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The Characteristics of Righteous Wife - By Abu Khadeejah

[10/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 1] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Harmonising between the rights.
- The virtue of attending the gatherings where Allāh is remembered.
- The greatness of the rights of the husband.
- The reason Allāh has given the men authority over the women.
- The different and distinct characteristics possessed by men and women.
- Changing the name of something does not change its reality.

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[18/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 2] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The husband and wife are awliyā (friends, helpers, supporters) of one another.
- Our nature defines our roles.
- The obligation and great reward for fulfilling the duties towards the husband.
- Three things that bring about happiness and three that bring about misery.
- The woman/man should be a good investment for the other.
- The husband and wife remain allies to one another regardless of the circumstances.

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Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Husbands also have duties towards their wives.
- The wife being patient in times of hardship and grateful in times of ease.
- The calamity of the whisperings of shaytān and evil advisors upon a marriage.
- Obedience to the husband is given precedence over optional acts of worship.
- The corruption caused by the indoctrination of liberalism, communism and other ideologies.
- Advising the husband in a manner that brings about benefit.
- Ahādith regarding the consequences of a woman being disobedient to her husband, dishonouring him and being ungrateful. 
- The importance of intimacy between the spouses.

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[09/10/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 4] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The importance of protecting yourself and your family from the traps of modern society.
- The great blessing of being granted a righteous, Salafī husband.
- Beware of ingratitude to your husband.
- The excellent example of Khadījah (رضى الله عنها).
- Ahādīth regarding the rights of the wife over her husband.
- Ahādīth regarding the duty of the man to provide for his family.
- Being grateful for what Allāh has given you.

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Some points discussed during this lesson:

– The different ways in which people seek happiness.
– Remembering death.
– The sad existence of constantly being in a state of anxiety.
– The reason people chase the dunyā and busy themselves with constant entertainment.
– That which will bring us happiness and joy.
– Goals that every one of us should actively seek.
– The inevitable questioning in the grave.
– The three main affairs happiness and contentment of the heart are built upon.
– Prioritising what is most important in our lives.
– A warning against vain, selfie culture and seeking validation from others.
– Evil traits cultivated in modern society and the detrimental outcomes.
– The real men and women of courage and piety we should emulate.
– Means that lead a person to happiness and contentment of the soul.
– The attitude of the noble believer who is content and joyous at the bounty of Allāh.
– The root and foundation of happiness.
– The “happiness” of the disbeliever vs the happiness and contentment of the believer.
– The fruits of embracing īmān and following the Book and the Sunnah in times of affliction.
– Constantly supplicating to Allāh and having certainty that He will answer.
– The attitude of the believer in times of ease and calamity.
– Encouragement to marry young.
– Loving for Allāh.
– An encouragement to build families and migrate to the lands of the Muslims.

Questions:

1. Is watching anime cartoons ḥarām, as they contain shirk and reading minds etc?
2. The ruling on saying Bismillāh in the toilet if you need to make wudū’.
3. Advice on marrying a non-Salafī sister if you think you can give her da’wah.
4. Can I pray ‘Ishā from 12 midnight to Fajr, and is there a time when ‘Ishā ends?
5. Can I work for a finance company as a sales broker?
6. What do you do with money from something ḥarām after you find out it is ḥarām?
7. Is plucking your beard by hand a major sin?
8. Are we allowed to wait outside for the khuṭbah at a non-Salafī masjid?
9. Question regarding ‘Dawah Man’ and his new ‘club’.

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Some points discussed during this Khuṭbah:

- Reflecting upon the passage of time and preparing for the inevitable meeting with Allāh.
- Affairs that bring about the love of Allāh.
- Reciting the Book of Allāh with contemplation and understanding.
- Diligence in worship.
- Inculcating the characteristic of taqwā within ourselves.
- Seeking nearness to Allāh by purifying our hearts, wealth, garments etc.
- Striving to perform the supererogatory acts.
- Remembering Allāh in every situation.
- Loving what Allāh loves and hating what He hates.
- Reflecting upon the Names, Attributes and Actions of Allāh.
- Accompanying those who recite and act upon the Book of Allāh and constantly remember Him.
- “Say (O Muḥammad ﷺ to mankind): ‘If you (really) love Allāh then follow me, Allāh will love you and forgive you of your sins. And Allāh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.’” [Sūrah Āli ‘Imrān 3:31]
- Imām as-Sa’dī (رحمه الله) on the status of ṣabr with Allāh.
- Secluding oneself with Allāh, particularly in the last third of the night.
- Removing all barriers/obstacles that may come between a person and Allāh.
- Imām as-Sa’dī (رحمه الله) on the verse, “O you who believe! Answer Allāh (by obeying Him) and (His) Messenger when he (ﷺ) calls you to that which will give you life, and know that Allāh comes in between a person and his heart. And verily to Him you shall (all) be gathered.” [Sūrah al-Anfāl 8:24]
- The reality of the heart and how it changes.
- Two supplications we should be plentiful in saying.
- The manner in which we should worship Allāh.

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– The evidence of the Fervent Desire (ar-Raghbah), Dread (ar–Rahbah) and reverence and Humility (al-Khushu’) is the saying of Allah, the Most High: “They used to hasten to acts of devotion and obedience to Allaah, and they used to worship Allah upon love and desire, and upon fear, and were reverent and humble before Allah.” [Surah al Anbiya 21:90]
– Explanation of Shaykh Fawzan
Definition of Raghbah, Rahbah and Khushu’.
– Detailed explanation of the above ayah.
– The manners of the way the Prophets call upon Allah – between fear and hope.
– The three categories of worship are a refutation of the Sufis.
– Meaning of khashya  (fear) with specific details.
– Explanation of Shaykh Uthaymin
– Definition of Raghbah, Rahbah and Khushu’.
– Explanation of the two types of du’a.
– The meaning of du’a in the above ayah.
– Detailed breakdown of the three categories of calling upon Allah.
– Explanation of Shaykh Zayd al Madkhalī. 
– Detailed meaning of Raghbah, Khashya and Rahbah.
– Note: learning from the scholars teaches us not fear the blame of the blamers.
– Question regarding advice for revert who wants to study in college instead of studying Islām.
– Question regarding following madhab and its conditions.
– Question regarding when it is permissible to join Maghrib and Isha.

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