This week's episodes features Sex Advice Columnist at Men's Health and Relationship Columnist at Queer Majority, Zachary Zane as we SEXPLAIN IT ALL! We discuss having "safe" Kinky sex during covid and sex club etiquette now vs pre-pandemic. Can you guess which 3 word phrases are the most popular in bed to men? We give you the answers in this week's Vanilla Sh-t. Hoe Fax for this week's let's you know how much your nose can assist you in achieving orgasm and then we bring you sex tips for men with men and men with women courtesy of our guest! 

The Whoreible Decision this week is Sexplanations to Common Dating Issues and sex. We provide how we would riddle common dating issues and problems that arise in the bedroom. 

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Ep189: Sexplanations Feat Zachary Zane

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!


On this episode…Should we still use the term white supremacy or is it overdone, over used, and affirming all the wrong things? Also, what we’re watching, including Black queer narratives in our collective Black history, and catering to white fragility on the timeline


This week’s hotlist - Sex, cuddles and healing. Routines, rituals and time for activities. Going braless and wearing comfort lingerie and dassit! Cheryl Dunye, The Watermelon Woman and queer Black narratives. Vampires vs. the Bronx, BX STAND UP!! Coddling white folks, ain’t nobody got time for that. Black spirituality for freedom. Getting ahead of voter suppression, racism in Canada EH! and mad other ish...

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EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 
Libations 6:09
Donation libations 21:31
Affirmations 23:22
White Supremacy vs White Narcissism 28:05
What We’re Watching 1:08:30
News That’s Not News 1:25:53
Pay Black Women 1:36:15
The Pit 1:41:29


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NEWS THAT’S NOT NEWS LINKS 
Vote.org - provides the following information: Registration status, Voter Registration, Sign up for election reminders, Polling place locator, Request an absentee ballot so you can vote by mail, Early voting calendar 

Organizations dedicated to reducing voter suppression in the USA: 
The League of Women Voters: LWV.org
The American Civil Liberties Union: ACLU.org
Election Protection: 866OurVote.org 
Fair Fight: FairFight.com
The Asian Americans Advancing Justice: AdvancingJustice-alc.org
Black Voters Matter Fund: BlackVotersMatterFund.org
Voto Latino: VotoLatino.org
 
NOTES AND EXTRA TEA
Listen to episode #265 “I May Destroy You” review: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/265-i-may-destroy-you
 
Check out Ev’Yan Whitney’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/
 
This week’s hashtag: #JusticeForJoyce
 
This week’s closing clip features Pat Parker (1978) from her poem  “For the Straight Folks Who Don't Mind Gays But Wish They Weren't So Blatant” https://twitter.com/soafricane/status/1308459937916481544?s=11

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima & Janicia with editorial support from Sam Riddell


Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

#266 Affirming White Supremacy or Nah?

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#266 Is It Even White Supremacy?

When you hear the word hypnosis what is the first image that pops up inside of your mind? 

For me… I envisioned staged Las Vegas shows, or brainwashed volunteers being controlled like puppets. 

This week I am joined by Natalie, a licensed hypnotherapist to talk about how this form of therapy has given so many individuals a breakthrough. 

We chat about how hypnotherapy has impacted her clients with sexual trauma, the importance of self affirmation, and so much more. Our minds are very powerful and Natalie guides her clients through their own mind, instead of “brainwashing” or “controlling” it 

If you have anyone in your life that has experienced something traumatic and traditional therapy hasn’t helped, send them this episode to see if hypnotherapy may be right for them!

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Healing Through Hypnotherapy

We are back with an episode that no amount of words can describe. Michael K Williams, the man behind Omar Little, Chalky White, and yes Mr. Montrose "Eff Yo Kids" Freeman is here on the spaceship!
It's a collaboration between @SafeNegroPod & the @ForAllNerds team, as we deliver one of our most heartfelt interviews ever. No lies detected, fam.
Plus we dive into what is the difference between critiquing and straight hating, we answer a plethora of Geekquently Asked Questions, and some of that good old Comics I Copped.

