Catch Me Listening

A difficult Journey between a Father and Son.

BEYOND the BEND

Jessica Benjamin joins host John Totten for our season finale. In a wide-ranging conversation [outlined below], the renowned psychoanalyst and theorist reflects on her radical upbringing, the development of recognition theory, and the feminist lens through which she examines our persistent social dilemmas. Why does more civilization seem to generate more problems? Dr. Benjamin’s answer diverges from Freud’s, and her concept of repair exposes how often conformity is entangled with domination. From mundane conventions like parenting roles to the horrors of war and genocide, her concepts illuminate pathways of transformation through multiplicity, challenging the belief that “only one can live.” She proposes that feminism offers a way forward in the clinic and society: a chance to move beyond rigid binaries into “The Third”- a space of mutual recognition, but only if we are first willing to confront the ways we’ve been getting it wrong. 

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1. Biography and Early Curiosities - 13:21
2. Formation of Recognition Theory- 20:25
3. Feminism and Family Roles- 27:30 
4. Oedipus and Gender Binaries- 30:54
5. Reversal and Bourgeois Feminism- 37:42
6. Response to Critiques-42:44
7. Clinical Vignettes of Recognition- 48:35
8. Crossing the Bridge of Difference-54:25
9. The Third, Breakdown, and Repair- 56:05
10. Survivalism and Conflict Resolution- 66:30
11. Infant Studies and Acknowledgement- 74:14
12. Destruction and Play-79:30 
13. Escalation and Unconscious Guilt- 86:54
14. Capitalism and Supremacy- 91:00
16. Hope- 99:30 

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Produced by John Totten and Mason Neely
Music by Mason Neely
Research Assistant: Rose Bergdoll
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Episode 60: Recognition, In Real Life

O justo não está entre nos, o culpado aguarda sua sentença, lhe resta apenas esperar.

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A rock n roll song by AP Mercury recorded in Spring Valley, MN, Autumn 2025
ALL RIGHTS RESERVED
COPYRIGHT ANDREW PENDLETON, OCTOBER, 2025 

My hands REACH UP to heaven 
My feet keep the beat in hell 
My belly is still empty
If my heart is healing I can't tell
I wake up so easy
With nobody around 
It's hard to find a reason
I wish the sun would just stay down

I miss you in the morning
I miss you all the time
But the way your first smile at me
Felt Like your spirit rhymed w mine
hints and warnings in your voice 
An exploding sound from a bomb
Transformed all the noise 
Left Fighting against the dawn
There's so many open doors 
But I don't feel welcome to go through
anyway   I wasn't even invited 
would be a selfish thing to do
I miss you in the morning
I miss you all the time
I miss the way you smiled at me
Felt Like your spirit rhymed w mine
hints and warnings in your voice 
exploding sounds like a bomb
When we turned down all the noise 
Fighting against the dawn
If you could see me now
You wouldn't be impressed
I i could show you how
would you hurry up and get dressed
I still miss you every morning 
I guess thats for the best






EP Mercury

Fighting Dawn/Miss You in the Morning

Fighting Against the Dawn (Miss You in the Morning)

Really enjoying playing around with Matt Corby vocals - blokes voice is IT. Pitched up +1 semitone for copyright.

Resolution x Dog Days Are Over (JAYMAK Edit) - Matt Corby x Florence and The Machine

emii - resolution [sss]

“Resolution” is an anthemic alt-rock statement built on driving guitars, soaring melodies, and emotionally charged vocals, the song radiates both defiance and healing. The verses carry a sense of quiet determination — spacious and reflective — before the chorus erupts into a powerful wave of release, capturing the moment when pain transforms into purpose.

MOTEL Hazel

Resolution


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13:45 - La métaphore du bateau
15:00 - Conclusion
 
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Thérapie brève : pourquoi vos solutions aggravent vos problèmes

Jericho Records USA – The Story Behind the Sound

So, you’re here… and probably wondering what Jericho Records USA is. It’s not your typical record label. The original Jericho Records was an independent label my father started back in the 1950s — this one is something different. This is my life’s work. My story.

