In this episode, Victor Adams and I talk about PURPOSE. It’s all too easy for our daily lives to feel like an endless cycle of repetition. So we try to find things to give us pleasure and avoid a feeling of emptiness. The problem is, we look to everything else besides the one person who can truly give us purpose.

Psalm 57:2 tells us that God is the one who fulfills his purpose for each one of us. If we want to find the purpose we’re looking for in life, we have to set aside all the other things we turn to and start talking and listening to God.

In this episode, we learn that:
- When you don’t have a purpose, life becomes all about your feelings.
- Lack of purpose is the root of addictions and other issues.
- There’s a longing in yourself that only God can fulfill.


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Is There More To Life Than This?

On today’s podcast we’re talking about the process (or steps) we can take to get back to God. Each week, men ask if there’s a formula they can follow to live an authentic Christian life. Luckily, the path to salvation isn’t complex, even though it can bring discomfort.

In this episode, we discover that:
- You don’t have to be perfect to be saved by Jesus.
- It’s important to realize that you can’t fix yourself, you need His help.
- The way is to believe in Him, repent, give thanks and commit to change.

Are you ready to get back to God? Take a seat in the pew and join us!


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The Process

As men, we fight. 
We fight for our families to be financially stable, for our children to do well in sports, and we fight to get that new car because ultimately we fight for the things that we think will make us happy. Yet, so often we are left unfulfilled or frustrated. In this episode, John and Victor cut right to the chase and discuss our common failure to choose the right battle. 

True victory and true peace come from diagnosing our interior challenges (and wounds) and picking up the fight within. 


In this episode John and Victor talk about: 
Our tendency to go, go, go. 
The reading of the "rich fool" (Matthew 16: 21-27) 
Jacques Philippe’s book: Interior Freedom
Physical healing from interior healing! 

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The Battle Within

This week Father Stephen Gadberry (as seen on American-Ninja Warrior TV), joined John in the studio for an incredibly raw & moving interview. 

Father Stephen shares about: 
- Becoming the Man of the house at a young age
- His call to the priesthood while serving in the Military 
- The intentional seeking of discomfort through ordinary things 
- Trying to be a Saint… “The Shepherd cannot run at the first sight of Danger” 


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Getting Back Up with Father Stephen Gadberry

This week, I'm thrilled to welcome my good friend Paul George to the show. Paul is not just an incredible author and speaker; he’s a man dedicated to helping others discover the joy of living a life rooted in faith.

In this episode, we get into the nitty-gritty of what it means to live as a man of God, facing our wounds and seeking true healing. We talk about everything from Paul's latest book, Holy Grit, to his work with The Art of Living (https://www.discovertheartofliving.com/)—a nonprofit that serves not just churches and parishes, but a wide range of organizations dedicated to making a difference.

But it’s not all serious talk—we also share some laughs as Paul brings a little piece of Louisiana up to Memphis, surprising me with some authentic boudin and cracklins. We chat about everything from the best Cajun food to our mutual love for the show Swamp People. If you’ve ever wondered how alligator hunting connects to a man’s spiritual journey, you’re in for a treat!

We also dive into some exciting news about our upcoming Restored Men's Healing Conference, happening this November 14-16 in Ann Arbor, Michigan. If you’ve been feeling the call to deepen your faith, heal old wounds, or just need a weekend of fellowship with other men, this event is for you. We’ll be teaming up with the JPII Healing Center to offer talks, prayer, and plenty of opportunities to connect with God and other men on the same journey.

Register for the Restored Men's Healing Conference here 👉 https://jpiihealingcenter.org/event/restored_1114/

Restored: A Conversation w/ Paul George

Today’s episode is a special one—it’s a heartfelt look at the power of vulnerability, the journey of healing, and the courage it takes to truly cry out to Jesus. This week has been full of travel and connection as I visited multiple cities, witnessing firsthand how God is moving through men’s ministries and drawing us all toward healing and restoration.

We dive into the story of Blind Bartimaeus in the Gospel of Mark—one man’s encounter with Jesus that reminds us all of the importance of being vulnerable and bold in asking for the help we need. In today’s world, we’re often told to ‘suck it up’ and carry on alone, but Bartimaeus’ story calls us to something deeper. When everyone else tried to silence him, he cried out even louder. In that moment, Bartimaeus showed us the true meaning of courage and faith: daring to believe that Jesus wants to meet us in our brokenness and bring us wholeness.

Support the Mission 💪:

This ministry is growing, reaching more cities, and impacting more men, but we need your help to continue. With Giving Tuesday on December 3rd (and early giving beginning on November 18th), we’re praying to raise over $50,000 to bring on an additional evangelist and expand our reach. If this episode speaks to you, consider subscribing, sharing, or becoming a monthly partner with us by visiting 

https://memphis.igivecatholic.org/organizations/pew-ministries

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⏰ Timestamps:

0:00 - Welcome back & intro
2:25 - Recent travels: men’s conferences and ministry highlights
5:55 - Why vulnerability and asking for healing is so powerful
9:30 - The story of Blind Bartimaeus: crying out when others say to stay silent
15:40 - Breaking free from “comfort blankets” and reaching for Jesus
21:20 - How community and faith bring real healing
27:30 - An invitation to support our mission & Giving Tuesday details
31:40 - Following Jesus with gratitude and purpose
40:10 - Final reflections and prayer

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