In this episode of the Revealed Podcast, Elle Chase and Jemma Rane discuss the concept of the 'growth gap' in relationships, where one partner evolves while the other remains stagnant. They explore the importance of individual growth, the impact of disconnection and resentment, and the necessity of maintaining space and individuality within relationships. The conversation also touches on how to navigate friendships through life changes and the significance of intimacy and pleasure in fostering connection.

ABOUT JEMMA RANE

Jemma is an influential speaker on matters of the heart and a certified coach who has been collaborating with clients from across the globe for nearly 15 years to support their personal and relational growth. She inspires people to develop meaningful connections with themselves and each other while releasing the harmful roles and patterns that disconnect us and lead to passive love and fading spirits.

 

Jemma’s first video on TikTok, in which she discussed the crisis of connection that leads so many women, herself included, to initiate divorce, reached 4.6 million views overnight. Her keen ability to connect with her audience by weaving together her personal story with the knowledge she’s gained coaching individuals and couples authenticates her message and makes her followers feel seen, understood, and supported.



WHERE TO FIND JEMMA RANE

www.jemmaranecoaching.com

TikTok,  Instagram + YouTube: @jemmaranecoaching



SUGGESTED READING:

The Lessons Couples Learn From Living Apart Together - NPRHow Living 
(https://www.npr.org/2025/02/11/1230674450/the-lessons-couples-learn-from-living-apart-together)

Apart Together Is Changing Long-Term Relationships - TIME
(https://time.com/7261972/living-apart-together-relationships-essay/)

The Case for Slow Love - Psychology Today
(https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/202507/the-case-for-slow-love?utm_source=chatgpt.com)

My Partner Isn't the Same Person I Fell in Love With—What It Means and How to Cope - VeryWellMind
(https://www.verywellmind.com/my-partner-isnt-the-same-person-11711364?utm_source=chatgpt.com)


What is Eye Gazing? - Conscious City Guide
(https://consciouscityguide.com/what-is-eye-gazing/)



BOOKS:

Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas
(https://bookshop.org/p/books/urban-tantra-second-edition-sacred-sex-for-the-twenty-first-century-revised-barbara-carrellas/11368155?aid=7172&ean=9780399579684&listref=sex-ed-201-modalities-philosophy-embodiment-more)

The Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Lerner
(https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-dance-of-intimacy-a-woman-s-guide-to-courageous-acts-of-change-in-key-relationships-harriet-lerner/8863993?ean=9780060916466&next=t)

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
(https://bookshop.org/p/books/mating-in-captivity-unlocking-erotic-intelligence-esther-perel/7385511?ean=9780060753641&next=t)

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman
(https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work-a-practical-guide-from-the-country-s-foremost-relationship-expert-john-gottman/11440063?ean=9780553447712&next=t)





THE REVEAL PODCAST WITH ELLE CHASE IS PRODUCED BY:
Jonathan David at Track Cult (https://trackcult.com/) and Emma Chasin at Elle Chase (https://www.ellechase.com/)



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Ep. 1 -  The Reveal  Podcast - Jemma Rane

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