On this episode of the show, I interview author, coach, and speaker Kris Ashley about her new book Change Your Mind to Change Your Reality. 

I want to offer a content warning for discussion around child abuse and sexual abuse for those who might need it as well. 

You can find Kris here: 
www.krisashley.net

www.instagram.com/changeyourmindwithkris/
www.tiktok.com/@changeyourmindwithkris
www.facebook.com/changeyourmindwithkrisashley
www.youtube.com/@changeyourmindwithkris

You can find Kris' book here: https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mind-Reality-Relationships/dp/1738641600

and here: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/change-your-mind-to-change-your-reality-kris-ashley/1143319377

Register for the next Amplify Her Networking Group here: www.amplifyhermedia.com/networking

137. Healing From Trauma & Changing Your Reality with Kris Ashley

Have you ever put off starting something because it wasn’t 'perfect'? Maybe you’ve rewritten an email ten times, delayed launching a project, or never pursued a great idea because you weren’t sure it was 'good enough'. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.  

In today’s episode of The Brain Changers Podcast, Rebekah and Yvonne break down the truth about perfectionism - why it’s not about high standards but about fear - and how it keeps us stuck in a cycle of procrastination and self-doubt. They share personal stories of how perfectionism has held them back, how it fuels imposter syndrome, and most importantly, how to break free from it.  

If you’re ready to let go of overthinking and take bold, imperfect action, this episode will give you practical strategies to shift your mindset and start moving forward, even when things aren’t flawless.  

Topics discussed
The hidden cost of perfectionism, how it steals time, energy, and opportunities  
The Perfectionism Cycle', and how to break out of it  
How perfectionism feeds imposter syndrome, and keeps you doubting yourself  
6 powerful mindset shifts to overcome perfectionism and take action  
Why “Done is better than perfect” is the key to success  

Links and resources

Join the Mind Masters Collective
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/mind-masters

Book a Connection Call with Rebekah to find out how coaching can help you
https://bit.ly/connect-with-moonbeam

Connect with Us
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https://www.instagram.com/moonbeammonday/
https://www.facebook.com/moonbeammonday
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-king00/
http://www.youtube.com/@moonbeammondaytrainingcoac4696

Check out these FREE resources
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources

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Ep 19 | Done is better than perfect: How to get the perfectionism monkey off your back

Do you avoid the camera like it’s out to get you? Feel self-conscious the moment someone says, “Say cheese”? Or maybe you’ve put off updating your headshots because you’re waiting to lose weight, get the perfect outfit, or just feel ready?  

You’re not alone.  

In Episode 20 of The Brain Changers Podcast, Rebekah sits down with the brilliant Grier Neilson, founder of Bohemian Ekko Creative, to tackle one of the biggest mindset blocks holding people back - fear of being seen. Whether it's avoiding photos, dreading video calls, or struggling to show up confidently on social media, many of us feel exposed in front of a lens.  

But what if being seen could actually be empowering?  

With over 30 years of experience in photography, makeup, film, and editorial, Grier has worked with global icons like Michael Bublé, Janet Jackson, and Taylor Swift - but her true passion lies in helping everyday women feel comfortable, confident, and authentically themselves in photos. In this conversation, she shares how self-image, past experiences, and subconscious fears impact how we see ourselves - and how to shift that perspective so we can step into visibility with confidence.  

You’ll discover:  
Why so many people hate having their photo taken, and what’s really behind it.
How self-judgment, perfectionism, and old unconscious stories keep us in hiding.
How Grier helps women see themselves differently through the lens of her camera.
Practical tips to feel confident in photos, from posing tricks to mindset shifts.
Why documenting yourself at any stage of life - not just when you feel “perfect” - is so important.

Grier also opens up about her powerful photography projects, Feathered and Flock 50, which celebrate women in their raw, authentic beauty, helping them break through fear, embrace their stories, and leave behind a legacy of self-acceptance.  

If you’re ready to finally stop hiding, this episode is for you.  

Topics Discussed:
The psychology behind camera shyness, and why it’s not about the camera.
How perfectionism and self-doubt sabotage your ability to be seen.  
How stepping in front of the camera can be a transformative, healing experience.
Why “I’ll do it when I lose weight” is one of the biggest lies we tell ourselves.
Practical confidence-building strategies for photos, videos, and even Zoom calls.

Links and Resources

Join the Mind Masters Collective
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/mind-masters

Book a Connection Call with Rebekah to find out how coaching can help you
https://bit.ly/connect-with-moonbeam

Connect with Us
https://moonbeammonday.com.au
https://www.instagram.com/moonbeammonday/
https://www.facebook.com/moonbeammonday
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-king00/
http://www.youtube.com/@moonbeammondaytrainingcoac4696

Check out these FREE resources
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources

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Contact Grier Neilson
https://www.facebook.com/BohemianEkko
https://www.instagram.com/bohemianekkocreative/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/grierneilson/ 
https://www.bohemianekko.com/
For more information on Flock 50, visit https://www.bohemianekko.com/flock50
SPECIAL OFFER: Book a photoshoot with Grier, and mention the code MOON5, to receive an additional 5-image bundle valued at $275 (excludes Flock50 and Feathered). Conditions apply. Contact Grier through her website or socials. 



