Is “not ever getting married again” the only thing you learned from your divorce? There is a deeper question, possibly one that resides around the question, “What was it all for?”  In this episode, Steve continues on the theme of the Hero’s Journey and uses divorce as the “falling event” that opens up the call to adventure.  He uses his own learning around dying to one’s definition of success as an example.  
 
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Ep. 84 Dying to Your Idea of Success

Your success with fully moving beyond divorce rests on your ability to accept the denied parts of yourself, or what psychologists call the shadow.  In this episode, I speak to “aimless anger,” and dive into a recent event that caused anger to uncover part of my shadow-self I have been denying.
    
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Ep. 85 Shadowboxing "Aimless Anger"

In this episode, we talk about money and it’s purpose as a teacher.  Money brings out our greatest fears, yearnings, secrets, and needs.  Our response to money, irrespective if we have it or not, highlights the path for our soul’s growth.
  
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Ep 86 Money is Your Teacher

Divorce is unlike any other life transition.  The loss of dreams and identities, that once were strong, guiding attachments, bring complex emotions that are hard to understand and release.  In this episode, I share a recent story of stored sadness catching me off guard, and how I went about releasing it.  

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Ep 87 Releasing Stored Sadness

In this episode, I speak to the importance of making investments in your bench, or support team, as you transition into the unfamiliar.  I highlight how our archetype of “The Provider,” “The Protectors” of our family can hinder us as we make the investments.  

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Ep. 88 Investing in Your Bench

Beyond the loss of a spouse, or the loss of your retirement, sits a miracle.  A miracle that lies in the stripping away of the accumulations supporting an inauthentic life.  In this episode, I explain how many divorcees were stuck living a life with pent-up intentions.  The divorce merely awakens these intentions by shedding light on changes they truly want to make.  

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Ep. 89 Divorce is Showing Where You Are Living Unathentically

Your ex-spouse might be a “taker”.  Their concern might be centered on how much money they can get, custodial time they can capture, or even how much joy they can take from your life.  Their self-centeredness breeds frustration, resentment, bitterness, and even anger — all of which are anchors to moving on with your life.  In this episode, I talk about how to move on from “the taker”.  

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Ep. 90 Moving On From "The Taker"

Divorce tension will exist until forgiven.  When it’s not forgiven, the tension turns into cycles of un-forgiveness that block one from moving beyond the divorce. In this episode, Steve talks about how to practice cycles of forgiveness so you can unleash from the stored hurt in divorce.  

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Ep. 91 Practicing Cycles of Forgiveness

Listen to a recap of a judge’s final verdict, which affirms the importance of keeping your case out of court.  Then, hear my take on recent headline stories regarding Jonah Hill's and Goldie Hawn’s relationship intentions.  I use these examples to illustrate the importance of being truthful to yourself and others as you move towards another relationship.  

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Ep. 92 Your Intention & A Must Hear Case Recap

When unfairness hits it steals your inheritance, or your inheritance of having peace right now.  Court decisions can be, and are for many, unfair.  In this episode, Steve talks about unfairness and how to respond by setting intentions across the 5-F model.  He explains how to not let unfairness continue its power over you and your ability to move on in a healthy way.  

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Ep. 93 How to Move Foward After Unfairness Hits

In this episode, Steve talks about the spiritual flow of money, and how we can unintentionally block this through our thinking and actions around divorce.  

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Ep 94 The Spiritual Flow of Money

In this episode, I share five stories that occurred just this past week to show the divergence around what happens with divorce.  They highlight the pandemic of divorce and why it is important to separate your life transition from the case itself so you can drive towards the best outcome.  

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Ep. 95 Why Is Important to Separate Your Transition from the Case (Five Real Life Stories)

Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do.  Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”  In this episode, I share a story that will help you realize how easy it is to get trapped through interactions with your ex-spouse, and how to use these events as opportunities to instill the proper habits that lead you to who you want to be and how you want to show up.  

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Ep. 96 We Are What We Repeatedly Do

"Insuring success" is not something we can control.  Living in accordance with virtues positions us to deserve success.  In this episode, I provide examples of how people look to take what we own, and in doing so steal our ability to live a life aligned with our virtues.  

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Ep. 97 Deserving Success

In this episode, I cover how we can easily give away our energy, otherwise known as our power, when we allow the “divorce process,” and the players within, to have power over us. 

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Ep 98 Giving Away Your Power

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The “divorce of the dream” is a process divorcees move through.  However, it’s not just the couple who faces the loss of dreams.  So to do children.  In this episode, I speak to the importance of practicing patience as children move through the family’s changing dynamic. 

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Ep 100 Allowing Children to Divorce the Dream

In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process.  Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing.  Today’s poem, “Cherish Thorns,” speaks to embracing the thorns so your garden from here forth can produce beautiful fruit. 

Find my poetry book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B6XX8PZL on Amazon.

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Ep. 101: Cherish Thorns

In Season 3, I share poetry that came to me during my healing process.  Each poem helped me understand the complex emotions and life change I was facing.  Today’s poem, “Rock Bottom,” speaks to building awareness around the archetype driving the way we live and how the divorce provides a lesson that breaks this futile belief system. 

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