The higher your meet-to-lay ratio, the more of the women you meet end up in bed.

What’s it take to RAISE your meet-to-lay ratio though… how do you get really, really good?

In this webinar, we discuss the mechanics of good game with the most technically skilled pick up artist in the field today, Alek Rolstad. Alek has bedded hundreds of women across Europe and beyond with his patented Sex Talk Method and irresistibly seductive Sexual Prizing. He breaks down how he does it inside.

As you listen, you’ll discover:

•	How lockdowns in Europe have affected Alek’s game (01:19)
•	How Alek’s bounced back quickly from lockdowns and laid new girls right away each time lockdowns are lifted (02:33)
•	Why do most guys who cold approach women have to deal with so much rejection? (04:53)
•	When girls reject guys they actually like (07:26)
•	On guys being either TOO sexual with women… or not nearly sexual ENOUGH (08:57)
•	The need for efficiency AND consistency in your sexual approach toward women (12:45)
•	Doing sex talk PROPERLY and avoiding the “sex talk didn’t turn her on” problem (14:04)
•	How long does it take Alek’s students to get SMOOTH using sex talk? (15:56)
•	Alek’s story: how he became one of the most prominent & skilled seducers in the world (19:07)
•	Alek’s one regret after 16 years in the game (22:20)
•	What stays fresh and exciting in a pickup even after many years picking up new girls (24:13)
•	Most guys stop picking up after a while to have girlfriends, start families, and so on. What’s kept Alek at seduction for so long? (25:01)
•	What is meet-to-lay ratio? How has Alek’s changed over the years? What does he see happen with his students’ meet-to-lay ratios over time? (26:29)
•	Sex Talk Rule #2: Be dirty, but not too much. How can beginners gauge how much is too little or too much? (29:37)
•	Sex Talk Rule #7: Leave a girl wanting more (more sex talk, that is). How do you do this? (32:30)
•	What a Seduction Gambit is, and exactly why it’s so important students get used to using them (35:53)
•	The “secret sauce” behind Alek’s ability to weave new, powerful sex talk gambits that ENAMOR women (39:16)
•	Sexual Prizing: what it is and just HOW it works to get women CHASING you for sex (42:33)
•	What women DO once you’re sexually prized; how to recognize a girl is now chasing you to hook up (45:39)
•	Alek discusses some of the RESULTS students of his have achieved in the past (49:38)
•	“Perverted Purity” Gambit: a brand new fused sex talk gambit (55:17)
•	What Alek has students focus on (beyond just the words) when teaching them sex talk gambits (59:45)
•	Alek’s “BSL” method for getting girls HOOKED into conversation with you (62:23)
•	Why students so often NEGLECT the very crucial pickup step of Locking In (66:29)
•	Alek lays out what types of students would NOT be qualified for coaching with him (67:32)
•	Alek’s ideal student: the kind of student who will get the most out of training with Alek (70:02)
•	A summary of everything students get when coaching with Alek (73:34)

To sign up for a free 10-minute discovery call for coaching with Alek Rolstad, please visit:

https://www.girlschase.com/coaching/phone/alek

Date Coach Series: Alek Rolstad

Chase Amante talks monogamy, moving faster, what women want, and much more.

Selected topics of conversation…

• What do women want with men?
• What is “moving faster”, and what if you don’t?
• How do you become a great conversationalist?
• How important are fundamentals, and what are they?
• Guys often don’t want to cold approach. Why is this important?
• Monogamy and relationships: when to stay single vs. when not

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-1-chase-amante

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1: Chase Amante | Moving Faster with Women

Michael Chief joins Girls Chase founder Chase Amante in this interview following Mike’s return to seduction. In the interview, we discuss:

	•	How Mike got his start in seduction (Mike found seduction as a teenager in 2003)
	•	What his experience picking up women as a short, introverted, Asian man has been
	•	Observations on introvert vs. extrovert styles of approaching & game
	•	Mike’s experiences as a coach and what he’s observed in different clients
	•	The secret to cold approaching girls without making it feel like an “approach”
	•	Ways Mike uses his position in the seduction community to intrigue & bed women
	•	Mike’s exploration of feminism & feminist theory and how it’s made him a better seducer
	•	How discussing consent makes women feel safer (& more open to fast hookups)
	•	The importance of leadership (plus how Mike sets himself up to lead)
	•	Mike’s experience with the polyamory community & how it affects his pickups

