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What I Learned | A Ramadan Series

Have you ever heard about gratitude? the key basic to well-being and happiness?

#003: Gratitude

النص : لمريم حيدر 

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مريم حيدر - مواساة

#005:العزلة

⇢ "I'm just an angry person." 
 ⇢ "You know I get angry fast, it's your fault for triggering me."
 ⇢ "I'm a hopeless case"


Is there truth to these statements?

Today's Ayas:
إِنَّ الْإِنْسَانَ خُلِقَ هَلُوعاً * إِذَا مَسَّهُ الشَّرُّ جَزُوعاً * وَإِذَا مَسَّهُ الْخَيْرُ مَنُوعاً * إِلَّا الْمُصَلِّينَ* الَّذِينَ هُمْ عَلَى صَلَاتِهِمْ دَائِمُونَ 

قُلْ كُلٌّ يَعْمَلُ عَلَىٰ شَاكِلَتِهِ فَرَبُّكُمْ أَعْلَمُ بِمَنْ هُوَ أَهْدَىٰ سَبِيلًا 


Yes, human beings have been created in a reactionary way. Yes, we are born with that tendency and yes, we all have different challenges. What comes easily to you may not come easily to me and what comes naturally to you might take a lot of effort from me and my strengths may be your weaknesses. 

And that's okay.

I believe we are put here to figure ourselves out and then work accordingly. 

Even on an emotional level, we all have different strengths and challenges and it's important to know what they are and then work with them. We are born with certain things that come "easy" and "hard" to us but we still have "choices".

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وَإِذْ قَالَ رَبُّكَ لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ إِنِّي جَاعِلٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ خَلِيفَةً ۖ قَالُوا أَتَجْعَلُ فِيهَا مَن يُفْسِدُ فِيهَا وَيَسْفِكُ الدِّمَاءَ وَنَحْنُ نُسَبِّحُ بِحَمْدِكَ وَنُقَدِّسُ لَكَ ۖ قَالَ إِنِّي أَعْلَمُ مَا لَا تَعْلَمُونَ 
 سورة البقرة 30

"And when thy Lord said to the angels, I will make a land in the land as a caliph, saying, I will make those who spoil it and shed blood, and we will praise you, and sanctify you. He said, I know what you do not know."


What I learned:

⇢ Sometimes in life, things will happen that we can't understand. And it's normal to feel confused or want to understand the reason and wisdom behind it

⇢ Asking why is part of our nature but there are two ways to ask:
1- "why me God?/ this shouldn't be happening!?" this why the question comes from a place of ingratitude and rejecting the decree of Allah.
2- The way the prophets and angles asked God when they didn't understand something... by asking him WHILE declaring his perfection and their gratitude and praise. So it comes from a place of being humble and wanting him to shed light on what we cant, but we know whatever he does is flawless and thank you.

⇢ God sees good in us. That's why he created us. Because He knows the good that some of us will choose to do.
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The Good God Sees In You | What I Learned #25

What I learned:

1 ⇢ Sometimes in life, we get what we want. And it’s totally normal that fear will be a feeling that comes with it. Getting what we want comes with vulnerability… or losing something in the future or something “bad” will happen in the future which keeps us from feeling the joy and gratitude.

2 ⇢ استخارة/
istekhara is basically asking God to open the right doors or close the wrong doors and then make our heart pleased with it.. so after istekara life will unfold the way God sees best(no matter what you do or doesn’t do) and don’t worry about your feelings, He will take care of them too.

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فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ(159)﴾.
سورة القرة
“And when you have decided and made a choice out your trust in Allah and go forward with no hesitation”
Once you decide on something Go forward with it.


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I Got What I Wanted And Now I'm Scared | What I Learned #26

What I learned:

2 ⇢ Self-disappointment is one of the worst feelings ever. That's why some of us choose to throw it as far away as possible! Discharge it by getting angry and blaming others "You made me do it- or not do it!? If only you did this, I would have_____." (Feel free to fill in the blank).


Others hold it too close and let it define who they are. "I'm a failure/ there's no hope for me"

2 ⇢ ٍRepentance/  توبة
can help you and I feel like our hearts have been cleaned again and take away the pain of self-disappointment.

3 ⇢ ٍSometimes in life, even when we repent from something we might still need to later down the line deal with consiquenses. As scary as that may sound right noe, it's OK... becouse God will be on your side making it easy for you and guidning you.

اللَّهُ وَلِيُّ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا يُخْرِجُهُم مِّنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ ۖ 
 (257) سورة البقرة

"God is a friend and supporter to those who believe and will bring them out of the darkness to the light"

He's your friend/ supporter ohhh AND He loves you...

إن الله يحب التوابين ويحب المتطهرين
 (222) سورة البقرة
"And God loves those who repent and He loves those who cleanse themselves"

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How God Helps Us When We Go Back To Him | What I Learned #27

وَإِذَا سَأَلَكَ عِبَادِي عَنِّي فَإِنِّي قَرِيبٌ ۖ أُجِيبُ دَعْوَةَ الدَّاعِ إِذَا دَعَانِ ۖ فَلْيَسْتَجِيبُوا لِي وَلْيُؤْمِنُوا بِي لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْشُدُونَ
(186)سورة البقرة

"And if my slave asks you about me, I am indeed close I indeed answer the call of the caller. So they should try to respond to me and believe in me so they can be guided."

What I learned:

1 ⇢ God talks to us directly.

 
2 ⇢ God for sure answers our call but he also asks us for something in return: try to respond to Him. What I find amazing is God uses the word "they should TRY". He isnt askign for perfection,. He is askign fro effort. 


3 ⇢ If you ever find yourself in a tough situation needing to comfort from Him. Use this aya to ask Him about Him.. But doent forget to put in the effort first.. try to repsond to him then ask Him about Him.
The way He responses (the HOW) it's up to HIm. (He is The Master and we are the slaves)

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What To Say In Moments Of Need | What I Learned #28

What I learned:

1 ⇢ Sometimes in life, God doesn't give us what we want to test us to see what really lies in our chests and hearts

 وَلِيَبْتَلِيَ اللَّهُ مَا فِي صُدُورِكُمْ وَلِيُمَحِّصَ مَا فِي قُلُوبِكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ عَلِيمٌ بِذَاتِ الصُّدُورِ
 (154) سورة العمران
"And let God test what is in your chests and check what is in your hearts"

 2 ⇢  Choosing to worship God can come from two different places in the heart:
A- I did something for you God and now I am entitled to ___ (whatever that thing is that you're looking for is). This comes from a place of and doubt in the hearts. (Not our place to do that as slaves to The Master)
B- Or a place of a humble slave.

وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يَعْبُدُ اللَّهَ عَلَى حَرْفٍ فَإِنْ أَصَابَهُ خَيْرٌ اطْمَأَنَّ بِهِ وَإِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ فِتْنَةٌ انقَلَبَ عَلَى وَجْهِهِ خَسِرَ الدُّنْيَا 
وَالْآخِرَةَ ذَلِكَ هُوَ الْخُسْرَانُ الْمُبِين
 ( 11 ) سورة الحج  
"There are among men some who serve Allah, as it were, on the verge: if good befalls them, they are, therewith, well content; but if a trial comes to them, they turn on their faces: they lose both this world and the Hereafter: that is loss for all to see!"


 3 ⇢  The next time you find yourself in a hard situation, what do you want God to see in your heart?

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