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Mandi B & WeezyWTF and this week they are joined by Podcaster Brianda, and they discuss the difference between being obstinate and celibate. The whoreible decision this week is about sex stories in the bible and Brianda has shocker for you, and lots more!!!



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Ep190: Bible Bussy Banter (Ft. Brianda)

This week the ladies are joined by Daya, an anal expert and self-proclaimed BDSM Bottom Betch! The ladies start off in a quite serious conversation as Daya shares how she found her love for BDSM through an abusive relationship and how she had to learn to differentiate what was pleasure and what was unacceptable with her problems. 

Ever had sex near a grave? Well for this week’s Vanilla Sh-t we share how a couple was caught and this lead to the group highly considering whether they would enjoy a sexual adventure in a cemetery. Our guest shares how she is a real life anal acrobat and the strangest anal story we have all ever heard! It’s only right that the Whoreible Decision is anal tips and BDSM!! 

Follow this week’s guest on Twitter @Daya_dare and visit her website dayadare.com

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EP 194: Cemetary Sex & a Bottom Betch (Ft. Daya)

Have you been thinking about starting a podcast? Pondering on if it’s the right move for you? If you’re worried that the industry is too saturated, let me tell you...there’s always going to be competition. If there isn’t any demand, you don’t want to be there. I want to encourage you that what’s in your mind hasn’t yet come into the atmosphere. And that’s okay because podcasting is exponentially growing, and it’s going to grow when you release your show. In this week’s episode, I’m here to help you figure out if it’s time to stop sitting on that idea, press record, and start the podcast you’ve always wanted to. Here’s a hint: you have to start before you’re ready. Check out this episode and others on , , , and .&nbsp;&nbsp; This episode is brought to you by: Give the gift of Native and get 20% off your first order by going to  or by using the promo code “sidehustle” at the website checkoutTo apply today for marketing, media and tech makeovers at no cost, to help you and your business RISE visit:  Explore your creativity at . The first 1,000 people to use this  link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership.As a Side Hustle Pro listener, you’ll get three months free when you roll your first payroll. Sign up, and give it a try at . Links mentioned in this episode     Click here to subscribe via RSS feed (non-iTunes feed):  Announcements Join our Facebook Community If you’re looking for a community of supportive side hustlers who are all working to take our businesses to the next level, join us here:  Guest Social Media Info Side Hustle Pro –

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This episode is brought to you by Mocha Fest. Follow on Instagram @Mochafest and visit their website mochafest.com to see upcoming dates and events. 
On this week’s episode the duo are guestless as they take you back to their trip in Mexico during Mocha Fest. Weezy and Mandii both start with a catch up on their personal lives and how Covid has truly effected them both mentally and professionally. The Vanilla Sh-t segment visits “Maintenance Sex” and the pros and cons of maintenance sex in a relationship. The Whore’derve segment brings some tips on intimacy from another angle- literally UPSIDE DOWN! Weezy and Mandii both share their experience with their recent trip to Mexico for their time at Mocha Fest Cancun. 
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Ep196: It Happened at Mocha Fest

On the next to last episode of the year, Tatiana and Benhameen return to discuss the Disney Investor Day news, and why it seems that Disney is about to give Netflix, HBO Max and whoever wants it a run for their money.
We discuss which of the properties we are most looking forward to, we answer a bunch of listener questions in our GeekQuently Asked Questions segment, and Tatiana finally manages to snag herself a PS5...

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Disney Is The Death Star

Just when we thought we were done... they keep pulling us back in. Yes. We did it. We watched Wonder Woman 84. Not only that, but we brought in Janicia F of Tea With Queen & J, and Rodimus Prime from The Black Guy Who Tips for an all star session about what went right, and what went very wrong with Diana. Press play and get ready, cause we pull no punches and we spoil what may have already been a bit rotten in this one. You're welcome, and Happy New Year!!!
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Wonder Woman 84 Special Review Feat. Janicia F & Rodimus Prime

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