Is there a right way to fight in a relationship ?

It is safe to say that the Walk Of Shame Radio Podcast Tribe is no stranger to concept we touch on every single show that relationships are tough and take tons of work and communication.
 
This week Tony and I touch on the art of "fighting".
 
A lot of people think it is in fact, normal for couples to fight and if the fights aren't occurring on a regular basis something is wrong.
 
HELL NO!
 
This thought is EVERYTHING wrong with relationships and we are here to speak about the healthy balance when it comes to disagreements with you and your SO. 
 
First the term FIGHT rubs me the wrong way. As we are the engineers of our own mind I want to make clear my definition of a "fight" before we dive to deep into this conversation. 
 
Fight- Lack of communication that leads to one purposely saying harmful things leading to uncontrolled emotions. 
 
(While listening to this episode keep in mind when we say fight we mean)
 
Adult Disagreement- a disagreement between to individuals that are yet to be on the same page but have full potential to be aware of each others opinions. 
 
Before you dive into this episode here is a small piece of advice we speak about on tackling an issue right when it arises.
 
While doing this In an appropriate manner you are not letting the issue linger and evolve into a FIGHT.
 
The sooner you talk about your insecurities the sooner you get back to loving each other. Which is the point of sharing emotional space with this person that you chose to explore. 
 
Before you dive into this episode keep in mind...
 
  ...being passionate about your opinions is a beautiful thing, but what can become more beautiful is learning and growing together with someone who was once a complete stranger to you but by the grace of the universe, two individuals came together for a reason.
 
Enjoy! 

The Right Way to Fight in a Relationship

Let's be Real...

If you wanted to change your life...to go in a different direction...to follow that dream job or find that dream relationship...you could do it...right now!

So, why hasn't it happened?

With all of the self-help books and seminars and podcasts and millions of motivational memes populating your news feed everyday spelling out how to go about changing your life...why haven't you done it yet?

You have all the answers...why do you keep failing the test?

This week is all about letting you know that you are definitely not alone...the self-help industry makes $10 Billion a year and most of that is selling to people who have already purchased a number of books or who have gone to a Tony Robbins seminar.

I know that YOU know that you know HOW to make changes but for some reason you just haven't been able to get past that wall.

Well, there are actually a few reasons why you haven't jumped over that hurdle and most of it has to do with the fact that your are still a caveman or cavewoman underneath those vans slip-ons.

The show is about uncovering the forces inside you that won't let you pursue your dreams...and the way you can take action around that force to create the changes in your life you want so badly.

Take a listen and if you have any questions, hit me up at tony@javabud.com or head over to www.javabud.com to check out my other videos and podcasts.

Peace...

How Are You Failing The Test When You Have All The Answers?

This show is designed to Entertain, Educate and Enlighten you to rise above the roadblocks and confusion and live life on your own terms. Along with special guests, Tony Dufresne, PhD (Philosopher, Author, Speaker, Personal Coach) is all about EMPOWERING YOU by sharpening your critical thinking skills and sharing tips and advice on topics you face every day like feeling lost, making a big life decision, relationship conflicts, creating a sense of purpose and direction in life, being true to who you really are, dating, break-ups, finding a job, changing careers and creating loving relationships. Welcome to the Surrounded by Idiots Radio Podcast.

How Are You Failing The Test When You Have All The Answers?

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