Lastly, Mike discusses his new book, Never Lonely: The Uncensored Guide on How to Attract and Be Loved by Women. You can learn more about the book and pick up your copy here:

https://www.amazon.com/Never-Lonely-Uncensored-Guide-Attract/dp/B0CTG9CX1Z/ref=nosim?tag=girlschasecom-20

View the transcript for this interview here:

https://www.girlschase.com/article/michael-chief-getting-lots-love-women

28: Michael Chief | Dating When Asian, Introverted, & Short

Listen as Girls Chase founder Chase Amante interviews May 2024’s Skilled Seducer of the Month, Kvothe. Included in this conversation:

•	Introduction to Kvothe (00:01:00)
•	Why it took Kvothe 5 years to finally jump into seduction (00:02:28)
•	How Kvothe feels looking back about his early-on approach anxiety (00:06:02)
•	Direct vs. indirect opening styles (00:10:20)
•	Making things feel natural rather than showcasing the process (00:13:02)
•	The difference between ‘magic-feeling approaches’ vs. ordinary ones (00:15:55)
•	Kvothe’s experience having fits and starts beginning with seduction (00:22:45)
•	Guys being amazed seeing you approaching hot girls even if it bombs (00:27:35)
•	Building preselection via harmless conversations with hot girls (00:29:32)
•	Falling asleep after a late night out (00:32:34)
•	Kvothe’s 2nd return to seduction; coaching with Alek Rolstad; laying girls in Miami (00:33:52)
•	Kvothe’s 3rd return to seduction; coaching with Hector Castillo; laying more girls in Miami (00:41:58)
•	Alek Rolstad & Hector Castillo: very different styles yet gentlemanly courtesy; Chase’s article breaking down Hector’s game (00:48:36)
•	Kvothe’s experience picking up girls in different cities: NYC, Miami, Barcelona, Madrid (00:50:24)
•	How Kvothe connected with his wingmen & friends Devilicious and Skippy (00:57:57)
•	Kvothe’s approach to selecting new elements to add to his seduction toolbox (01:02:55)
•	Focusing on eliciting interesting things from women vs. being interesting yourself (01:09:17)
•	Kvothe talks about recent obstacles he’s had calibrating sex talk – and what the likely causes and solutions are (01:11:28)
•	When kissing girls on dates and pickups helps you get laid vs. when it hurts your chances (01:15:39)
•	Girls relaxing or removing clothing items in public as a sign of comfort (01:21:46)
•	What’s next for Kvothe (01:26:19)

Listen on Girls Chase and find links to Kvothe’s reports & more here:

https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-may-2024-kvothe

29: Skilled Seducer of the Month, May 2024: Kvothe

Chase Amante interviews Skilled Seducer James D, a long-time Girls Chase reader who's enjoyed copious seduction success with girls he met in college, at bars, and most recently through day game. The two talk vibe, overcoming sticking points, and recognizing (and capitalizing on) DTF girls during the day.

•	Introduction: James D’s teenage successes experimenting with Girls Chase material (sexy smile, sexy walk, conversation tips)
•	What James D’s vibe is like now (05:33)
•	How James D got his start in the game: high school + uni (07:55)
•	“Out of the dorms, I was a nobody” – James D learns night game (10:31)
•	James D transitions from night game to day game (12:16)
•	Hitting on girls as the “well-dressed fat guy” (15:59)
•	More on James’s experience with the 4 approaches per day challenge (17:02)
•	What James’s game looks like currently: authority frame approaching (18:08)
•	James’s first day game cold approach lay: Physicist Touches the Seventh Sky (24:25)
•	James talks about the “best article ever written on game”: the Floors and Ceilings Method (26:43)
•	James’s next lay report: “Bridge to Bed” in a love motel (29:15)
•	How James overcame some sticking points to break a dry spell (31:53)
•	What James’s experience has been like using Alek Rolstad’s sex talk with girls (33:15)
•	On how sex talk is not just for night game (36:38)
•	James’s relationship with a “young Monica Belluci lookalike” (37:17)
•	James discusses an infamous lay report and spotting/acting on same-day lay opportunities (38:37)
•	James discusses his recent dry spell and how he broke it (42:04)
•	Experimenting with telling women you’re in a relationship (45:13)
•	What’s in the future for James, romance-wise (46:35)

Listen on Girls Chase and find links to James D's reports & more here:

https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-january-2025-james-d

30: Skilled Seducer of the Month, January 2025: James D

This month, Chase Amante interviews Skills, the natural turned pickup artist and a long-time pillar of the modern seduction community. Listen as Skills discusses how he developed his game, overcame language barriers, and made his home in seduction.

