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The Characteristics of Righteous Wife - By Abu Khadeejah

[10/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 1] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Harmonising between the rights.
- The virtue of attending the gatherings where Allāh is remembered.
- The greatness of the rights of the husband.
- The reason Allāh has given the men authority over the women.
- The different and distinct characteristics possessed by men and women.
- Changing the name of something does not change its reality.

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[18/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 2] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The husband and wife are awliyā (friends, helpers, supporters) of one another.
- Our nature defines our roles.
- The obligation and great reward for fulfilling the duties towards the husband.
- Three things that bring about happiness and three that bring about misery.
- The woman/man should be a good investment for the other.
- The husband and wife remain allies to one another regardless of the circumstances.

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Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Husbands also have duties towards their wives.
- The wife being patient in times of hardship and grateful in times of ease.
- The calamity of the whisperings of shaytān and evil advisors upon a marriage.
- Obedience to the husband is given precedence over optional acts of worship.
- The corruption caused by the indoctrination of liberalism, communism and other ideologies.
- Advising the husband in a manner that brings about benefit.
- Ahādith regarding the consequences of a woman being disobedient to her husband, dishonouring him and being ungrateful. 
- The importance of intimacy between the spouses.

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[09/10/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 4] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The importance of protecting yourself and your family from the traps of modern society.
- The great blessing of being granted a righteous, Salafī husband.
- Beware of ingratitude to your husband.
- The excellent example of Khadījah (رضى الله عنها).
- Ahādīth regarding the rights of the wife over her husband.
- Ahādīth regarding the duty of the man to provide for his family.
- Being grateful for what Allāh has given you.

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[23th October 2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 6] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

- Guarding the secrets of the home.
- Maintaining one’s physical appearance and beautiful character.
- The importance of seeking the husband’s permission and consulting with him.
- The prohibition of asking for divorce without a valid reason.
- The importance of cultivating our children, and the outcome of not doing so.

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[30th October 2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 7] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

[Lesson 07]

- The outward manifestations of the state of the heart.
- The impermissibility of reviling and cursing one’s husband.
- The necessity of gratitude to one’s husband for his good treatment.
- How the Prophet ﷺ was in his home.
- The meaning and ruling of a woman removing her clothes outside of her husband’s home.

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Ustaadh Rasheed Barbee - Khutbah At Masjid Rahmah

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Points Covered:

• What is the connection between Fearing Allāh & His Command to be Truthful?
• The 2 Attributes: Taqwa & Sidq

TAQWA
• What do the Scholars often advise with?
• What brings about Taqwa
• What is the Definition of Taqwa?
- Talq ibn Habīb (رحمه الله‎)'s Comprehensive Definition
- 'Abdullāh Ibn Mas'ud (رضي الله عنه)'s explanation of how Allāh deserves to be feared
- Can a blessing be a trial?
- What did Alī ibn Abī Tālib (رضي الله عنه) say Taqwa is?

• What does Taqwa bring to us as servants of Allāh?
- Reflections upon the Narration of Alī ibn Abī Talib (رضي الله عنه) when he entered the Graveyard
- What is The Best Provision you can take the moment your afterlife begins?
- What did the Mufassir, Imām al-Qurtubī (رحمه الله‎) say concerning the Ayah 131 of Sūrah an-Nisā?
- What is the thing that can properly rectify a Slave, bring about all-round goodness & give the greatest of Rewards?

• The Messenger ﷺ's advice on Taqwa:
- Hadith of Irbād ibn Sāriyah (رضي الله عنه)
- The case with Mu'ādh ibn Jabal (رضي الله عنه)
- What does Taqwa bring for a person of immense importance?
- The Dire Need we have for Allāh

• The Blessing given to Sulayman (عليه السلام‎), his Du'ā & what this lead to

•  What is the deep connection between Travelling (Safr) & Taqwa?

• Some of the Benefits of Taqwa
- Explanation of The Affair of Hardship & Ease
- Explanation of The Matter of Protection & Success
- How do/don't we deal with a matter when we are tested by Allāh? 
- The Affair of Sins
- The Affair of Confusion & Clarity in the Deen
- The Supplication of Shaykh al-Islām Ibn Taymiyyah (رحمه الله‎)
- The Promise of Allāh

• What do we do when we feel weak/have been wronged/plotted against/unable to defend ourselves?
- 2 Stipulations in the Qur'ān for Not being Harmed by others
- Who does Allāh love? Who is Allāh with?
- What did Allāh say pertaining to the Aid given in the Battle of Badr?

SIDQ
• What brings about Sidq (Truthfulness)?
- Is Sidq only connected to what you say (via speech)?
- How can we be amongst the Truthful ones?
- If we want a message to be accepted, what is incumbent upon us?
- The Supplication of Ibrāhīm (عليه السلام‎)
- What was the Messenger ﷺ known as?
- Warning against being untrustworthy amongst one's community
- The case with Abu Bakr (رضي الله عنه) & a sign of Prophethood 

- How can we bring about good for ourselves?
- Why a person is not blessed when they perform certain actions

• Benefits from the Hadīth of Shaddād ibn al-Hād (رضي الله عنه)
• Benefits from the Hadīth of Jābir ibn Abdillāh (رضي الله عنهما)
• Benefits from the Hadīth of Anas ibn an-Naḍr (رضي الله عنه)

• Attributes of a Hypocrite (Munāfiq)

• How Rectification can be corrupted
• A Fā'idah from the narration of those that were Trapped in the Cave
• Hadīth of desiring to be from the Martyrs
• What will help us on the Day of Reckoning?

• The Supplication of 'Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb (رضي الله عنه)

• Reminder of how a person's mindset should be

"O You Who Believe! Be Afraid of Allāh & Be With Those Who Are True" - Shaykh Abu Idrees (حفظه الله)

[01/09/2023] "Advice to Salafi Families in Birmingham" - By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul Wahid حفظه الله. Masjid Salafi, Small Heath, Birmingham, UK.

Some points discussed during this lesson:

- The growth of the Salafī da’wah in Britain.
- That which is required from those in the field of da’wah.
- Some of the fitan that took place in the 90s.
- Allāh’s reminder of a reality that is within man. 
- The one who brings destruction upon himself.
- The erroneous way in which some Muslims measure success, and the outcome of this.
- The inevitable regression of our children if they are left to be socially engineered by state schools.
- The bliss of Jannah, and those for whom it has been prepared.
- The true measure of success in life.
- Aḥādīth regarding the fitnah of women.
- Protecting ourselves and our children from trials and the pathways that lead to fornication.
- The honouring of women in Islām.
- Allāh’s command for both the believing men and the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts.
- The great importance of guardianship in Islām.
- The nature of men vs the nature of women.
- Encouragement to marry our children off early. 
- How a man should interact with his wife.
- The reality of what this society is about and where it is headed.
- The honour marriage gives to a woman vs this society of promiscuity.  
- The foundation of a Muslim home.
- Admonition for the men to take charge of their homes and provide for their families.
- The example of ‘Abdur-Raḥmān b. ‘Awf (رضى الله عنه) regarding how a strong, believing man behaves.
- The fruits a man will enjoy when he takes responsibility and strives to provide for his family.
- True richness. 
- Advice to get out of these countries and make hijrah.
- The worthlessness of the dunyā to Allāh.
- The reason the Prophet ﷺ feared wealth for his ummah.

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Rasheed Barbee gives an explanation of the hadeeth of the Messenger (sal Allahu 'alayhee wa sallam): The Muslim is the one from whom the Muslims are safe from his tongue and his hand. He shares his advice based on this hadeeth to the sisters of Masjid Rahmah during their annual luncheon.

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