Ep 20 | Seen, not hidden: Overcoming fear and embracing confidence in front of the camera

Ever had one of those days where nothing goes to plan... your to-do list is set, every detail is sorted, and then… BAM, life throws a curveball? 

If you love having control over things, those moments can feel frustrating. But what if the key to real freedom isn’t in controlling every detail, but in letting go?

In this episode of The Brain Changers™, we’re exploring why our brains crave control, how that can actually keep us stuck, and the surprising benefits of embracing uncertainty. We’ll show you how to shift from rigid control to real flow, so you can navigate life with more ease, trust, and resilience.

What you’ll learn in this episode:
✅ Why our brains naturally resist uncertainty, and how to work with that, not against it
✅ The hidden costs of trying to control everything in your life
✅ How letting go of control actually gives you more power (not less!)
✅ A mindset shift that helps you trust yourself no matter what happens
✅ Practical ways to move from stress and rigidity to flow and freedom

Key takeaways:
🔹 Control is an illusion. No matter how much we try, we can’t control everything, so learning to embrace uncertainty is a superpower.
🔹 Your brain fills in the blanks with worst-case scenarios. Understanding this can help you challenge those thoughts and reframe your mindset.
🔹 Rigidity leads to stress, but flexibility leads to resilience. The more we practise letting go, the more in control we actually feel.
🔹 Trust is the antidote to control. When you trust yourself to handle whatever comes your way, you don’t need to micromanage every detail.

Resources and links:
Book a Connection Call with Rebekah – Find out how coaching can help you.
👉 https://bit.ly/connect-with-moonbeam

Connect with Us Online:
👉 Website: https://moonbeammonday.com.au
👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moonbeammonday/
👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moonbeammonday
👉 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-king00/
👉 YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@moonbeammondaytrainingcoac4696

Check out our FREE resources!
👉 https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources

Download our FREE 12-min full body scan meditation 
👉https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources/unwind-your-mind

Join us every fortnight!
Tune in every fortnight as we dive into fascinating topics about the mind and brain—because when you change your mind, you change your life.

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Ep 21 | How to release your urge to control (and why it's the change your need)

Ever had a gut feeling that something was off? Or felt your heart racing for no clear reason? Or maybe your mind won’t switch off, even when you’re physically exhausted?  
These aren’t just random sensations—your gut, heart, and brain are constantly talking to each other. But are you listening?

In this episode, we explore the powerful mind-body connection and why it holds the key to feeling more balanced, resilient and in control of your wellbeing.

What you'll learn from this episode:
✅ How your gut, heart, and brain communicate to keep you well  
✅ Why chronic stress throws your whole system out of balance  
✅ The signs your body’s “symphony” is out of tune  
✅ Five simple ways to re-sync your gut-heart-brain connection  
✅ Why sleep deprivation is more dangerous than you think  
✅ The surprising power of deep breathing (and how to do it right)

We also share a free resource to help you switch off at night - our 12-minute guided body-scan meditation. One retreat client told us it gave her the best sleep she'd had in months!

Timestamps:
00:00 – Teaser: The signs your body is sending you  
02:12 – What is the mind-body connection, really?  
06:48 – How the gut, heart, and brain work together  
11:34 – What happens when the system is out of sync  
15:10 – The toll of chronic stress on your body  
19:50 – 5 ways to strengthen your body’s internal communication  
28:45 – Why deep rest is non-negotiable  
31:20 – Final thoughts and what's coming next

Resources mentioned:
🧘‍♀️ Free Guided Body-Scan Meditation: [Link in show notes]  
🌿 Mind Masters Collective: A space for personal growth and self-awareness  
📞 Book a Connection Call with Rebekah: See how coaching can help you

Links and resources

Join the Mind Masters Collective
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/mind-masters  

Book a Connection Call with Rebekah to find out how coaching can help you
https://bit.ly/connect-with-moonbeam  

Connect with Us
https://moonbeammonday.com.au  
https://www.instagram.com/moonbeammonday/  
https://www.facebook.com/moonbeammonday  
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekah-king00/  
http://www.youtube.com/@moonbeammondaytrainingcoac4696  

Check out these FREE resources
https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources  
Download our FREE 12-min full body scan meditation 
👉https://www.moonbeammonday.com.au/resources/unwind-your-mind

Join us every fortnight
Tune in every fortnight as we delve into fascinating topics about the mind and the brain, because when you change your mind, you change your life.  

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Ep 22 | Your gut, heart and brain are talking... are you listening?

The Amplify Her Podcast is all about amplifying and uplifting women's voices and stories. | Every week, host Christina Singh chats with inspiring women about their stories.

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