•	00:00:58: how Skills learned to seduce
•	00:11:23: Skill’s struggle with becoming ‘anti-game’ after club attendance fell
•	00:13:57: when Skills started using seduction gambits – then lays became TOO predictable
•	00:17:03: how Skills recovered from his disappointment after routine game killed the fun
•	00:19:07: picking up Generation Z girls – differences, auto-rejection
•	00:24:02: how Skills got involved in the seduction community and met Alek and Jeff
•	00:29:52: Skills talks humor: uses & misuses in seduction
•	00:34:18: one big mistake many PUAs make with humor
•	00:35:23: naturals’ tendency to be dismissive of unfamiliar techniques
•	00:41:54: the importance of subcommunication to game
•	00:44:34: how to use openers to evaluate girls (then calibrate)
•	00:46:37: Skills on neo-direct (‘no game’ approaches) vs. direct
•	00:48:52: the importance of building relationships with venue staff + how to do
•	00:58:03: naturals with Madonna-whore complex
•	01:04:25: monogamy guys vs. hardcore polyamory guys
•	01:10:18: singing as an attractive honest signal to girls
•	01:14:21: Skills’s ‘competition’ frames for getting with girls
•	01:19:57: Skills’s custom adaptation of Alek Rolstad’s sex talk routines
•	01:27:28: Skills’s approach to building plausible deniability for the pull to his place: “My dog has to like you.”
•	01:28:16: how Skills popularized Alek Rolstad’s 8 Types of Orgasm routine
•	01:31:03: more on Skills’s archetype frame: “being with a Latin guy”
•	01:31:51: how sex talk squares the circle of Gunwitch’s Three Keys
•	01:34:17: the weakness of direct sexual game vs. sex talk seduction
•	01:39:36: “the game is played with the yellows”
•	01:46:14: how changing conditions have made it harder for new guys to get into seduction
•	01:49:33: Skills explains his Autobiography Technique
•	01:53:48: quirks of dealing with Generation Z: comfort, skittishness, sexy yet conservative
•	01:58:30: looksmaxxers at the club, standing around getting no women
•	02:06:33: how the looksmax movement began: an offshoot of the seduction community
•	02:11:46: ways the mentalities of incels/black pill/red pill men prevent them from success
•	02:16:08: why many guys don’t get second encounters with women they sleep with
•	02:17:25: how Skills developed his text flirtation method
•	02:20:43: Skills’s current approach to texting
•	02:24:58: soft vs. hard closes: what they are + how to use them
•	02:27:50: using callback references as a text opener
•	02:29:25: the importance of strong initial interactions to better texting later on
•	02:31:27: when to go for the soft close + how to deal with resistance while texting

Listen on Girls Chase and find links to Skills’s guides and materials here:

https://www.girlschase.com/article/skilled-seducer-month-march-2025-skills

Find Skills on the Skilled Seducer Forum:

https://www.skilledseducer.com/

Or on his website, The Skills Method:

https://www.theskillsmethod.com/

31: Skilled Seducer of the Month, March 2025: Skills

Gunwitch has been in the PUA community and a teacher since the days of MASF, The Game, Mystery, and Neil Strauss. His method, dubbed “Gunwitch Method,” is incredibly powerful, centered around the use of body-states to attract and arouse women.

Today, we’re going to cover the basics of Gunwitch’s Seduction MMA – how to use sub-communication with sexual arousal, emotional stimulation, and social frames to make girls work for you and chase after you.

HIGHLIGHTS

0:00 – Introduction to Gunwitch and Seduction MMA, and how he started on MASF.

02:40 – Early Gunwitch method and the importance of projecting a sexual state with women.

04:40 – Why sub-communicating that you’re a cool guy is more effective than verbals in game.

06:20 – How the amygdala is reversed in women, and why this makes women value a man’s behavior more than his looks.

08:00 – How ovulation and biological cycles affect female behavior.

09:20 – The three keys of Seduction MMA post hook: social frame, emotional stimulation, sexual arousal.

11:00 – Verbal and physical ways to project the three keys, and how women behave.

14:30 – Why it’s better to stimulate women, and how women value stimulation.

