Ex narc made me take out a loan to give him money i quite simply didnt have. He said he couldnt be with me if i couldnt help him financially. Took the loan out like an idiot gave him three quarters of the money. Dumped him & paid the loan company bk

Ex also told me he was poor. Everything was about money with him 🤢🚩 he was able to keep buying cocaine and weed so he definitley not poor. 

It is easy to blame the next supply we were probably taught this in junior high. This world we have lived in is quite different because your Narc will NEVER BE ABLE TO LOVE!!!! That is just a fact so this next supply, this next victim, this next target is being tricked, lied to, cheated on and probably passed his STD's. Your narc will dump them as horrifically as she dumped you. Pity the next supply because they are a victim soon.

Dear Next Supply Of My Narcissist

Narcissists have the spectrum of everything - so you could get a Narc that likes to give gifts but uses them as a tool. or you can get one that has no idea what gift to get you because they do not "KNOW" you really so its very impersonal. Learn more here

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Narcissists Gift Giving: Red Flag

Recipe to understand LOVEBOMBING on Facebook. Narcissists start by lovebombing a target and one of the places they like to play in is Facebook. They start by liking all your old pictures, they were stalking you. then they start to like your friends as they leave a comment on one of your posts. make no mistake they are not interested in the pretty picture you just posted instead they are seeing which of your friends they can create a flying money with. Someone to use later as they tell them you are crazy. 

This pattern will increase over time until the get to the discard stage and you will be wondering why aren't you liking all my stuff anymore. You may also find that your narcissist starts to like everything of other men or woman and this leaves you wondering if you did something wrong. 
This is all part of the plan of making you crazy later.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

FaceBombing - How A Narcissist Uses Facebook: Red Flag

The last thirty days I have learned more about myself then I have learned in 55 years. I have learned new terms, a new language and YouTube has been here to teach me. I feel like I have gotten a lifetime of knowledge by watching and listening to real people's stories. I learned what a narcissist is, what a sociopath is, what a codependent is and what it means to be a victim. I would never have said the word victim about myself but the more I learn the clearer it becomes. I have heard that it's not my fault, as a child in a very disfunctional house I learned to cope in a few ways. First by hiding my head in the sand, most people say this is the only reason I did survive when the rest of my family fell. If I went along thinking that life was fine... If I loved men as much as I could surely they would live me back.

My friends who have loved me for all my life, know I would do anything for them. Know my heart is true and loyal. I am successful in my self taught career, I have an amazing child about to graduate college and my life seems to be filled with drama. 

My mantra for years has been not my monkeys, not my circus. Yet the drama followed me, I would say- I know CRAZY! And trust me I knew it so well I was sucked up in it and kept lowering my bar, lower and lower because I became afraid to love. So less was ok, this way I wouldn't get hurt. Save my heart by keeping it locked with a key. Still enjoying my friends and my life I have made for myself. 

I was a target for two narcissist men and I never knew it. I fell for every trick in the book. 

This is my first video on the red flags of a narcissist - love bombing. These are real examples of how I was fooled by a narcissist. I hope that if one person is able to find something that turns a light on for them that this coming out is worth it. 
Trust me as a business owner I fear this exposure this deep part of me I have hidden so long. Join me on this journey as I learn and teach all that I learned.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Narcissist Love Bombing - Red Flag

To understand how to spot a narcissist, there are many stages, behaviors, patterns that a target of narcissist abuse will learn in the healing process. This video is a summary of how to spot a narcissist by their behavior. This is your best protection but it is something that you must REALLY understand until your narc-radar is charged up.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

How To Spot A Narcissist

Financial abuse leaves victims in turmoil, friends judge victims for allowing this to happen. 85% of domestic abuse cases involve financial abuse. Victims feel shame, confusion, fear. 

Once you understand the parts within yourself that allowed you to be controlled by the financial abuse of the narcissist, you will not only up-level to a self that is beyond anything you imagined, you will also bring forth more abundance into your life then you ever had previously.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Were You FINANCIALLY ABUSED By A Narcissist

This is not a political video I am going to show you the characteristics of a narcissist. The red flags that Donald Trump has been accused of showing. I will talk about what happens from a victims point of view. No matter if he is or if he isn't we need to raise awareness about this epidemic and if I have to look for a silver lining then he has helped our mission to bring awareness to this dangerous mental disorder.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Is Donald Trump A Narcissist LISTEN

Early warning signs of Narcissist abuse. When you are on a journey to understand what the heck just happened  its important to l look at the warning signs of abuse. Narcissists seem to all display the same signs the same flags and patterns. Your first step to healing yourself after narcissist abuse and being a victim is to see patterns. I hope this helps anyone who listens to my story and can see something in  your narcissists pattern that can guide your to heal and know the flags of narcissist abuse so it never happens again.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Narcissist Warning Signs

My new lens is picking up examples of narcissistic behaviors that I read about in psychology today. Then examples came to my head of things I missed. Picking through the garbage of your brain learn to identify so you can protect yourself from a narcissist. Four narcissistic behaviors as common as we now know they are were things we excepted as differences. We reacted, we were pissed but we listened to their excuses and forgave them. These memories have to be found. Dig deep.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

Narcissistic Behaviors You Missed - Protect Yourself

Once your relationship with a narcissist comes to a bitter end (they all do) they are very much like the wicked witch of the west deploying these flying monkeys. Picture a puppeteer pulling strings to smear you, lie about you and control you just one last time. They will use your peeps, your friends, your family and get them to do the work for them. This tactic is called flying monkeys. These people that get recruited to further damage you and your reputation have also been tricked by the narcissist to do their bidding. 
Be careful and look at friends and family with a different lens because they will only add insult to injury.

WEBSITE - resources for victims - http://narcissistabusesupport.com

What Are Flying Monkeys Narcissist: Red Flag

TracyAMalone has started a Narcissist Abuse Support channel to help victims understand and get educated on what narcissist abuse is. Many victims like myself did not know what a narcissist was because we were raised by one and the behaviors are similar. This is a journey of healing, sharing, exposing, teaching and learning to be vulnerable. Together we can heal.

Were You FINANCIALLY ABUSED By A Narcissist

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