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In this episode Joel and Antonia answer the question “What is intuition?”

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    What is Intuition? Intuition is a pretty abstract word. It’s something many of us rely on for quick judgments and often life-altering decisions.
    Intuition is a particular way that people learn information.
    There are two ways in which people learn new information.

    Through their 5 senses.
    Intuition – not relying on those senses in order to understand and learn new information. Therefore, relying on advanced pattern recognition.

    You can’t directly interact behind the curtain, but you can deduce what’s going on behind the curtain based on the pieces of information you get in front of the curtain.
    Sensory people are looking to find something that’s reliable and can be verified.
    Intuitives are not dependent on things that are reliable. Someone who’s using intuition to learn puts more emphasis on speed of information and depth of insight on information. They will sacrifice verifiability for speed and depth of insight.
    Intuitives are more comfortable with speculation and so they’re willing to take risks. Eventually, they’re going to become more and more proficient with it.
    When it comes to pattern recognition and speculation, intuitives are getting better of taking risks and accurate speculations.
    Although sensors may have an intuitive piece on them, they don’t become efficient with it because they’re not comfortable with its nature and process.
    75% of the population in the US are sensory and only 25% are Intuitives.
    Everyone is creative. We all have a creative element inside of us. Some of the most creative people use a sensory as a form of learning.
    The greatest artists in the world are sensors. The big difference is that Intuitives have a tendency to create something the world has never seen because they’re looking for things that can only be imagined. Sensors on the other hand, when they’re creative, have a tendency to make something new that already has a sensory platform.
    There’s no argument that both are valid ways of learning.
    Some people tend to hide their being intuitive. The Intuitives who keep going are so powerful that they end up being the people who are most celebrated.
    If you are of an intuitive learning style, the first step is to accept it. The second step is understanding its potential and doing what you can to hone it.
    Take courage, give yourself permission and you’re going to see a more different world.


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In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about Gary Chapman and his book The 5 Love Languages.

In this podcast on the 5 love languages you’ll find:

    Gary Chapman outlines love in 5 different ways. These love languages are very powerful and we all have different ways of expressing our love to our mate.
    We’re often unaware that we speak in different love languages. When this happens, misunderstanding occurs because you’re going to think that the person is denying or withholding love from you.
    The 5 Different Love Languages
        Words of Affirmation. Expressing love through affirming words like how proud you are of your partner or maybe a nickname that only the two of you use dearly. It could also be the way you speak highly of them in public.
        Quality Time. Spending a lot of quality time. There are people who just want being present by the quality of time they spend with their mate.
        Gift Giving. Expresses love by finding that perfect object that will make the person happy or to receive a gift.
        Acts of Service. Doing the dishes, getting the oil changed in the car. Working hard to provide for the family.
        Physical Touch. Through touching and physicality. Examples include but not limited to snogging, holding hands in public, kissing in public and giving a massage. This is more than just sex. Sex is a fundamental need and is part of Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs.
    When couples have different ways of expressing their love (example – you’re a quality time person and your mate is an “acts of service” person), misunderstanding occurs and sometimes, causing one or both partners to feel “not loved”.
    It’s a matter of finding out what’s your love language and how are you misinterpreting selfishness.
    So how are you going to find out your partner’s primary love language? Test it, try giving them gifts for example and check if it creates a big impact to them.
    Oftentimes, the language you use to give love is not necessarily the language you get from the other person.
    The way that we receive love and the way that we show love might be different. Knowing not just what you and your mate are but what your receiving and giving language is, can be very powerful.
    If somebody is expressing love in a way that’s unfamiliar to us, keep in mind that it’s an attempt for them to show love intimacy.
    The more we can see positive intent from our mate, the more we understand that they want to feel intimacy, being able to understand the love language model helps maintain the intimacy and maintain a healthy relationship.

Exercises we recommend in this podcast:

Write down the 5 love languages and rate yourself and your mate from 1-5 (1 being the highest). Invite your mate to have their own list and talk deeply about it.

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In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about why people tend to fight about sex – money and relationships and how using the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs model can help resolve conflict.