16:40 – Safety as a social frame for women, and how to project it/use it, including with Lyft and Uber.

18:15 – How Tinder hurts self-esteem.

18:50 – Gunwitch SECT method (Speak slowly and Sexually, Eye contact, Closeness, Touch). Use these to sub-communicate interest and create stimulation and sexual interest.

22:00 – The hook as the hardest part of game and socialization, and why the three keys work.

24:15 – Relationship transitions and dominance methods, and how women work for you (the strongest frame a man can implement).

27:00 – Gambits, and how they help men succeed in the game.
30:00 – “Do you know who you look like?” as an opener, and how it stimulates women… and how men prize themselves through sub-communication.

32:20 – Why it’s important to put oneself into a state rather than just doing things to project something you’re not.

34:20 – Calibration as essential to using the three keys correctly.

I hope you enjoyed this podcast with Gunwitch covering Seduction MMA. Stay tuned for the next episode of Dating Mechanics, where I interview a former stripper turned sexual health coach, and we discuss erectile dysfunction and what to do about it!

Listen online: http://www.girlschase.com/content/gunwitch-basics-seduction-mma-podcast

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23: Gunwitch | The Basics of Seduction MMA

Welcome back to another episode of Dating Mechanics! I’m Varoon Rajah, and today we explore a topic that frequently comes up on the Girls Chase boards – the question of dating your dream girl as a minority.

PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS
02:25 – Intro to the podcast with Franco and Amrit

03:20 – Franco talks about how guys complain on the boards about the minority issue, and never take the advice they’re given. The same questions are repeatedly asked, and the same advice is repeatedly given but ignored, reinforcing negativity.

04:30 – Introducing Amrit, and how Franco and Amrit met. Amrit talks about his background in India and San Diego, and how he didn’t have the American cultural experience.

06:15 – Differences in mindsets between America and India, and how it’s important to adapt to a new culture. Most guys that struggle don’t change their mindset. Amrit was able to get his desired girls without joining any social scenes.

07:15 – How Amrit approached, met, and dated his first hot girl in the United States. It turned into a four year relationship.

09:35 – We reiterate cultural adaptation to break through the mold, and we talk about keeping attractive parts of your native culture with attractive parts of the new culture. Amrit talks about how important family is to him, and how girls he dates always appreciate it.

11:10 – A lot of Indian guys see their family background as a negative thing, and resent it. Amrit does not, his family keeps him grounded. Family upbringing translates into excellent fundamentals.

13:30 – How Amrit views interracial dating and dating white American girls, and how he’s embraced both Indian and American cultures to make himself exotic. Your cultural background is your greatest asset and can make you an exotic gem.

15:30 – Guys on the boards imagine that only blond-haired, blue-eyed guys can date hot white girls; however, we share in our example that these same girls say they don’t like these guys.

16:20 – The importance of niching, and realizing the possibility of dating new kinds of women through experience and trial. It’s important to brand and package yourself as an exotic minority. Amrit uses websites as examples.

18:00 – Presenting yourself as a top notch guy in a certain category

19:00 – Amrit’s first cold approach resulted in a four year relationship, which taught him to always approach and take shots. Franco shares how he’s seen some guys who have tried and attained success, shifting their mindset. The guys who fail inevitably keep a negative mindset, whereas Amrit views himself as a prize.

20:55 – The importance of fundamentals and presentation. You have to dress like how you want people to see you. Amrit is always the best dressed Indian guy in the room, making himself the top tier guy not only of his category, but of the room.

22:10 – Indian/brown guys don’t have a lot of competition, which is a great opportunity! Girls love to show off guys to their friends, and minority guys can use their exotic quality to the fullest.

24:30 – Most Indian guys focus on complicated advanced problems rather than simple fixes in fundamentals that would net them the desired results.

25:10 – Accept that there are guys of your race succeeding. Usually the top notch minorities and brown guys are killing it and swimming in pussy.

26:10 – Amrit got his college dream girl ten years later. He never saw her as a real possibility, but he became the prize and got her on the first date. Setting up a process made the difference.

27:45 – Keep trying, failing, and tweaking your system. Use your resources to fill in the gaps of knowledge.

28:45 – Amrit’s Absolute Abundance mentality.

Listen online: https://www.girlschase.com/content/franco-amrit-dating-your-dream-girl-minority-podcast

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24: Franco & Amrit | Dating Your Dream Girl as a Minority

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase! Today we feature a show in development for quite some time with my first female guest – Shari James – who runs a successful coaching practice based out of Los Angeles, CA called Architecture of Pleasure to help men resolve Erectile Dysfunction.

