain clarity on your purpose, and step into your highest potential.  &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:   &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;   &nbsp; Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show!Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 485: Getting Over a Massive Expectation Hangover with Aubrea

Cathy Heller is a dynamic transformational coach, spiritual guide, meditation teacher, and inspirational speaker dedicated to helping individuals find ease, joy, and fulfillment in their lives. As the host of the Abundant Ever After podcast and author of&nbsp;Don’t Keep Your Day Job: How to Turn Your Passion into Your Career&nbsp;and&nbsp;Abundant Ever After, Cathy inspires her audience to pursue their dreams and live authentically. Cathy has transformed the lives of hundreds of thousands through her teachings. On her podcast, she has engaged in enlightening conversations with a diverse range of creative entrepreneurs, renowned blogger Seth Godin, actor Matthew McConaughey, spiritual teacher Deepak Chopra, author Marianne Williamson, and psychologist Dr. Edith Eger, among others. Cathy's passion lies in helping people find joy and meaning beyond material wealth, and she has transformed the lives of hundreds of thousands through her teachings. Her work encompasses meditation, Jewish mysticism, and career strategies, empowering individuals to expand their potential and make a positive impact on the world. Proud mother to three daughters and four Persian cats, Cathy embodies a beautiful balance of creativity, family, and purpose.

CC: What Abundance Really Means with Cathy Heller

Meet my coach, Kate Kripke.&nbsp; She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and a Perinatal Mental Health Counselor (PMH-C) based in Colorado. For over two decades, she's assisted mothers navigating transitional phases in their lives. She founded the Postpartum Wellness Center of Boulder in 2007, which is now known as the Parent and Family Wellness Center. Until recently when she passed directorship along to its new owners, she acted as its Founding Director and Senior Psychotherapist.  Kate offers maternal mental health and wellness support to women both nationally and internationally through coaching and consultancy. Her aim is to empower women to feel confident, well-supported, and reassured about both their own and their children's well-being so they can raise healthy children while also serving their communities outside of motherhood. Kate guides women in creating healthy and secure relationships with themselves, their children, and their work.

CC: Maternal Mental Health with Kate Kripke

In this week’s coaching session, Christine Hassler works with Yasmin, who is struggling with self-doubt when it comes to making life decisions. She questions whether she made the right choice in ending a long-term relationship and in reducing her work hours to pursue her art business. Christine helps her recognize patterns of over-personalization, self-blame, and the need for external validation, guiding her toward self-trust and clarity. This episode isn’t just about relationships or career—it’s about learning to trust yourself and your decisions. Christine provides Yasmin with tangible ways to move forward with confidence, helping her step out of regret and into alignment with her true desires. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Do you often doubt your choices and later regret them? Are you afraid that the things you truly want won’t happen? Do you constantly search for external validation before feeling secure in a decision? Are you stuck between moving forward and holding onto the past? Do you make choices based on what feels familiar rather than what’s truly aligned?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  Self-trust is essential—without it, fear and doubt take over, making decisions more difficult. Over-personalizing situations, such as a partner’s actions after a breakup, can create unnecessary emotional weight. When we regret past choices, we often idealize the past and forget why we made those decisions in the first place. Healing and growth require stepping into new territory instead of clinging to familiar patterns. Success in career or relationships comes from embodying confidence, not waiting for external proof.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Identify your inner dialogue and challenge the stories you tell yourself about regret and self-worth. Shift from fear-based decision-making to trust-based choices by recognizing what aligns with your long-term vision. Take action despite uncertainty—trust that the right opportunities will emerge when you fully commit. Engage in daily practices that reinforce confidence, such as journaling about past decisions and affirming your own wisdom. Stop looking for guarantees—life doesn’t provide them, but trust and discernment can guide you to the best outcome.  &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:  &nbsp;       Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 489: How to Trust Your Choices with Yasmin

Today on CC we talk about something that completely shifted my perspective on health and fitness. For years, we’ve been told that the goal is to lose weight—shrink down, take up less space. But the truth is, focusing on the scale might be the biggest mistake when it comes to long-term health and strength. What really matters isn’t weight—it’s&nbsp;body composition. It’s about having more muscle and less excess fat because that’s what keeps you strong, energized, and capable as you age. My friend Holly Perkins has been helping women transform their bodies and health for 30 years, and she’s hosting a free three-day workshop called&nbsp;Mastering Your Body Composition. It’s all about shifting the focus from weight loss to building the kind of body that supports you for life. If you’ve been frustrated with the usual fitness advice and want real, lasting results, I highly recommend this. The workshop starts on March 6th, and it’s free to join. You can grab your spot at&nbsp;

