On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We discuss the Yue Begay Fiasco and her anti Blackness, Gender Diverse Language, and who owns labels after colonizations 

Great references you should read 
Two Spirit History
https://rainbowresourcecentre.org/files/16-08-Two-Spirit.pdf
Sex Love Race: Crossing Boundaries in North American History 
https://amzn.to/36TynBy
Alaina Roberts's I've Been Here All The While
https://amzn.to/3rtEoi4
Boy Wives and Sister husbands 
http://www.arcados.ch/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/MURRAY-ROSCOE-BOY-WIVES-FEMALE-HUSBANDS-98.pdf
Living with Dual Spirits: Spirituality, Sexuality and Healing in the African Diaspora
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15299711003760600




Diamond Stylz Artist Initiative 
https://gofund.me/81780bfe 

Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 

Black Trans Women Support 
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

We have merch as well if you wanna support Marsha’s Plate
https://teespring.com/stores/marshasplate

https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate


 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support

We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast


Trans 101 from Havard
http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/

If you are a black trans woman in need  
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

PODCAST PLATFORMS
iTunes
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/marshas-plate-black-trans-podcast/id1293033444
TuneIn
http://tun.in/piRlF
Stitcher
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/diamondstylzgmailcom/marshas-plate
Soundcloud
https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Iv5ymzrIouiCGHsOBNB47

DONATE HERE
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OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA 
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https://www.facebook.com/MarshasPlate/
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https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate

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#194  Nobody Owns English

On this episode… We talk about two of our favorite fellow Bronx friends, the queer Afro Latinx lead podcast Bag Ladiez and share one of our favorite episodes! Who are Bag Ladiez, what are the dynamics on the show, why should you listen? Enjoy this listener's guide to Bag Ladiez!

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up!

Bag Ladiez is a podcast about BAGGAGE: yours, mine, and ours. Through the podcast, their goal is to help each other and their listeners by pushing themselves to be vulnerable about the way that the world affects them and their ability to live their truest, most authentic lives. 

We’re sharing a Bag Ladiez All Baggage All the Time episode, where they assemble the BBB Demi Squad! Akua from Inner Hoe Uprising and J. from Tea with Queen and J join Bag Ladiez to talk about demisexuality ( Estephanie also identifies as demisexual!), their journeys figuring out the label, the misconceptions, and what it means to them to navigate this part of their identity as Black women! Hope you enjoy!


EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
 Queen and J. love Bag Ladiez: 0:44
Bag Ladiez & Demisexuality: 20:18


FOLLOW & SUPPORT BAG LADIEZ PODCAST 
https://www.bgladiez.com/ 
Twitter: Bag_Ladiez
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Gmail: bgladiez@gmail.com
Patreon: www.patreon.com/bgladiez 
Paypal: paypal.me/BagLadiez 
Cashapp: $BgLadiez


TEA WITH QUEEN AND J. WEBSITE
Teawithqueenandj.com 


TEA WITH QUEEN AND J. SOCIAL MEDIA 
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Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

Subscribe

Bag  Ladiez

On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We discuss the fluidity of gender and language and our complicated relationship with being stealth in various moments 
https://pod.link/1293033444

Diamond Stylz Artist Initiative 
https://gofund.me/81780bfe 

Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 

Black Trans Women Support 
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

We have merch as well if you wanna support Marsha’s Plate
https://teespring.com/stores/marshasplate

https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate


 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support

We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast


Trans 101 from Havard
http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/

If you are a black trans woman in need  
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

PODCAST PLATFORMS
iTunes
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/marshas-plate-black-trans-podcast/id1293033444
TuneIn
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Stitcher
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/diamondstylzgmailcom/marshas-plate
Soundcloud
https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Iv5ymzrIouiCGHsOBNB47
https://pod.link/1293033444

DONATE HERE
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https://venmo.com/DiamondStylz
https://cash.me/$DiamondStylz
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https://donorbox.org/btwi_2020-executive-director-fund
OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA 
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https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate

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#198 Its The Fluidity for Me

On Today’s Menu on Marsha’s Plate
We discuss the complaints about trans representation and Onlyfans playing with our mofo money ....
https://pod.link/1293033444

Diamond Stylz Artist Initiative 
https://gofund.me/81780bfe 

Support Black Trans Women 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate 