In this podcast you’ll find:

    Disagreements and fights commonly occur within relationships. Counselors and relationship experts often tell you that people fight about sex, money and family issues. Why is it that this is a recurring issue among couples? What are the solutions?
    Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of Needs is a lifelong achieve to go from the bottom to the top tier. These are our fundamental human needs and we come in and out them from time to time. These needs are not fixed nor constant.
    There 5 different levels in the pyramid.
    The bottom level is the “survival level” or the physiological needs – food, shelter, sex. Once this is established, we graduate to safety and security needs.
    Safety and security needs – the feeling of being safe like financial security, health and wellness.
    Love and belongingness– being romantically accepted, emotional needs are taken cared of.
    Self Esteem – when we want to accomplish something that’s bigger, something that contributes to ourselves and other people.
    Self-Actualization –happens when we feel good spiritually, we feel like we’re more than just the sum of our parts. We have a lot of abundance in resource and we feel that we can give back without feeling like it’s costing us anything.
    Most of the common issues that couples fight are in the first three tiers.
    Money issues are huge and is a safety and security need. Whatever the issue is, it all comes down to blaming your partner about and not realizing that there’s a need going unmet.
    Donkey Smuggling – Smuggled emotions happen because people feel unsafe. You can remove the blame game by asking “Which need is unmet”.
    Example – if you haven’t eaten for the entire day, your mood will be affected which increases the risk of you diverting (blaming) your mood towards your partner (other people).
    Understanding the model (Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs) helps anybody understand and look at the problems and not the person.
    Getting your needs met is the way to give back to other people.
    Talk about your partner and try to ask which needs are unmet
    Get each other’s back as a couple. Support each other by fulfilling each other’s needs.
    How can we manage our feelings as individuals so that we don’t feel unsafe?
    Relationships do well when needs are met.
    When you and your mate are in a tense discussion, think about relationships in getting needs met.

Exercises we recommend in this podcast:

    Write on a sticky note “Which need is going unmet?” Constantly ask yourself this question.

Why Lovers Fight About Sex, Money, and Family | PODCAST 0054

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the Cashflow Quadrant model of making money developed by Robert Kiyosaki, author of Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

In this podcast on the Cashflow Quadrant you’ll find:

    The Cashflow quadrant was developed by Robert Kiyosaki.
    Most people walk through different parts of the cashflow quadrant.
    Visualize a quadrant, draw four boxes.
    Top Left Box = E (Employee)
    Top Right = B (Business)
    Bottom Left = S (Self-Employed)
    Bottom Right = I (Investor)

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    Employee. In Robert’s theory, we all typically start our lives at the top left of the quadrant. We literally trade our lives and hours with a form of compensation from an employer. We start working for someone else based on giving the skillset to the employer.
    Self Employed Quadrant – You own a job, you are the business, and whatever you offer (services and skills) is coming from you.
    Business Owner – You employ more people, scaling up to the leadership role. Does not require the owner’s presence. A one degree of separation from being self-employed.
    Investor – Create and buy own investments.
    Looking at this model, which one of these quadrants are you in? Where are you at? How does it affect your relationship with money?
    All of these levels are mindsets. When you’re self-employed, you see a direct correlation of your efforts vs the money you earn.
    Both being an employee and self-employed are the highest tax positions to be in, which means you are going to pay the most.
    What’s the scaling difference that happens when you level-up from being self-employed to becoming a business owner? When you begin investing, you start seeing business as complete assets.
    Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger are one of the wealthiest people who are investors.
    It’s not about money, it’s about value.
    The wealthiest people don’t think in terms of time and money, they think about systems and value creation. True wealth is not about the salary you draw, but it’s how about the systems and business you’re investing and the value that you create.
    You may run into one of the quadrants and feel like it’s not comfortable for you. However, even if it doesn’t come natural to you, it’ just a phase where you can learn so you can graduate to stage where it’s natural for you.
    The model helps you to understand how people can help in your business.
    We all possess all these great components in our personality type that help in wealth generation.
    If you are having challenges getting up to the next quadrant, look for someone who can help you, preferably someone with a different personality type.
    You might just love being self-employed, and you don’t want to scale, maybe you’re comfortable in being an employee, and that’s fine.
    If you want to make a big impact, if you want to be a game changer, your relationship needs to changes to how you’re engaging with value.
    When you want to make and bring value to the world, you need to get out of the employee mentality.
    What value are you going to create for the world? Where are you at in the cashflow quadrant right now? What do you think are some of the powerful lesson that you need in order to move to the next quadrant?
    Affluence brings influence. If we have a more sophisticated relationship with money and value, we will make smarter choices for the society. We will feel more empowered as people so that we can make starter choices for the society.
    Whatever you do, when you bring value, you will be rewarded back for it.