CC: What Matters MOST When It Comes to Weight with Holly Perkins

This coaching call is about feeling out of control when being in control is how we have compensated for not getting what we needed as children. Today’s caller, Cato, is pregnant and her lack of control is creating panic. She asks Christine for guidance on how to be okay with the changes in her life and her fear of feeling insignificant. &nbsp; As children, we need to belong. We need love. And we need to feel safe. So, whatever we need to do and whoever we need to become to get those things, we do. The need for significance comes from not feeling enough as a child, not feeling significant just for who we are. So as an adult, we are constantly looking for people to see us, love us, and tell us how wonderful we are because that need was not fulfilled in childhood. Either we weren’t told we were good or we only were told we were good when we did something “good.” &nbsp; Something important for people to talk about is that — Yes, having a baby is blissful and magical AND it can be really hard at times. There are times when the hard times are more than the amazing times and that’s okay. It is an identity death like no other and there’s no way around that. &nbsp; The more we resist it and try to hang on to who we were or to keep that version of us, the more we are going to bump up against resistance. Because when we get pregnant and when we give birth, the old version of us dies and the maiden becomes the mother. We have to find our new identity at the same time that we are learning to care for another human being. It’s a lot. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Do you like control? Does it make you feel calm and safe? Do you consider yourself a capable, on-top-of-it person but something has completely thrown you off your game? Do you fear not being relevant or not being significant? Do you know how to receive, or do you believe that you must do to receive and be relevant?  &nbsp; Cato’s Question: Cato fears that her pregnancy will make her irrelevant and insignificant. She is asking for guidance on how to be okay with herself and what is happening. &nbsp; Cato’s Key Insights and Ahas:  She is excited about her pregnancy. Her pregnancy is forcing her to slow down. She signed up for . Her pregnancy is bringing up depression and feelings of a lack of control. She is experiencing intense emotions and is unsure of herself for the first time. She realizes she has been using control to create safety. She fears slowing down and not being relevant or significant. Her inner child carries sadness and anger toward her father. She is unsure if she is worthy of raising her child. She is embodying receptivity. She feels closer to her womb and her heart. She has always kept busy to distract herself from her feelings. When she slows down, she feels restless. She finds purpose and meaning in her work.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It and On With It:  Welcome the new feelings she is having. Listen to this episode when it airs. Embody what it feels like to be in her feminine. Be curious about her restlessness. Savor her pregnancy.  &nbsp; Resources:  — Take a Coaching Assessment

EP 490: How To Let Go of Control When You Really Like Control with Cato

In this episode Christine dives into how the belonging wound happens&nbsp;and why it feels so big and hard to overcome. If you ever feel alone, left out, not included, or separate, this episode&nbsp;is for you. Learn&nbsp;how you can work with this wound and start creating the connections that you want and need.&nbsp;

CC: The Belonging Wound (Stop Feeling So Alone!)

EP 194: Use Your Voice and Speak Your Truth with Amber

In this week’s episode, Christine Hassler revisits the very first episode of Over It and On With It, taking us back to where it all began. As we move through a new moon in Pisces, a time of fresh starts, Christine invites us to reflect on our own new beginnings. She shares her journey of launching this podcast despite doubts and external discouragement, offering a powerful reminder to trust our intuition—even when things don’t make sense on the surface. Whether you're embarking on something new, re-evaluating your values during this Venus retrograde, or simply looking for inspiration to take that next step, this episode will remind you of the courage it takes to begin again. Christine also reflects on the deeper process of reprogramming our beliefs, navigating fear, and aligning with our truth. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you on the brink of a fresh start but feeling hesitant? Have you ever ignored your intuition because of fear or external doubts? Do you struggle with letting go of old expectations in order to create something new? Are you craving more clarity about what truly matters to you?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  New beginnings often come with doubt, but trusting yourself is key. External discouragement doesn’t mean your idea isn’t valid—it just means it’s different. Reprogramming your mindset can be challenging, but it’s necessary for transformation. True alignment happens when we clear out fear-based decisions and follow what feels right. Growth isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about taking the next step in faith.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Reflect on where you’re being called to start fresh, even if it doesn’t make perfect sense. Identify areas where fear or external opinions are holding you back. Give yourself permission to re-evaluate your values and what truly drives you. Embrace the discomfort of growth—sometimes the hardest part is just taking that first step. Surround yourself with supportive voices that remind you of your power and potential.  &nbsp; &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:         Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 491: New Beginnings & Back to Basics

