Do you believe being single is a bad thing? Or that it’s a problem that needs to be resolved as quickly as possible?&nbsp; &nbsp; I hope your reflexive answer to these questions is “absolutely not!” But, even if you’re not aware of it, you may have echoes of these cultural attitudes boomeranging around your brain, and they can make it hard for you to feel fulfilled and happy outside of a committed relationship.&nbsp; &nbsp; Now, don’t get me wrong — I think loving relationships are absolutely fabulous. In fact, I’ve devoted my life to helping people create and maintain healthy relationships through services like counseling, dating coaching, and more.&nbsp; &nbsp; But I also know that there are many people who are searching for a partner while living with a deep anxiety about their status as a single person. Many single people tell me they’re kept up at night by worries about the possibility of never finding love. Ironically, this kind of desperation can undermine your chances of building the kind of life that would make you authentically happy —&nbsp;and that would invite healthy love into your life in a sustainable way.&nbsp; &nbsp; If you are single and worried about never finding a partner, I hope this episode of the podcast helps you find greater meaning and happiness. My guest is John Kim, a marriage and family therapist and the author of “Single on Purpose: Redefine Everything, Find Yourself First.” He’s sharing tips on , while also making room for real love in your life. You won’t want to miss this conversation! &nbsp; With love,&nbsp; &nbsp; Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby growingself.com

How to Be Single and Happy

Are you tired of all the drama that surrounds money conversations in your relationship? This is an issue that so many couples deal with. Money is a highly emotional topic, and it can be very triggering, especially when we don't feel respected or understood.&nbsp; It takes a high degree of empathy and intention to communicate about a hot-button topic like money and create a financial plan with your partner that both of you can feel good about. But that is a key to long-term success and satisfaction in your relationship.&nbsp; On today's episode, I'm going to tell you , so you and your partner can get on the same page and grow together in both money and love. Tune in to learn about:&nbsp;  01:30 The Root Cause of Money Fights in Relationships 03:26 Money as a Symbol of Deeper Problems 04:47 The Emotional Significance of Money 07:39 Respecting Differences Around Money 08:05 The Limitations of Standard Advice 12:50 The Rider and the Elephant Metaphor 16:33 The Structured Process of Financial Counseling 18:39 Unpacking the History and Family Culture Around Money 19:37 Understanding the Value Systems Attached to Money 24:22 Creating a Shared Vision for Managing Finances 26:44 Talking About Finances Productively  And more! I hope you'll join me, and that you'll find this episode helpful.&nbsp; xoxo,&nbsp; Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby&nbsp; P.S. — If you'd like support from an expert couples counselor specializing in financial counseling for couples, .&nbsp; &nbsp;

#402 - How to Talk to Your Partner About Money, Without Fighting!

How do you have a ? It's possible, and in fact, going through the process of healing your relationship together together can bring you closer in unexpected ways.&nbsp; But the road to recovery is not an easy one, especially when it comes to sex. Many couples struggle to heal, reconnect, and feel safe again after feeling violated by an affair. But there is a path to repair — for your relationship and your sex life — and that's what we're talking about on today's episode.&nbsp; Tune in to learn about:&nbsp;  04:32  The Mental and Emotional Well-being of the Injured Party 06:00  Moving Through a Structured Healing Process 07:51  Stages of Sex After Infidelity 12:34  Managing Trauma Triggers During Sexual Encounters 19:16  The Desire for Detailed Sexual Information 29:45  Positive Growth and Conversations About Sexuality 34:37  Educating Yourself and Making Informed Decisions  And more. If you are struggling with sex after infidelity, I hope this episode gives you hope and direction. You deserve it.&nbsp; &nbsp; xoxo,&nbsp; &nbsp; Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby&nbsp; &nbsp; P.S. — Want support with healing from infidelity? Schedule a free consultation: &nbsp;

#403 - Sex After Infidelity

Will you be single forever? If you've been dating for a while and struggling to find your person, then I'll bet this thought has crossed your mind at some point. Maybe it's something you think about a lot.&nbsp; And the prospect of  can be scary! We all crave deep connection and true, enduring love. The possiblity of never finding the relationship we desire is daunting, especially if your dating experiences have been grinding you down. But facing the fear of being alone may just be the key to not only loving your life as a single person, but also dating successfully.&nbsp; On this episode, we're talking about the fear of being single, how it holds you back, and how you can stop feeling afraid and choose to love your life — no matter what.&nbsp; Tune in to learn:&nbsp;  03:11  Understanding the Fear 05:28  Working on Healthy Relationships 06:28  Impact of Fear on Relationships 09:17  Impact on Mental and Emotional Wellbeing 10:43  Behaviors Driven by Fear 13:31  Overcoming the Fear 14:01  Making Peace with Being Single 15:02  Shifting Mindset 16:00  Growth Mindset and Personal Development 17:24  Identifying Obstacles and Making Changes 22:36  Challenging Core Beliefs 25:01  Developing Meaningful Connections 27:46  Finding Fulfillment in Other Areas of Life 29:34  Building a Fulfilling Life 31:22  How Authenticity Makes You Attractive  All of that and more on this episode for you. I hope you'll join me! &nbsp; xoxo,&nbsp; &nbsp; Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby&nbsp; &nbsp; P.S. — Ready to stop spinning your wheels and start dating with intention? Schedule a free consultation: &nbsp; &nbsp;

#403 - Overcoming the Fear of Being 'Single Forever'

Have you been thinking about  It's completely natural to wonder if getting back together with an ex is a mistake, or if it might be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter in your relationship. In this episode, I'm here to offer you the clarity you need. We'll walk through FOUR ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS that you must ask yourself and your ex before getting back together.  These questions are designed to help you understand whether giving your relationship another chance is the right move. Doing this introspective work will either set you up for a successful reunion or save you from investing time and energy into a relationship that may not have a future. So, make yourself a cup of tea, grab your journal, and let's dive deep into these pivotal questions together. By the end of this episode, you'll feel empowered and equipped with the insights needed to make the best decision for your heart and your future. Let's get started! 🌟 xoxo,&nbsp;   P.S. Let's talk! Every week on Thursdays at 12pm MT / 2pm ET I'm hosting a live stream on Monday's podcast topic to answer YOUR questions. If you're wrestling with this "should we get back together or not" dilemma, I hope you join me!! Submit your question in advance here:&nbsp;, and then tune in on the socials: Instagram, YouTube or Facebook. See you Thursday! P.P.S. In the meantime, take advantage of the free resources I mentioned on today's show including tons of insightful articles and a curated podcast playlist all about how to get "relationship clarity." They're all for you!  &nbsp;

406: Is it a mistake to get back together with an ex?

Have you ever listened to an episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast and thought, "I wish I could talk to Dr. Lisa about this"? Now you can! When: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time) Where: Live on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook Each week, after dropping a new podcast episode on Monday, I'll host a live stream on Thursday to discuss that week's topic, answer your questions, and give you personalized advice. How to Participate:  Live: Tune in on any of my social channels: , , . Submit Questions in Advance: Visit  to ask questions ahead of time and get a reminder before the live stream starts. Recap: If you can't make it live, sign up through the link to receive a recap video via email.  I love making the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast for you, but live streaming adds a special touch by allowing me to interact with you directly. I can't wait to chat about your life and your unique situation. Mark Your Calendar: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time). See you there! xoxo,&nbsp;

How to Be Single and Happy

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