Black Trans Women Support 
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

We have merch as well if you wanna support Marsha’s Plate
https://teespring.com/stores/marshasplate

https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate


 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #podsincolor #podernfamily #transisbeautiful #houston #lgbt

 #transmen #transwomen #blackfeminism  #trans101 #trans #blacktranswomen #blacktransmen #houstonpride #indiepodcast #blacktranslivesmatter 

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #genderidentity #pride #blackgirlmagic #blackboyjoy  #podcast🎧 #podcaster #queer #transpodcasts 


Accountability is an ongoing process and allyship has to be renewed every day through actions and support

We run off of donations to keep this programming accessible so monetary donations are so helpful BUT 
Ways to support that don’t cost money is to share comment and subscribe 
#marshasplate #girlslikeus #boyslikeus #transgender #podcast #blacktranslivesmatter #podsincolor #podernfamily #transpodcast


Trans 101 from Havard
http://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/gender-lines-science-transgender-identity/

If you are a black trans woman in need  
https://blacktranswomen.org/empowerher-support/

PODCAST PLATFORMS
iTunes
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/marshas-plate-black-trans-podcast/id1293033444
TuneIn
http://tun.in/piRlF
Stitcher
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/diamondstylzgmailcom/marshas-plate
Soundcloud
https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/4Iv5ymzrIouiCGHsOBNB47
https://pod.link/1293033444

DONATE HERE
https://www.patreon.com/MarshasPlate
https://venmo.com/DiamondStylz
https://cash.me/$DiamondStylz
https://www.paypal.me/DiamondStylz
https://donorbox.org/btwi_2020-executive-director-fund
OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA 
https://www.youtube.com/c/DiamondStylz
https://www.facebook.com/MarshasPlate/
https://www.Instagram.com/MarshasPlate/
https://www.twitter.com/MarshasPlate/
https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate 
https://Blacktranswomen.org/donate

WannaSupport

#199 Onlyfans Is Playing in Our Face

On this episode… We’re back! We talk about the value of Black ass rest, navigating body image, pandemic fatigue, and mad other sh!t

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. Drink up!

This week’s hot list: It’s been a minute! Who is you Chiron!? We reintroduce ourselves. J. considers forgiveness, fatphobia’s in the air, what pandemic are YOU having cuz…, a lil vaccination talk, friendship & isolation, and fighting the pandemic (not like metaphorically, we want to physically fight the pandemic, and his hoe ass friends) 


EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
Libations: 3:58 
Donation Libations: 17:12
Affirmations: 16:50
Who are we tho?: 20:53
Where we been tho? 28:33 
Is it still a pandemic?: 1:01:38


Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
Teawithqueenandj.com 


SOCIAL MEDIA 
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J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm 


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This week’s closing clip features Jadakiss at the Lox vz Dipset battle https://twitter.com/r0bato/status/1422759790959382529?s=12 


This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones and social media support from Jo Caraballo
Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

Segment Music by Chad Milner

#299 The Girls Are Fighting

On this episode…Can breaking up with your therapist be therapeutic? Is Jada Pinkett Smith being too honest about marriage? Are yall tired of talking about Jada Pinkett Smith yet? And making friends as an adult...Can you build community in an era of no new friends?

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. Drink up!

This week’s hot list: New therapist energy, getting paid, those Jada and Will relationship goals you have, have been shattered, now what? Friendship, marriage, building community pre & post covid vibes, work friend politics, and mad other ish 


EPISODE TIMESTAMPS
Mental health & wealth out this bitch: 3:54
Donation Libations: 12:36
Affirmations: 16:14
Jada Pinkett Smith, marriage, misogynoir & media: 17:21
Making new friendship, building new community: 43:00



Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!


COME TO AFROS & AUDIO VIRTUAL PODCAST FESTIVAL!
Enter code AFAUTQJ21 for 25% off your ticket at https://www.afrosandaudio.com/podcastfestival 

WEBSITE
Teawithqueenandj.com 


SOCIAL MEDIA 
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DONATE
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J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm 


Send us snail mail:
Tea with Queen and J.
P.O. Box 1617
229 East 85th Street
New York, NY 10028

This week’s closing clip features Moschini Dorito- Heterophobic Mobsters https://www.tiktok.com/@moschinodorito/video/7023785346269760774?