Every song you hear here was written or co-written by me. Music has been in my blood since the day I took my first breath. I grew up singing in church with my parents — my father led the music ministry, and my mother played piano. I picked up the drums at age 5, guitar by 7, then bass, saxophone in school band, and eventually piano.

I’ve been in multiple bands, written close to a thousand songs, and I plan to write at least a thousand more. I’m a graduate of Full Sail University with a degree in Audio Production, blending traditional recording with modern techniques.

I’m a man of many hats and many names — every project has its own sound, its own world, and its own voice. But no matter the name, it all comes from the same place: truth, passion, and purpose.

I’ve been blessed to work with incredible people along the way, including Dez Dickerson, the legendary guitarist for Prince and The Revolution, who recorded and produced one of my records, and Tim Gaines, bassist for Stryper, who also performed on that project. I’ve shared the stage with bands like Drivin’ N’ Cryin, Corey Taylor, Saving Abel, Hinder, Avenged Sevenfold, and many others.

Every song I create is born from something deeper — divine inspiration, lived experience, or imagination. I use a mix of real instruments, live performances, VSTs, and modern AI tools to bring each track to life.

Jericho Records USA isn’t just a label. It’s a journey. A sound. A story I’m still writing. I hope you’ll find something here that connects with your own.

- Jericho

🎧 SoundCloud.com/JerichoRecordsUSA

Psychotherapists John Totten and Mason Neely bring you this psychotherapy podcast that explores what is happening between therapists and patients, from both sides of the relationship.

Brisbane’s ‘Ultimate Party Conductor’ 

JAYMAK has been a dominant DJ figure in both local and domestic scenes over the last 13 years. 

A JAYMAK set is ENERGY. To unite the crowd into an absolute rager. No genre is off limits. It’s his unique style of open-format and scratching that’s helped him build an impressive list of residencies, including: The Met main stage, Prohibition, Kenjin and YOT Club Brisbane and Gold Coast. JAYMAK also specialises in more niche showcase nights at Sunday Service (Ling Ling’s) and Su Casa. There’s no stage too big or too small.

An exciting feature of JAYMAK’s performances is the use of his own mashups and edits. Over eight years he has created over 1,000 mashups and edits which gives audiences tunes they’ve heard before in a way they’ve NEVER heard it before. His ability to create mashups and edits was recognised early on – in 2015 – becoming the weekly mashup creator for Nova 106.9’s radio show. His edits are now enjoyed by thousands around the world via numerous DJ Pools, as well as featured on Diplo and Friends through BENZI’s Trap Series, and his latest mashup pack hit #1 on Hypeddit top 100.

JAYMAK has his sights firmly set on a big 2025 – look forward to his visit.

Mostly chilled out tunes, with a mix of political and environmental opinions. What's not to like ;)

AP Mercury: A Voice That Endures
​The songwriting alias of itinerant humanist Andrew Pendleton, AP Mercury crafts ballads that transcend genre. These are songs built on the foundation of the 20th-century American songbook, utilizing vivid lyrics and distinct harmonies to explore life's essential currents.
​His work focuses on overlooked characters and the fleeting, often painful, nature of existence. The music spans alternative rock, indie folk, and alt-country, presenting narratives of loss, love, solitude, and grief. There is a powerful undercurrent that confronts humanity's waste of its own paradise, championing kindness and community against betrayal and modern excess.
​These are not commercialized tracks. They are raw, emotional, and authentic unmastered recordings, preserved to deliver stories that demand a deep listen. AP Mercury offers an honest look at the world, revealing both what is right and what is wrong—a voice that, once heard, will linger with the listener.
​A note on the recordings: All tracks are written and performed by Andrew Pendleton as AP Mercury. These unreleased recordings are presented in their raw form for your consideration, with intention on recruiting players for future recordings.

New tracks tagged #resolution