Podcast Highlights:
1:50 – Introduction to Shari James, her mission in treating Erectile Dysfunction.

4:15 – Shari explains how she started her business Architecture of Pleasure as a result of a history in stripping.

7:10 – Stripping and dancing was a freedom of expression for Shari – and it pulled guys into her 

9:10 – Women don’t give men enough time to talk – and Shari trained herself to give men space to be emotional.

10:40 – Shari’s journey leads her into the erotic arts and tantric massage.

13:20 – Shari’s path takes her to offering sexual healing to men, women, and couples.

15:50 – Shari wants to take the suffering out of ED for men and to educate men on sexuality and healing, using her 26 years of experience with them.

17:40 – The five branches of the sexual system: the emotional/mental issues, the circulatory system, the nervous system, sexual energy, and being state. All five cause erectile dysfunction.

19:40 – Step #1: Release Heavy Emotions.

21:40 – Men have an inner hard-on. Men’s sexual center connects with the heart – and when men have inner pain, it blocks their inner hard-on, which blocks their outer hard-on.

23:40 – Men stop having sex to emotionally distance themselves from women in relationships, too, sometimes pre-breakup.

25:30 – Shari talks about men who need to have an emotional connection in order to have sexual desire and a hard-on for a woman.

28:00 – We talk about how to understand and deal with emotional issues that cause ED.

30:40 – Case study with a client who was in an abusive relationship with a woman.

32:50 – Step #2: Increase Circulation.

35:20 – We talk about nitric oxide and how it works towards a healthy sexual function.

37:50 – Shari shares her case study of helping a man in his 60s whose circulation was compromised by diabetes, which caused ED.

39:50 – Step #3: Decrease Stress and Retrain the Nervous System.

42:10 – Most men operate full time in a sympathetic nervous system mode – which actually inhibits their erections.

45:00 – Men don’t carry over meditation mindsets into their daily life, which contributes to ED.

47:00 – Shari shares her case study of a stressed-out business owner, and how she helped him manage his stress to fix his erectile dysfunction.

48:40 – Common medical practice is to isolate ED, when actually it’s linked to a greater body system.

49:50 – Step #4: Harness Sexual Energy.

51:50 – Women get more energy from orgasms while men lose energy from ejaculations and feel tired.

53:50 – When men have morning wood, everything fixes, or has fixed, itself.

54:40 – Case study of a guy in his 40s in a great marriage who wasn’t getting aroused with his wife.

57:25 – Step #5: Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction.

Listen online: https://www.girlschase.com/content/shari-james-treating-erectile-dysfunction-podcast

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25: Shari James | Treating Erectile Dysfunction

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics, our podcast here on Girls Chase! Today I feature a special guest who was recommended to me by Chase himself.

Joshua Spodek (who actually used to be a dating coach himself) is now an expert on leadership, training, and taking initiative. He has several PhDs, writes a column for Inc., and has five Ivy league degrees. In this podcast, we’re here to talk about his upcoming new book, called Initiative, where Josh shares how anyone in any place in life can start taking initiative to create extraordinary results in life.