Steven Kessler has been a licensed psychotherapist, studying many different healing modalities and maps of personality, including Character Structure, the Enneagram, NLP, energy work, Thought Field Therapy, and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). He is a certified EFT Expert &amp; Trainer. Steven has also spent many years studying the evolution of human consciousness. His bestselling book, The 5 Personality Patterns, deepens the insights of character structure and, for the first time, presents its map of the human personality to the general public. Many people claim that reading it has been a life-changing experience, which has enabled them to finally understand both themselves and others. On this podcast we talk about his newest book, How to Have Better Relationships, which teaches the skills you need and actions to take to connect better with others based on the 5 personality patterns. You can access Steven's first interview where we dive deeper into the 5 personality patterns:&nbsp; and his books and courses:&nbsp;

CC: The KEY to Healthy and Fulfilling Relationships

In this insightful coaching session, Christine Hassler helps Venus navigate deep emotional wounds related to past relationships. Venus struggles with feelings of being replaced and not being chosen, which stem from childhood neglect, abuse, and enmeshment. She finds herself caught in patterns of comparison and pain over an ex possibly moving on with someone else. Together, Christine and Venus unpack these core wounds, working toward reclaiming empowerment, self-worth, and emotional sovereignty. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt stuck in the past, struggled with self-worth after a breakup, or wants to heal old relationship wounds at the root level. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you still emotionally attached to an ex, even though you know you were incompatible? Do you struggle with feelings of being replaced or not chosen? Have childhood wounds influenced your relationships, making love feel like dependency or codependency? Are you trying to “pray away” pain instead of working through it? How can you shift from a fear-based desire for validation to true self-empowerment?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  The pain of feeling replaced often stems from deeper childhood wounds of neglect or not being chosen. Healing is a process that requires presence, patience, and self-compassion—there’s no quick fix. Breaking patterns of comparison and self-judgment is crucial for self-empowerment. Taking up space, moving energy through the body, and developing personal sovereignty help break cycles of emotional pain. The shift from being disempowered to reclaiming choice is the core of deep healing.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Recognize disempowering thought patterns and actively redirect them. Use empowering language—instead of asking, “Why did this happen to me?” reframe it as, “What am I choosing at this moment?” Engage in movement and expression—dance, sing, walk, or scream into a pillow to release stored emotional energy. Practice self-acknowledgement—celebrate progress rather than focusing on how far you still need to go. Trust the process—deep healing doesn’t happen overnight, but consistent efforts make a lasting impact.  &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:         Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 492: How to Heal Old Wounds With Exes, With Venus

In this deeply personal and transformative episode, Christine Hassler coaches Sara through the difficult journey of self-forgiveness. Many of us have experienced the weight of regret—dwelling on decisions we wish we had made differently and struggling to let go of the past. This episode offers a path toward healing, self-acceptance, and true forgiveness. Christine helps Sara navigate the emotions of guilt, self-judgment, and the pressure to "fix" herself, while also uncovering the deeper wounds that have shaped her self-worth. Together, they explore the impact of childhood conditioning, the importance of self-compassion, and how to break free from patterns of self-criticism. This coaching session is a powerful reminder that we are not defined by our mistakes and that true self-love means embracing all parts of ourselves—even the ones we struggle to accept. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you holding onto self-judgment for something you’ve done? Do you find it easier to forgive others than to forgive yourself? Have you ever attached your self-worth to external validation, such as your appearance or achievements? Are you ready to let go of shame, guilt, and regret, and embrace self-compassion instead?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  Many of the “mistakes” we regret are actually opportunities for growth. Forgiveness is not about condoning what happened, but about freeing yourself from self-punishment. Our childhood experiences shape our self-image—but we have the power to rewrite our story. True healing begins with self-compassion, not self-criticism. We can learn to see ourselves beyond the surface and appreciate our true, authentic essence.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Reframe your perception—instead of seeing your actions as "mistakes," view them as learning experiences. Practice self-mothering—speak to yourself with the same love and gentleness you would offer a child. Challenge self-judgment—when you hear your inner critic, ask, “Would I say this to a friend?” Shift your focus from past regret to future growth—each day is a chance to choose self-compassion.  &nbsp; Special Thanks to Our Sponsor: Enviro Air &amp; Water If you live in the Greater Austin or San Antonio area, you deserve clean, high-quality water for your home and business. That’s why I’m excited to share Enviro Air &amp; Water—a family-owned company with over 30 years of experience in whole-house filtration and reverse osmosis systems. I personally love my system, and I’ve noticed a huge difference in my skin, hair, and overall health. Unlike big companies that lock you into proprietary equipment, Enviro Air &amp; Water customizes the perfect system for your needs—whether it’s alkaline filtration, softening, or refinement options. They’ve done installations for Starbucks, Whole Foods, and many other businesses, ensuring top-tier commercial and residential solutions. Mention this podcast to receive 15% off your system! Call Casey directly at 210-823-4499. Visit  to learn more! &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:         Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 493: How To Forgive Yourself for a Mistake with Sara

