Your attention is a commodity. It's actually the most valuable commodity in my mind.  It’s something that’s been up from grabs prior to your divorce and is certainly up for grabs during and after. In this episode, I share an exercise to help you stop the time thieves and bring your focus to what’s important now.  

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Ep. 82 Be Stingy with Your Attention

Listen as I launch Season 2.  The theme for Season 2 is “Beyond”.  We are moving beyond divorce towards the person you want to be and the life you want to live using the tools, strategies, and wisdom learned through season 1 - the transition through divorce.  

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Ep. 83 Transitioning to a New Season

Is FEAR Holding You Back? Host, Martha Davis Alexander will share her life's journey and explore FEAR and the importance of embracing the life you choose. Listen to Through the Looking Glass with Martha Davis Alexander and find your empowerment. WGSN-DB Going Solo Network 24/7 Live Streaming Radio, TV &amp; Podcasts - #1 Internet Singles Talk Network (www.goingsolomedia.com) for a Complete Singles Connection (www.goingsolonetwork.com) &amp; Going Solo Community (www.goingsolocommunity.com). About Martha... Martha spent 50 years figuring out how to leave her parents’ divorce to parents and not carry around the guilt, anger, and trepidation that remained from their divorce. She went to law school and spent decades practicing family law in an effort to stop the emotional backlash from the divorce crash into the kids. Now, she helps individuals of divorced parents of all ages break free of the emotional remnants and constraints of their parents’ divorce. She has dedicated her life to “fixing” divorce. About Through the Looking Glass with Martha Davis Alexander... Kids of divorced parents can have all the joy and support of a family, without the divorce fallout. Martha knows that individuals of divorced parents can celebrate holidays, birthdays, and all of their life achievements without a thought to their parents’ divorce. Martha knows this is possible, because she has done it! If You are still struggling from your parents’ divorce and want something better. You want your children to celebrate holidays, birthdays, and their achievements with joy and abandon, without worrying about their parents’ divorce. This is the show for you! Martha's coaching style is supportive, intuitive, creative and strategic. I celebrate with you when you realize the answers, and I do not hold back from holding you accountable – and calling your bluff when that inner voice tries to block your growth. The waves of divorce don’t have to come crashing down on you or your children. ​Join Martha, "LIVE" Weekly, Thursday WGSN-DB Facebook &amp; YouTube 6 pm PT - 8 pm CT - 9 pm ET Contact: Martha Davis Alexander, JD, Mediator, CFLC, Adult Children of Divorce Simi Valley, California Phone: (805) 422- 6865 Email: marthadalexander@gmail.com Website: ThroughTheLookingGlassWithMartha.com

Is FEAR Holding You Back - Host, Martha Davis Alexander

Is “not ever getting married again” the only thing you learned from your divorce? There is a deeper question, possibly one that resides around the question, “What was it all for?”  In this episode, Steve continues on the theme of the Hero’s Journey and uses divorce as the “falling event” that opens up the call to adventure.  He uses his own learning around dying to one’s definition of success as an example.  
 
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Ep. 84 Dying to Your Idea of Success

Your success with fully moving beyond divorce rests on your ability to accept the denied parts of yourself, or what psychologists call the shadow.  In this episode, I speak to “aimless anger,” and dive into a recent event that caused anger to uncover part of my shadow-self I have been denying.
    
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Ep. 85 Shadowboxing "Aimless Anger"

In this episode, we talk about money and it’s purpose as a teacher.  Money brings out our greatest fears, yearnings, secrets, and needs.  Our response to money, irrespective if we have it or not, highlights the path for our soul’s growth.
  
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Ep 86 Money is Your Teacher

Divorce is unlike any other life transition.  The loss of dreams and identities, that once were strong, guiding attachments, bring complex emotions that are hard to understand and release.  In this episode, I share a recent story of stored sadness catching me off guard, and how I went about releasing it.  

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Ep 87 Releasing Stored Sadness

In this episode, I speak to the importance of making investments in your bench, or support team, as you transition into the unfamiliar.  I highlight how our archetype of “The Provider,” “The Protectors” of our family can hinder us as we make the investments.  

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Ep. 88 Investing in Your Bench

Beyond the loss of a spouse, or the loss of your retirement, sits a miracle.  A miracle that lies in the stripping away of the accumulations supporting an inauthentic life.  In this episode, I explain how many divorcees were stuck living a life with pent-up intentions.  The divorce merely awakens these intentions by shedding light on changes they truly want to make.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 89 Divorce is Showing Where You Are Living Unathentically

Your ex-spouse might be a “taker”.  Their concern might be centered on how much money they can get, custodial time they can capture, or even how much joy they can take from your life.  Their self-centeredness breeds frustration, resentment, bitterness, and even anger — all of which are anchors to moving on with your life.  In this episode, I talk about how to move on from “the taker”.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 90 Moving On From "The Taker"

Divorce tension will exist until forgiven.  When it’s not forgiven, the tension turns into cycles of un-forgiveness that block one from moving beyond the divorce. In this episode, Steve talks about how to practice cycles of forgiveness so you can unleash from the stored hurt in divorce.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 91 Practicing Cycles of Forgiveness

Listen to a recap of a judge’s final verdict, which affirms the importance of keeping your case out of court.  Then, hear my take on recent headline stories regarding Jonah Hill's and Goldie Hawn’s relationship intentions.  I use these examples to illustrate the importance of being truthful to yourself and others as you move towards another relationship.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 92 Your Intention & A Must Hear Case Recap

When unfairness hits it steals your inheritance, or your inheritance of having peace right now.  Court decisions can be, and are for many, unfair.  In this episode, Steve talks about unfairness and how to respond by setting intentions across the 5-F model.  He explains how to not let unfairness continue its power over you and your ability to move on in a healthy way.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 93 How to Move Foward After Unfairness Hits

In this episode, Steve talks about the spiritual flow of money, and how we can unintentionally block this through our thinking and actions around divorce.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 94 The Spiritual Flow of Money

In this episode, I share five stories that occurred just this past week to show the divergence around what happens with divorce.  They highlight the pandemic of divorce and why it is important to separate your life transition from the case itself so you can drive towards the best outcome.  

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Ep. 95 Why Is Important to Separate Your Transition from the Case (Five Real Life Stories)

Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”  In this episode, I share a story that will help you realize how easy it is to get trapped through interactions with your ex-spouse, and how to use these events as opportunities to instill the proper habits that lead you to who you want to be and how you want to show up.  

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep. 96 We Are What We Repeatedly Do

In this episode, I cover how we can easily give away our energy, otherwise known as our power, when we allow the “divorce process,” and the players within, to have power over us. 

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power

The “divorce of the dream” is a process divorcees move through.  However, it’s not just the couple who faces the loss of dreams.  So to do children.  In this episode, I speak to the importance of practicing patience as children move through the family’s changing dynamic. 

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream

In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process.  Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing.  Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system. 

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Ep 102 Rock Bottom

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