Podcast Details: Taking Initiative
02:30 – We introduce Joshua, and we talk about his background in New York, and how he began teaching how to improve lives. We also talk about textbook learning versus performance based learning, and how traditional learning has failed.
05:00 – Traditional mainstream education teaches people to comply, and it tells you what’s important. Joshua shows how traditional textbook and example-based learning leaves people with fewer options.
08:00 – The path of traditional education leads to stability and keeps society going. It’s good for benefits and allows people to put their kids through college, but it may not be as fulfilling or lucrative as taking the path less traveled.
09:00 – Josh shares what inspired him to write Initiative, based on his experience in graduate school and how he started his first company – the first time he experienced full control.
11:20 – Josh’s lack of leadership skills caused him to be squeezed out of his own company.
12:45 – The number one reason people say they don’t want to start a company – they don’t have an idea. Varoon talks about Chipotle and how it evolved.
14:10 – Ideas don’t matter to the level we think. The people who don’t care about their ideas but pursue a path based on leadership skill succeed, whereas the people who look for the perfect idea do not. We always learn through our own experiences.
16:40 – We talk about the different types of ideas, and how the traditional entrepreneurial path is good for a limited number of outcomes.
19:00 – Josh talks about his book and course, and the fundamental learning tool is experience and practice. Memorizing facts doesn’t really work.
22:00 – People don’t start working on their ideas because they never figure out what they really want to do, which stalls them from even starting. Josh asks me what I remember most from school, and how I remember social skills more than my education.
24:30 – Josh talks about the example of learning how to play piano. Some things are known learning paths, in social and performance based fields.
25:30 – Josh shares his example of Rafael from his book.
28:40 – We talk more about Initiative, and how the exercises lead practitioners to unearth their real passions.
31:00 – The practice of very basic exercises can lead people to create beautiful symphonies, because repetition creates experience and muscle memory.
32:30 – We talk about working past sticking points to master skills.
34:00 – The more you serve what other people need, the more they help you succeed in your own goals.
38:30 – People fear taking action because they fear their own internal problems, and how they imagine failure will make them space. Practice always pays off, though. Working on fundamentals and basics always pays off.
41:30 – How discipline and practice allows authenticity to emerge.
43:00 – Josh shares how initiative will bring forth profit and passion into anyone’s life.
44:45 – Josh talks about guests he has had on his podcast, including Chase, available on www.joshuaspodek.com.

26: Joshua Spodek | Taking Initiative

Today once again I feature Franco, with whom I’ve done several podcasts.

We met up in San Diego over New Years and talked about a girl’s comfort on dates, which is a sticking point I had late last year, where it was difficult to tell how comfortable a girl was on a date, which made it tough to move things forward.

Franco always tells me about his excellent track record on dates, as he was closing 9 out of 10 girls he would take on dates with him. What helps is his ability to gauge a girl’s comfort and where she is emotionally on a date.

Knowing a girl’s comfort level and emotions are key in the moment, as this allows you to determine what you need to do to move a date forward toward intimacy – and very importantly, when.

Girls also often give mixed signals to test a guy, and a good guy should know how to handle these tests as he moves the process along with a girl.

In this podcast, we talk about how to determine a girl’s comfort level early on a date, the adjustments in vibe we need to make to make her more comfortable, the adjustments we should make if an emotion is too strong, how to determine when a girl is comfortable enough for touch and what type, when to start and escalate touch, how to use sexual touch when she’s comfortable, and how to close at the end of the date – whether it’s just going for the kiss or pulling her home.

Podcast Details:
1:30 – Introduction to Franco and Varoon in San Diego on New Year’s Eve

2:00 – Girls want dates to go well, but they often give mixed signals, so the whole date is a bit of a test. Girls usually come into a date nervous, and this influences how it transpires.

3:20 – Varoon shares personal stories of how, for many years, he had great results approaching girls and getting them on dates, but had trouble gauging comfort and true emotions in the moment.

5:00 – Franco and Varoon talk about signs of a girl’s nervousness vs. comfort early into a date, why you want to make her feel comfortable as early as possible, and things she will do to indicate her state of mind.

7:30 – Varoon shares how he didn’t get a girl comfortable early on a date with him, and that made her eject by using “polite excuses.” This example shows how timing is key for date tech.

8:30 – How to elicit early comfort emotions and how to look for comfortable tangents for conversation

11:00 – A girl’s impression of the date is going to be based on her emotions, as she’s already showing interest in a guy by going on the date.

13:00 – A man’s job on a date is to make adjustments in vibe to make her more comfortable. He can make her laugh more, use the one compliment rule, or use sex talk and sexual tension.

15:00 – We talk about how to calibrate sex talk on a date, and the key to make sure she’s not in her “stiff” phase before talking about sex.

17:30 – The role of touch on a date, and how to touch early on, when to start touch, and when to escalate touch.

19:30 – How to transition into sex talk, and the kinds of sex talk used.

20:00 – Franco shares how he uses sex talk and touch together, how girl’s react, and how to gauge comfort during sex talk.

22:30 – Recap of the date sequence to make a girl comfortable, and how stiffness is a tell-tale sign for a girl.

24:30 – Varoon shares a story he overheard of a guy kissing a girl at the wrong moment, and how girls are super socially attuned.

27:00 – We discuss kissing at the end of a first date, and whether or not to kiss a girl. Franco shares how to leave a girl wanting more with a kiss. How to deliver the perfect kiss.

31:00 – How to end a first date with a pull-away kiss, and using it for sexual tension.

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