With the recent eclipse, equinox, planets in retrograde and schumann resonance activity, a lot of us are feeling&nbsp;pretty crappy! In this episode I share some tips for staying grounded and nourishing yourself during this time.

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In this honest and empowering coaching session, Christine works with Elena, who is navigating the emotional aftermath of ending a seven-year relationship. Although the breakup initially seemed mutual, deeper fears have surfaced—particularly around abandonment, self-worth, and what it means to be alone. Christine helps Elena explore the deeper roots of these fears, which stem from unresolved childhood trauma and modeled behavior from her mother. This episode addresses why we often stay in relationships that aren't healthy, the difference between true forgiveness and repression, and how to break free from generational patterns. Through this conversation, listeners will learn how to embrace solitude, process anger in a healthy way, and find strength in standing firm in their boundaries. If you’ve ever questioned whether you were too hard on someone, or feared walking away even when you knew it was the right choice, this episode is for you. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Have you ever stayed in a relationship because you were afraid of being alone? Do you struggle with repeating family or generational patterns in your relationships? Are you confusing forgiveness with repression? Do you feel like you're settling for less than you deserve because it feels safer than the unknown?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  Being alone in a relationship can feel lonelier than being on your own. Anger, when unexpressed, can turn into anxiety or self-betrayal. Repeating generational patterns is common, but with awareness and action, they can be broken. True healing requires both reparenting yourself and creating new internal belief systems. Boundaries are an act of self-love and are essential to change long-standing relational habits.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Embrace solitude as a form of strength, not weakness. Practice anger release through safe outlets such as movement or journaling. Acknowledge generational influences without letting them define your future. Reframe thoughts that tempt you to return to unhealthy dynamics. Ask yourself, “Is this my voice, or my programming?” Visualize the kind of parent, partner, or person you want to be, and make choices in alignment with that vision.  &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:     &nbsp;    Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 494: When Your Fear of Being Alone Keeps You in Unhealthy Relationships with Elena

In this inspiring and heartfelt coaching session, Christine works with Sarah, who is navigating life after the dissolution of a 20-year marriage. While Sarah has processed much of her grief and feels more grounded, she finds herself in an in-between space—caught between who she was in the relationship and the new version of herself that she is becoming. Christine helps Sarah explore the deeper roots of her feelings of being held back, which stem from earlier life experiences where she felt disempowered. Through their conversation, they discuss the challenges of moving forward when parts of your old life still linger, and how to embrace your growth without slipping back into past patterns. Listeners will learn how to acknowledge and honor their own progress, release the need to please others, and fully step into their new life. This episode encourages listeners to choose themselves, embrace their own story, and trust that moving forward—while uncomfortable at times—is worth it. &nbsp; Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you feeling stuck between your past and your future? Do you tend to hold back because you fear upsetting others? Are you fully acknowledging your own progress, or are you still telling yourself an old story? Can you trust that your choices, even if they come with loss, are the best ones for your growth?  &nbsp; Key Insights and A-HAs:  Holding back can feel familiar, but it doesn’t serve your growth. Grief can come in waves, even after you think you’ve moved on. Choosing yourself may mean letting go of old relationships, and that’s okay. You don’t have to wait for external validation to step into your new story. Acknowledging your growth is essential to moving forward.  &nbsp; How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Identify the ways you are holding back and consciously choose to move forward. Allow yourself to feel the grief of letting go without letting it hold you back. Practice trusting your choices and recognize your progress without minimizing it. Find your support network and let them remind you of your growth when self-doubt creeps in.  &nbsp; Social Media + Resources:         Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 495: Moving On and Trusting Yourself After a Long Relationship with Sarah

