Name: Third Way in Practice- Boundaries, Limits and Best Practices by The Vine Austin
Duration: 19 min 3 s
Description: This week's "Third Way in Practice" features a conversation between Fabs, Johnny and Ashley. They explore best practices of self-care, boundaries and emotional intelligence that help us maintain a third way posture as we navigate challenging relationships.

The Vine continues in our series TAKE HEART by considering a story from Mark 10:46-52. In this passage, we discover how our Savior can heal us from our blindness. 
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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Share a moment where you felt like you were aware of the presence of God. It could be through an interaction with a friend, a beautiful moment in nature, or a simple morning walk. What did it feel like? 
2. Read Mark 10:46-52? What do you notice happening in this passage? 
3. What stands out to you about the disciples telling Bartimaeus to “take heart?” 
4. When do you feel the most blind? What are things that take your awareness away from Christ? 
5. Share a moment that you looked up and your perspective changed. How did that feel? What happened afterwards? What changed? 
6. What has stayed with you from the sermon- either confusing, curious or encouraging?
7. What person or group of people do you want to illuminate who you feel like has been erased? 
8. Is there anything in this message that has helped you take heart? 

TAKE HEART: darkness

This last week of our Take Heart series, Fabs leads us through John 16 and Jesus' encouragement to take heart because he has overcome the world.  

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Discussion Questions:
1. What stayed with you from the sermon?
2. What reaction do you have when you hear that Jesus has "overcome the world."  What do you like/dislike about that idea?
3. Read John 17:13-18.  What stands out to you? 
4. How might this passage challenge Western 'sphere' ideas about positivity or triumph?  In what ways is Jesus' sphere of 'overcoming the world' different than we might understand it through our western lens?  What feels good or bad about that? 
5. Are there moments in your life when have you experienced being 'in Jesus' - what has that felt or looked like?

TAKE HEART: hope

Mark kicks off our Third Way series by telling the story of where this conviction came from and what it means to our community.

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REFLECTION QUESTIONS:
1. Most families have stories they tell again and again. What is a story your family repeatedly told?
2. How would you define or describe the Third Way to someone who didn’t know our church?
3. What stayed with you from the sermon- either as confusing, curious or encouraging?
4. Read Matthew 22:15-22. What stands out to you? 
5. What does it mean to “give back to God’s what is God’s?”
6. What about our Third Way is hopeful or life-giving?
7. What about our Third Way seems challenging or impossible? 
8. Discuss this phrase found on our website. “We choose to value empathy and compassion over certainty and absolute agreement. We seek unity in following Jesus within the essentials of our faith.” 

End in prayer with one another. Perhaps pray for these 5 weeks, that Jesus would form us in this journey- bringing a clarity of conviction, merciful view of others and a Jesus-shaped lifestyle. 


THIRD WAY: The Story of our Sacred Experiment

Welcome to the first episode of "Third Way in Practice." Today, Mark is joined by Stefani and Fabs as they explore the common misconceptions people have of the third way.

Third Way in Practice- Common Misconceptions

Mark continues in our Third Way series by exploring the difference between wells and fences, the power of a shared center, and why Jesus is enough to hold us together.

Colossians 1:15-20

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. How would you describe the difference between center-set (wells) groups and bounded-set (fences) groups? What are their key characteristics?

2. In your recounting of the Gospels, how does Jesus challenge the religious/ethnic fences of his day?

3. What stayed with you from the sermon- either as confusion, curious or encouraging?

4. Paul wrote the poem in the middle of the first chapter of Colossians to stretch the spiritual imagination of who Jesus is and what he accomplished. Read Colossians 1:15-20. What inspires adoration and worship? What inspires a sense of mystery and wonder?

5. Read Jesus’ prayer for the Church in John 17:20-23. Why do you think unity is so important to Jesus?

6. From our Third Way document, we find these words- “The Third Way is formed and shaped by Jesus — his posture, his priorities, his teaching, and his pattern of love. Rather than prioritizing doctrines or debates, we seek to organize and focus our lives around Christ.” With this in mind, what does it practically mean to have Jesus in the center of our individual lives? What does it mean to have Jesus at center of our church? 

End in prayer for one another. Perhaps, have your prayers be in response to the conversation from question #6, and pray that we would center Jesus in our lives more and more. 


THIRD WAY- Jesus at the Center

This is the second installment of our midweek conversations called Third Way in Practice. These dialogues explore the complexities and opportunities in practicing the Third Way. Today, Mark is joined by Ben Law as they discuss how the Third Way creates a path to reclaim a courageous faith. 


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Third Way in Practice - A Path towards Courageous Faith

Fabs continues our series on the Third Way by clarifying what it means that we prioritize posture over position at The Vine.  

Romans 14:1-5, 19-20

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. What stayed with you from the sermon, either as confusing, curious or encouraging? 
2. How would you describe the ‘work of God’?  Why do you think Paul says that arguing over their positions on food has the potential to destroy the work of God? 
3. Read the blessing Paul offers the Romans in 15:5-7.  What stands out to you as his priority for the church? 
4. Often we feel we have to pick between valuing position or posture (one or the other).  How is the third way different?  
5. What are the potential obstacles or risks of prioritizing posture over position?  Why do you think people resist this? What are the potential risks of prioritizing position over posture?

THIRD WAY- Posture Over Position

This is the third installment of our midweek conversations- Third Way in Practice. Our world does not equip us to have hard conversations; in fact it does the opposite. This week, Fabs hosts Abby and Dana as they discuss how the third way can provide alternative approaches to more productive conversations. 
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Third Way in Practice- Habits for Having Hard Conversations

In this sermon, Mark addresses how the Third Way creates an alternative vocabulary in a time of tribalism.

Ephesians 4:1-6, 25-32

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Interact with the quote from Abraham Heschel- “words create worlds.” How have you seen that concept at work in your own life or our world?
2. What stayed with you from the sermon- either as confusing, curious or encouraging?
3. Read Ephesians 4:1-6. Verses 1, 2 and 3 seem to address different concepts, but how are they connected? 
4. Read Ephesians 4:25-27. Is anger wrong or sinful by nature? If not, when does anger become sin? How does anger provide the enemy a foothold?  
5. Read Ephesians 4:29-32. What does this passage say about God? How do these verses challenge the church to live differently? 
6. A common practice in our world of division is to label and “other” people into tribes. What are ways we can push against that temptation? 

End in prayer for one another using Colossians 3:12-14 to be your prompt. Imagine putting on the posture of Jesus and taking off the antagonistic ways of this world.
"Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity."

THIRD WAY- An Alternative Vocabulary in a Time of Tribalism

This week's "Third Way in Practice" features a conversation between Fabs, Johnny and Ashley. They explore best practices of self-care, boundaries and emotional intelligence that help us maintain a third way posture as we navigate challenging relationships.

Third Way in Practice- Boundaries, Limits and Best Practices

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