"Through What We Go Through" is a heartfelt and inspiring song that explores the journey of resilience, growth, and self-discovery. With vivid imagery and soulful lyrics, it reflects on life's struggles and the inner strength we find through challenges. Set against the backdrop of personal memories and the majestic landscapes of the Pacific Northwest, this song reminds us that even in the darkest moments, brighter days await. Let the soaring melody and poignant words take you on a reflective and uplifting journey.

[Verse]
Woke up this morning with a heavy heart
Life's got a way to tear us apart
But through the pain and storms we ride
We find the strength we hold inside

[Verse 2]
Took a walk down memory lane
Counted blessings right through the pain
Every stumble made me see clear
We grow stronger year by year

[Chorus]
Through what we go through we find our way
Every night leads to a brighter day
With every tear our roots grow deep
Promises to keep while we sleep

[Verse 3]
Smokestacks blow a whistle loud
Trying hard to stand out in the crowd
Lessons learned on the winding road
Carry heavy but we share the load

[Bridge]
Heartaches crack but they let in light
Moments of dark that fuel our fight
Scars we wear with a sense of pride
Proof that we lived and we tried

[Chorus]
Through what we go through we find our way
Every night leads to a brighter day
With every tear our roots grow deep
Promises to keep while we sleep

Through What We Go Through

Worn-out shoes, fading skies, full hearts – and you at the end of the road.
“Coming Home” is an emotional road song about late nights, second tries, and the pull of a place – or a person – that feels like home. With imagery of neon towns, falling stars, and blurry eyes on empty highways, it’s a track about finding clarity in return. For everyone who’s ever run far just to get closer.

Ausgetretene Schuhe, offener Himmel, volles Herz – und du am Ziel.
„Coming Home“ ist ein emotionaler Roadtrip-Song über späte Nächte, zweite Chancen und das tiefe Gefühl, unterwegs zu sein – und trotzdem zu wissen, wo man hingehört. Zwischen fallenden Sternen, flimmernden Straßen und leisen Erinnerungen erzählt der Song von der Kraft, heimzukehren. Für alle, die losfahren, um endlich anzukommen.

Coming Home

This track questions why people have to beat you down for trying something new instead of encouraging you.

Crushin Crowns

Ride This Lonesome Road – An Anthem for the Heartbroken Traveler 

Crackling radios, empty highways, and memories that won’t let go—Ride This Lonesome Road is a soul-stirring, sing-along anthem for anyone who's ever chased love through the rearview mirror. With heartfelt verses, a driving beat, and a powerful call-and-response bridge, this song blends country storytelling with rock energy and crowd-powered choruses.

From late-night drives to lost love, every lyric echoes with longing—and every "HEY!" is meant to be shouted loud and proud with fists in the air. Clap along, shout it out, and let the road roll on

Empty House Blues

Rip the Band Aid Off

Caption Title

A brutal reckoning—“Stealing Time” exposes the truth behind the mask, refusing to mourn what was lost and demanding accountability.

Song Insight

Stealing Time is not a lament for what’s gone, but a razor-edged anthem for finally seeing someone as they are. There’s no sugarcoating, no nostalgia for a love destroyed by self-inflicted wounds. This song doesn’t plead for redemption—it lays it bare: if you’re ever going to be saved, you’ll have to save yourself, because I’m done carrying your damage. The rain and the rose on the casket aren’t mourning—they’re the final word, marking the end of illusions and the start of owning your own darkness.

Lyrics
[Verse 1]
Drifting through your life
Trying to find a way to say goodbye
Grifter stealing time
I’m running through your lies

[Build]
The empty space between the lines
Falling to your knees, you cry

[Chorus]
It’s not about the ones you used to hold
It’s about the ones you left behind
All those moments passed you by
Maybe this time there’s nothing to undo
Truth—a life, something to pursue

[Refrain]
God, I hope you do
Something needs saved in you

[Verse 2]
Every promise that you broke
Every secret left untold
All the pain behind your eyes
The hearts you tore
To the ones you used

[Build]
Broken souls haunt your scattered mind
Pieces taken I will never find

[Chorus]
It’s not about the ones you used to hold
It’s about the ones you left behind
All those moments passed you by
Maybe this time there’s nothing to undo
Truth—a life, something to pursue

[Refrain]
God, I hope you do
Something needs saved in you

[Bridge]
Mirrors, silver-plated death
Moments I try but can’t forget
Shadows pulling at what’s owed
Memories drowned by the ones I loved

[Bridge 2]
Sorry for the stones you throw
No matter what, you stay below
Cracked reflections on the floor
Love doesn't live here anymore

[Final Chorus]
It’s not about the ones you used to hold
It’s about the ones you left behind
All those moments passed you by
Maybe this time there’s nothing to undo
Truth—a life, something to pursue
All the pain behind your eyes
The hearts you tore apart inside
All those moments, lost in time
Drift away, erased by a life

[Refrain]
God, I hope you do
Something needs saved in you

[Outro]
Every mistake you called mine
Feel your choices down my spine
Maybe this time you’ll live the life
Maybe it’s the lies that die
Free yourself in time

[Post-Outro]
God, I hope you do
Something needs saved in you

Personal Reflection

I wrote “Stealing Time” as the ten-year mark approached, but not to mourn what could have been. Eight years of marriage ended in chaos and destruction—choices, not fate. This isn’t about hoping for change or wishing things were different. It’s about drawing the line, calling out the darkness, and refusing to shoulder someone else’s demons. There’s pain, sure, but mostly clarity: your story is yours now, and I won’t let it shape me. I see the warning signs clearer than ever. You own your choices, not me.

4Me2BeFree

With “Stealing Time,” 4Me2BeFree channels real scars into cinematic storytelling—no filter, no pity, just raw truth and consequence. Every lyric, every visual, and every drop of rain on the casket is there to show that this isn’t a breakup song—it’s a declaration of freedom from someone else’s self-destruction. This is what 4Me2BeFree does: transforms lived experience into music that doesn’t flinch from the hard parts, making sure the story hits as hard as the truth.

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Stealing Time

Wide open hands

I Won’t Go Back (In Jesus’ Name) 1

A Fenske and Sons Song about a man's view on life. 

Suno Ai - Musical Composition, Music and Vocals

Thank You Meta Ai for initial Cover Art. 

Thank Snapseed for editing tools. 

Final Cover Art by Nick Fenske

Front Door Scholar/Backroom Brawler

Sample of us :O) Recorded Live at the riverside theater Coleraine, Northern Ireland   

Cotton Fields

Tom Aldercastle-Barely broken in, Stuck in second gear, Third exit to nowhere, singles. A lot of stuff comes out now, hope you can handle it without a burnout. I hope you guy`s like something, STAY AWESOME!

Short bio; Genuine country boy, Born April 1980. Played some electric guitar and piano in high school. Joined an Oasis cover band in the early 2000`s. Worked as an merchant marine for some years, wrote songs for own fun. Joined the search and rescue in 2011. In 2015 as sitting as a local fire chief I began to do beats and lyrics for various bands but mainly rap. Now in 2025 I decided give out my own stuff and in the genre I like, not all the songs where in country style from the beginning though.

I want to thank all the listeners from the bottom of my heart for listening and pushing the "like" button. You who follow, I try to listen and follow you back but it`s a bit hectic right now.

See ya!  Tom

Dirty Bastard - Rapture album and singles.

Wide open hands

Jam Bend Records