This episode was created, hosted, and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis with editorial support from Candice Jones, social media & production support from Channél Jordan, and graphic design by Jo Caraballo

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Opening song by Ohene Cornelius

Segment Music by Chad Milner

#302 Will Smith Is Not Sacred

In this episode, I close out this chapter of QueerWOC with a compilation of highlights from the nonpareil I had the luck of calling my sister, Nikeeta Slade. Yall got to know Nikeeta as the womanist worker wordsmith wizard or the Leftist luminary labor lecturer, but I wanted to compile this mixtape to highlight Nikeeta, one of the greatest organizers and Proletariat Black Feminist theorists of our time. I hope yall enjoy this collection of her speeches, laughs, and insight and will see yall in December (her birth month) for the new chapter of QueerWOC. Forever love ya, Nikeeta! 

The Mixtape starts around 15 minute mark

Ep 26: Burger King Breakups https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/burgerkingbreakups
Ep 40: L Words https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/lwords
Ep 70: Thats Not What We Asked For https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/ep70

ISO Socialism 2013 Speech https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S7q5EsbfJLk&t=2445s

Ask Howie and Angela: Towards a Strong Green Party # 5 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUJ6b7gO83I&t=3236s

Spotify Playlist I made for Nikeeta: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2y1IrDfGMTXwivUfSxycpe?si=285374fe8cbf4431

The Nikeeta Mixtape

Dr. Money is back from a grief break with a breakdown of different ways to move through grief and yet another curved chronicle. Spoiler alert: it includes business cards! 5 time WNBA champ Rebekkah Brunson is QueerWOC of the week and the pod has some new sounds thanks to @Abundanc3Beats.

Intro by @truthizmagic

Transition and outro by @abundanc3beats  https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/lotus-tape-vol-1
https://songwhip.com/abundanc3beats/drift-wood


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QueerWOC of the Week 00:05:50
Rebekkah Brunson
She is the only WNBA player to win 5 championships 
https://lavendermagazine.com/our-lives/lavender-community-pride-award-for-lgbtq-individual-rebekkah-brunson/

Mental Moment with Money 00:17:38
Stages of grief is a lie! 
The 5 stages of grief model, also known as the Kubler-Ross Model of grief, was developed by Swiss psychiatrist Elisabeth Kubler-Ross in her 1969 book On Death and Dying:
Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.
Meaning Reconstruction and the Experience of Loss (American Psychological Association, 2001)
Other models of grief
Before and After Loss: A Neurologist's Perspective on Loss, Grief, and Our Brain by Lisa M. Shulman 
“Grief brain” model 
Dr. Tracey Marks 
High Low model
Shock Trajectory model 
Disenfranchised grief & Stolen Grief 
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL2QpphEeZFYwk6-WXD6hpA
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.2190/T9GT-QJCU-ADJP-37ER
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12416919/
https://www.mcgill.ca/oss/article/health-history/its-time-let-five-stages-grief-die
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/five-fallacies-of-grief/


Topic 00:50:44
Moving to a Black city! What up Philly

Curved Chronicles 00:56:30
Business cards at the club

Community Contributors Now Credits 
This episode of QueerWOC the podcast was made possible thanks to the monetary contributions of Tiff V; Alyssa Gable; Lei Crowe; and Joan B. who became new patrons

This episode was also made possible by the listeners in Saint George, Grenada; Walled Lake, Michigan; and Anchorage, Alaska

Ep 106: Grief Brain Gang

777.COM

2. 4 Get It (ft. Oliver Chris)
(Sampled “Four Page Letter” by Aaliyah Produced by Timbaland 1996 Atlantic Records) Written by Bambihanna/ Chris Oliver 
MM By Donovan Bennett

Retrograde

4 Get It ft. Oliver Chris

Slow Down (Bugz Gutta & Pink Gorilla diss)

Welcome to "QueerWOC: The Podcast". Join Dr. Money, Black Lesbian Troublemaker by day, Relational Therapist by other days, in this biweekly audio speakeasy that unites, ignites, and excites the queer women of color community. #QueerWOC is a space for queer folks of color rooted in reimagining healing, identity, and community. Join the conversation by sliding in the QueerWOC DM's!  
Follow @QueerWOCpod on IG and on Tumblr | @QueerWOCpod on Twitter
Follow the creator: @bettathanmoney
Keep the guns blazin' for Nikeeta: @afroblazingguns

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