In this episode we discuss:
•	Being sick & taking care of yourself
•	Being in a hurry to change & quick fixes
•	Comparing yourself to what other people are doing 
•	"Backsliding"

Do beat yourself up for not making enough progress? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
claireclearycoaching.com/booking-calendar/free-life-coaching-consultation
michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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54 - The Need To Constantly Make Progress

In this episode, Steve shares statistics gathered from participants who took the Divorce Suckiness Assessment, and points to areas where 70-80+ % of survey participants indicate where they have challenges.  He explains how these areas are exasperated during the traditional legal process for divorcing.  He goes on to share the alternative "Unfamiliar Path" for you to consider, which will help you move through divorce in a better way and reach a truly successful divorce outcome. 

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Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-assessment/

You Tree Support Tools
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Ep46 Past Events, Rumination, Uncertainty, Fear, and the Unfamiliar Path

Do you ever find yourself thinking:
I don’t feel motivated.
We lost the love.
This used to be more fun.
I wish I were inspired.

In this episode we discuss how to create motivation, love, fun, inspiration—and any other emotion you want.


Want help creating motivation, happiness, love? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
claireclearycoaching.com/booking-calendar/free-life-coaching-consultation
michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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Music: Higher Up by Shane Ivers - www.silvermansound.com

55 - Creating The Feelings You Desire

Do you ever find yourself:
Wishing the past was different.
Having regrets about things you’ve done.
Holding onto limiting beliefs.

If so, this episode is for you!

Join us as we discuss how to look at your past differently so you can move forward & achieve your goals.


Want help changing beliefs from your past? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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56 - Recreating Your Past

Learn how the Future You can help you now.

Book we recommend: Be Your Future Self Now by Dr. Benjamin Hardy


Want help becoming your Future Self? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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We look forward to connecting with you!
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57 - The Future You

The antonym of forgiveness is penalty, punishment. In this episode, Steve talks about how we can punish ourselves by being unwilling to forgive the injustice.  This anchors us to the pain of divorce and prevents movement towards the new life.

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Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-assessment/

You Tree Support Tools
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Ep 48 Forgiveness or Punishment

The internal side of divorce presents the loss of identity.  You realize you are not who you thought you were, but are unsure of who you are.  In this episode, Steve talks about this liminal space, and the importance of embracing it as part of transformation. 

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Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-assessment/
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You Tree Support Tools
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Ep 49 Give Yourself Space to be Alone

Do you "Got To", or do you "Get To"?  Obligation binds our true spirit and hinders progress on any journey, let alone the transition through divorce.  In this episode, Steve talks about connecting to the flame within and taking charge of your spirit's guidance.  Celebrate this 50th episode by connecting with the spiritual meaning of 50. 

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Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-assessment/
The 
You Tree Support Tools
https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/

Ep 50 Taking Charge of Your Spirit

In this episode we talk about the difficulties associated with establishing new residences as your divorce unfolds.  Steve speaks to the challenges, and offers tips for you to consider as you plan your transition. 

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Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
https://youtreecoaching.com/divorce-assessment/
The 
You Tree Support Tools
https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/

Ep 51 Transitioning Your Living Situation

Each of us has a unique relationship with chaos.  It comes in many forms within one's internal and external domains.  In this episode, Steve talks about the tug-o-war between the head and heart, and how our rational minds create chaos as it roots in beliefs of loyalty, obligation, security, superiority, control, etc.  

Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
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EP 52 The Need for Chaos

It's common for divorced men, who hear of another divorced man getting re-married, to ask "Why the hell would you get married again?"  In this episode, Steve shares his perspective on this as he approaches his wedding weekend.  

Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
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Ep 53 Why the Hell Would You Get Married Again?

So many things can lead to overwhelm.
Travel.
Covid.
Childcare.
Work.
Relationships.
Working towards a goal.

So much of our overwhelm comes from the things that are out of our control—they lead to feeling powerless, frustrated, & upset.

In this episode, we discuss what you can do to feel less overwhelmed.
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Want help dealing with overwhelm? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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62 - Overwhelm & What You Can Control

Sometimes we think our worth is based on things we’ve done / haven’t done. But, we all have value—regardless of our achievements, failures, good qualities or character-flaws. 
We’re all worthy of love & happiness.

In this episode, we discuss the differences between your identity, value, and the things you do.
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Want help feeling better? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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We look forward to connecting with you!
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63 - What Makes You Valuable

It can be challenging to make a change when you think you won’t have the support you want.
In this episode we talk about how to do what you want if you’re worrying about people judging you. 

Want to make a change? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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64 - Doing What You Want When You Think People Will Judge You

Restyling Your Wardrobe - The Game-Changer In Your Life Transition! Join Guest, Sarah Liller, Personal Stylist and Image Consultant and Host, Holly McClain, Counselor, Certified Life Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist on The Great Comeback Show.

WGSN-DB Going Solo Network 24/7 Live Streaming Radio, TV & Podcasts - #1 Internet Singles Talk Network, Going Solo TV, Going Bold TV & Everyday Life TV (www.goingsolomedia.com) for a Complete Singles Connection (www.goingsolonetwork.com) & Going Solo Community (www.goingsolocommunity.com).

Holly McClain, Counselor, Certified Life Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist. She has been in this field for over a decade supporting families, single moms, single dads and divorcing clients and nothing lights her up more than a great comeback!

This episode is sponsored by The 6 Week Comeback:
A 6 week, 1 on 1 coaching package with Holly.  Where she will coach you to a place of clarity, confidence and belief in yourself.  As you create your next best chapter of your life!

visit:www.hollymcclaincoaching.com for more details.

More about Guest, Sarah Liller...

Sarah Liller is a personal stylist and image consultant based in San Rafael, CA. She serves the entire San Francisco Bay Area and offers virtual services as well. Sarah guides women and men on how to define and develop personal style so that they can be more confident, achieve their goals, and attract their greatest desires.

Contact Sarah:
hello@stylingwithsarah.com
https://sarahliller.com/

Restyling Your Wardrobe - The Game-Changer In Your Life Transition!

Summer is over. Kids are back in school. It’s time to get back into a schedule & get stuff done!
In this episode, we discuss how to plan your days in a way that works best for you so you can feel good & be productive.

Having trouble getting stuff done? We can help you! Let’s talk.
To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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66 - How To Be Productive

In this episode, Steve highlights results from the compilation of "Divorce Suckiness Assessments", and explains why certain common themes are most challenging.   

Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
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Ep 54 Breaking Down "Suckiness"

In this episode, we're going back to basics & explaining the Coaching Model we use to coach our clients & ourselves.

To schedule a call to find out more about our 1: 1 coaching programs, go to:
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michellevasquezcoaching.com/schedule-today
We look forward to connecting with you!
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68 - Separating Facts from Thoughts

Divorce presents many areas that create stress, frustration, and discomfort.  What are you learning?  In this episode, Steve shares a simple process that allows you to face challenges with a curious eye and find where you can personally grow.  

Take the Divorce “Suckiness” Assessment:
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The 
You Tree Support Tools
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Ep 55 What Are You Learning?

WGSN-DB Going Solo Network - Singles' Talk Shows www.goingsolomedia.com (radio/video and TV) connecting like-minded individuals, that have the desire to help, associate and share with those who together want to learn more about our/themselves, plus others and start building new relationship skills to help with the Going Solo Path.

We're Life Coaches on a mission to teach you concepts & practical tools to achieve your goals & create a life you love.

We'd love to connect with you! Find out more about us at:
claireclearycoaching.com & michellevasquezcoaching.com
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Music: Higher Up by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com

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