In this insightful coaching session, Christine works with Karin, who has repeatedly found herself in cycles of earning and losing money, leading to a persistent struggle and anxiety around finances. Karin shares her experiences of attempting various methods—from manifesting practices to lifestyle adjustments—to improve her financial stability, yet continually finds herself back in scarcity. Christine helps Karin uncover deep-seated generational patterns and subconscious beliefs around money that perpetuate this cycle. They discuss the nervous system’s role in financial stability and how chronic anxiety and fear can block abundance, even when consciously pursuing financial goals. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how past familial beliefs, generational trauma, and nervous system dysregulation can influence their current relationship with money. Christine provides tangible insights into shifting from scarcity and struggle toward a more grounded, regulated, and abundant state. Consider/Ask Yourself:  Do you notice patterns of gaining and losing money repeatedly in your life? Are you constantly anxious about your financial situation, even if things momentarily improve? Can you see any generational patterns in your family around money and struggle? Would you like to shift from feeling overwhelmed and fearful about money to feeling calm and abundant?  Key Insights and A-HAs:  Financial stability is closely tied to nervous system regulation. Generational patterns deeply impact our subconscious relationship with money. Fear and anxiety about money can create blocks to consistent financial abundance. It's essential to consciously decide to break cycles of financial struggle. Cultivating a regulated nervous system can significantly shift your relationship with money.  How to Get Over It &amp; On With It:  Identify and acknowledge your underlying fears and anxieties around money. Work actively to regulate your nervous system before engaging in financial tasks or conversations. Clearly define your financial desires without minimizing or compromising. Decide consciously to break generational patterns of financial struggle and scarcity. Practice daily habits that reinforce a regulated nervous system state, promoting calm and abundance.  Social Media + Resources:  &nbsp;       Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

EP 496: Healing Your Relationship with Money with Karin

As an entrepreneur, bestselling author, and mother, Kate Northrup’s goal is to support people to light up the world without burning themselves out. Kate believes that when folks heal their relationships with money they can step into their true power to feel the way they want to feel, live the way they want to live, and have a positive impact on the world.  Through her own journey of breaking her unhealthy relationship with money by healing her nervous system, she unlocked a methodology that has helped thousands of women do the same through her top-rated podcast, Plenty, and programs. &nbsp; You can access her FREE 3-day workshop "Good with Money" at

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EP 497: How to Stop Pushing Intimacay Away with Darletha

Nicole J. Sachs, LCSW, is a speaker, writer, psychotherapist, retreat leader, and podcaster who has dedicated her work and her practice to the treatment of chronic pain and anxiety. She is the author of&nbsp;the books&nbsp;MIND YOUR BODY&nbsp;(Penguin/Random House 2/25) and&nbsp;The Meaning of Truth&nbsp;&nbsp;(2016)&nbsp;and creator of the online courses “Freedom from Chronic Pain,” “Freedom From an Anxious Life,” and “The Sarno x Sachs Solution” practitioner training. Her brands, BreakAwake and The Cure for Chronic Pain, include a website, podcast, YouTube channel, membership community, and newsletter. Sachs is on faculty at the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies in New York. Learn more about Nicole's work at:

CC: The Cure for Chronic Pain Is Not What You Think with Nicole Sachs

This week Christine shares about her experience at Dr. Joe Dispenza's week-long advanced retreat - learn a little about who Dr. Joe is, what he teaches, and how to move through resistance when you are breaking out of your comfort zone.&nbsp; Christine also announces more about the retreat she is teaching in September:

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If you listen to this show, you are most likely an older soul and you are going to love this episode with Ainslie MacLeod. He is an internationally acclaimed past-life psychic, spiritual teacher, and award-winning author of The Instruction, The Transformation, and most recently, The Old Soul’s Guidebook. Ainslie specializes in exploring past lives to reveal your life’s purpose and has been a featured guest on Oprah’s SuperSoul Conversations Series. He lives on a tranquil island in the Pacific Northwest. &nbsp; Learn more about Ainslie, sign up for his membership community, and take your soul type quiz at:&nbsp;

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Christine Hassler is an author, life coach and speaker who is known for inspiring radical self-reflection with practical direction. Christine is the author of two best selling books and is currently working on her third entitled: "Expectation Hangovers®  - How to Leverage Disappointment.” She’s appeared on: The Today Show, CNN, ABC, CBS, FOX, E!, Style, and The New York Times.  Christine is a spokesperson for American Express Millennial Advocacy Program and serves on the faculty at the University of Santa Monica teaching programs in Spiritual Psychology.

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