The Cashflow Quadrant | PODCAST 0059

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the unique way your personality is “hardwired” for wealth.

How You Are Hardwired For Wealth | PODCAST 0061

PHQ | QUESTIONS FROM COMMUNITY: In this episode Joel and Antonia discuss how someone using Introverted Feeling (Authenticity) can better communicate with someone using Introverted Thinking (Accuracy).

PHQ | QUESTIONS: Introverted Feeling vs Introverted Thinking

PHQ | QUESTIONS FROM COMMUNITY: In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a question about INFJ personality relationships and two INFJs in a romantic relationship.

PHQ | QUESTIONS: INFJ Personality Relationships

In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a question about intuitive parents raising sensor children.

PHQ | QUESTIONS: Intuitive Parents and Sensor Children

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about personality types and religion and unpack which personalities are more likely to leave or stay with religion.


Personality Types And Religion | PODCAST 0081

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk with Jenn Granneman of IntrovertDear.com about introvert problems and some of the unique struggles they face.

Introvert Problems | PODCAST 0082

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the difference between introverted and extraverted energies in children.

PHQ | QUESTIONS: Introvert vs Extravert Energies in Children

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about personalities in children and how early you can tell a child's type.

PHQ | QUESTIONS: Personalities In Children

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the difference between Extraverted Feeling ("Harmony") and Extraverted Thinking ("Effectiveness").

PHQ | QUESTIONS: Extraverted Feeling vs Extraverted Thinking

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about how to manage energy based on your personality type.


How Personality Types Manage Energy | PODCAST 0112

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the ISTP, ISFP, INTP and INFP personality types and how they look when they are healthy.

Healthy Introvert Personality Types Part 1 | PODCAST 0119

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about the ISFJ, ISTJ, INFJ and INTJ personality types and how they look when they are healthy.

Healthy Introvert Personality Types Part 2 | PODCAST 0120

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about developing a healthy relationship with your tertiary cognitive function (what we call the 10-year-old in the Car Model).

Developing Tertiary Cognitive Function | PODCAST  0122

In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk about four ways to cope with being the black sheep, odd duck or outlier in your family or social circle.

Black Sheep Odd Ducks Outliers | PODCAST 0130

In this episode, Joel and Antonia talk about using an understanding of your inferior cognitive function to figure out your best-fit personality type.

 

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Your Inferior Cognitive Function | PODCAST 0132

In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a question from an INFP listener about coming out as other types on personality tests.

INFP Mistyping As Other Types | PHQ PODCAST

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about how different personality types relate to money, wealth, and finances.

How Personality Types Relate To Money | PODCAST 0143

In this episode Joel and Antonia answer a listener question about FP types and NF types and why they are not often portrayed as the bad guys in movies.

Are FP Types Ever Bad Guys In Movies | PHQ PODCAST

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about why we need Introverted Thinking in our modern world of misinformation and confusing logic.

Why We Need Introverted Thinking In Today’s World | PODCAST 0148

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about strategies for owning yourself and not giving away your personal sovereignty.

Self Ownership And Personal Sovereignty | PODCAST 0176

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk with Merja Sumiloff about setting healthy boundaries.

Setting Healthy Boundaries With Merja Sumiloff | PODCAST 0177

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about strategies for getting yourself out of a bad mood.

How To Get Out Of A Bad Mood | PODCAST 0178

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about understanding where you are in your process and timeline of personal development.

Your Personal Development Timeline | PODCAST 0179

In this episode Joel and Antonia talk about building the skill of gratitude.

The Skill Of Gratitude | PODCAST 0189

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PHQ | QUESTIONS: Introverted Feeling vs Introverted Thinking

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